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Gossip girl

This is about me and work, not the show. Omg my work just gets better and worse everyday.


Like in, the tale of two cities, it's the best and worst of times!


People think I don't notice but I know everyone's crazy shiz and people just tell me stuff they shouldn't.

Today a customer grabbed my coworker between the legs and she liked it and sat on his lap while I uncomfortably sat rolling silverware just a few feet away. Then my coworker proceeded to pour a strong drink in front of my boss and mosey on down to the fire pit bar.


I have serious issues with this chick because she lets golfers say ad do whatever on the course when she works the beverage cart and then they come in for food and drinks expecting a show and a little slap and tickle. Um no, I can be flirty and cute but let's keep in classy.

Apparently this chick has been seen kissing the ass grabber guy... And apparently you don't get fired at my work for drinking on the job.


Bottoms up!

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💬 6 comments

  1. Robert ·

    it's so frustrating watching people get away with nonsense at work when you are busy busting your ass.

    i always get in trouble for things everyone does.

  2. metalpeter ·

    As Someone who works hard at my job.... When I see people being lazy or doing what they want not what they are paid for it drives me up a wall... It is very stressful .... In terms of the customers they should understand that you aren't her and should treat you like you and not her! That being said though I'm sure she is drinking before hand :) and Having a lot of fun... Sure she gets lots in tips just hope she isn't doing anything that isn't legal cause that gets everyone in trouble not just her.... That takes me back to a pet peve of mine and I'll leave it at this.. The company pays you to do a Job you agree to do said job at said wage so the company not you (not you personally everyone at a job) comes first... Hopefully what she is doing doesn't cause anyone else any problems....

  3. Robert ·

    no way, @metalpeter, that bitch is totally drinking on the job. soooooo many people drink on the job in the food and beverage industry. most of the people i work with do, and in the past it was the same. i don't because i'm really bad at being sneaky and would just get caught.

    if it isn't booze it's something else. lots of different substances fly through restaurants. people don't just develop stress-coping methods over night, and cooking for/serving people is a stressful thing for lots of people (not me, usually.) That being said, i emphasize "so many" and "lots" but i do not mean all. Just as many people get through the work day without a drop to drink or whichever vice you might name. but things like that are a lot easier to gain access to in the food and beverage industry - it's fast paced so a lot of things slip through the cracks while managers are running around being "busy".

    (no judgment towards anyone reading this that does any of this - if you work with me, i don't care what you do on the job so long as you actually do your job. when people turn into big sloppy messes, then it's a problem.)

  4. metalpeter ·

    I wonder if drinking on the job is allowed ? If money bags golfer buys you a drink can you turn it down really... I know some bars allow you to drink when you are on shift.... Crazy in any event.... Side note wish I drank during my job might make things a lot better......

  5. Robert ·

    not in new york state. it's not legal, but lots of managers will look the other way if you have 1 or 2, and if you buy your bar tender a shot, mostly no one cares, but it's up to the employee to stay composed and not get fall-down drunk, because then it's an issue.

    as a server, ive been offered glasses of wine from my tables but i've never accepted because of the type of place i work - they would never allow it. somewhere else, well... that could be a different story.

  6. lilho ·

    i could drink everyday if i wanted, there's no cameras and no one cares really about anything anymore i feel. but, i do a good job sober and don't feel the need to be drinking at work, even though i like it when other people are drunk and tell me crazy stories. people offer me drinks all the time, but i always say no because it is unprofessional and work is work. drinking is definitely not allowed, but there is no one enforcing rules at my work so people just do whatever.

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