"my mom's guy says" written by Lilho on estrip.org

05/26/10 11:33 - 67ºF - ID#51733

my mom's guy says

there is an unwritten guy rule that men expect major action on date 3.

really????

i told him this is bs.

i think holding out is the best power you can have.... i am testing it out right now. i'll let ya know how it goes....

enknot writes at 12:41:12 06/07/10 - Comment #56583: a sweet dude expects major action when he wants it, but by date 3 if there's no action (or attempt for action) then either you're dating a prude or you've just been made into a fruit fly. (ok that's a false choice, but the other options are less entertaining except: he's using the pressure cooker technique to turn you into an instant freak)

metalpeter writes at 05:52:21 05/28/10 - Comment #56454: I think all the rules and all The Games are all BS at some point they came from someone either getting hurt or something but those are the things that make people not want to date.......

lilho writes at 06:14:04 05/27/10 - Comment #56447: I just think the rule is bs if you like eachother you should both decide together...

metalpeter writes at 06:03:53 05/27/10 - Comment #56446: I'm no expert but this is what I have heard:

There is a 3 date rule.
But it isn't the guy who came up with this it is girls who did.
So If some guy dated girls who followed that, then that could lead them to thinking you know what happens on the 3rd date.

I have heard that because of this rule ladies often only do 2 dates and if they think the guy is special then the 3rd date happens.

I didn't even know people dated any more, HA.

carolinian writes at 04:31:50 05/27/10 - Comment #56444: Unwritten guy rule is to quickly mentally calculate your standard deviation from her estimated mean time-to-action (i.e. the time from first meeting to "magic"). Your number of standard deviations to the right of the mean indicate how badly you're being strung along/mind-gamed. If you're more than 3 to the right, you're not only being strung along, but you're probably being used for something as well.

lilho writes at 12:11:23 05/27/10 - Comment #56443: date two was last night. i told him about the three date thing... he laughed. but i could tell he is starting to lose it which is so fun for more. the thing is, he just moved back into town and is staying with his rents until he buys a condo. i told him when he get the condo then we can make the magic, but that is not for a while!!!!!! then he said something about a hotel. but really, i think he should wait if he likes me... i am not down with getting down in the parental unit. i am not moving out of my parental unit for some time, and he needs to get that condo. or take me on a weekend getaway..... this is so fucking fun!

joshua writes at 12:01:34 05/27/10 - Comment #56442: Weird. I'm "kinda hoping" on date one and "blueballed" on date three.

jason writes at 11:57:01 05/27/10 - Comment #56440: Well. I don't know if that's a rule. I don't believe in it. I also don't believe in splashing all kinds of money on the first 3 dates either. If you don't read any kind of physical chemistry there isn't much point in continuing anyway.

tinypliny writes at 11:39:59 05/26/10 - Comment #56438: So is the next one #3?

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05/02/10 03:37 - 79ºF - ID#51491

mark my words

Forming an extreme dislike of all children excluding my niece. Never having children of my own. Looking forward to some sort of retreat from all children coming soon.

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04/27/10 05:12 - 47ºF - ID#51460

jillian micheals

she is trying to kill me.

50 minutes at a time.

someone needs to stop her.

me after 50 minutes of her boot camp style workout. this shit better pay off soon. a 4 mile hike at a 1 mile incline is easier than this shit. this says something about why they pay her the big bucks on biggest loser. she wants to end the life of everyone that works out with her.

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04/27/10 01:58 - 46ºF - ID#51459

return to blogging

i have been absent.

various reasons why, the major reason being that i left my laptop charger in blo and then bought one on ebay and i turned out to be some piece of crap glued together ac adapter that didn't really work and then completely broke after a few days.

i have really been trying to workout and eat right and it takes major dedication and a good nights rest. my goal is to hike 12 miles a week and then circuit train at least 3 times a week.

i came back from my ny trip really ready to just quit the hospital. i honestly never want to work in a hospital again, thy are such disgusting places filled with crazy patients and even crazier family members.

i also will not miss the threat of nasty diseases spread easily through contact and droplets... so i am leaving to go work with special needs children full-time. really excited about this as it seem to be the perfect fit for me. i love working with kids and getting to play all day. it's also great to start my work day off with a giant hug from little cuties!!!

i also have several people who are in a need of a babysitter, which is awesome because i have established a client base with upper middle class people which means their cupboards are stocked, they have nice clean houses, they pay well, and they have sweet pools and backyards!

i will never have to work a holiday again unless i choose to and i get to call the shots!!!!

goodbye mrsa, goodbye sleezy physicians, goodbye scrubs! goodbye taking orders from ugly barking old farts! hello self-employment and freedom!!!! hello library and swimming time and park time and snack time!!!! and nap time!!!

i miss (e:hodown) and my blo peeps and hopefully if i work super hard this summer i can make a visit happen soon!

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04/12/10 04:16 - 54ºF - ID#51383

filipino women

They are so kind and generous. They always share their yummy food at work! I love it!

They are the cutest sweetest ladies I know!

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04/04/10 07:00 - 62ºF - ID#51331

earthquake Easter!

Sitting at my desk at work. Felt like I was wiggling. Totally trippy! It was an earthquake in baja California! 6.9!

Crazy!

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04/01/10 03:36 - ID#51309

through the wire

I am a fan of any song that makes use of a chipmunk voice. These songs are usually hip hop and rnb tracks.

This doesn't say much about my taste but I am a sucker for the chipmunk!!!

Kayne does it beast in through the wire. Check it out.

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04/01/10 12:09 - 46ºF - ID#51303

gorilla ho

Spent some time with the primates at the zoo. Paid 16 dolla to only be there for an hour or so.

I want to go back and rent a two person carriage bike I saw people riding...looks super freakin fun.

At least my money goes to a good cause and it was a really nice zoo.

I am so tired and physical anthropology is the worst class ever. What was I thinking.

Must sleep!!!

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03/25/10 10:10 - 34ºF - ID#51270

buff a low and nyc

I miss you both very much and buffalo most. I miss my beautiful little niece and the ethnic foods! I miss my brother and my sister and all of my amazing friends!

I had the best time ever!

I left little pieces of me there so you all can remember me though:

Weeds season 5

A trenchcoat

My macbook power cord

Eye cream

A green scarf

And of course old whitey who remains as a tribute to me and the nastiness of old 'used to be white clothing'.

Now its been back to reality and sorting out the bits and pieces and continuing on the path of growing up and getting a real life. Or a better or more loved one or something.

I miss that baby! Makes me want one of my own... Ahh!

Must hike. Must work. Must study.

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03/14/10 03:09 - 37ºF - ID#51182

dehydration torture

i arrived at the phx airport around 1030. no stores were open, and of course you are not allowed to bring liquids in. i am so thirtsy...

my flight was delayed over an hour... to be a traveller by plane is like asking for some sort of abuse/infringement of your rights...

i wish i was rich enough for a private jet... water please!!!!! oh wait, make that a mimosa!

looking for water...