"A Day Trip to the DMV and Marina" written by Paul on estrip.org

06/15/06 05:17 - 78ºF - ID#32662

A Day Trip to the DMV and Marina

I am staying late each night this week to make it so that I could take off this afternoon to go to the DMV. It took less time than I expected. In fact the DMV was all smooth sailing and I could have even done it on my lunch break.

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I had not been to this part of the Buffalo MArina in years. It was pleasantly well set up and seemed to be bumping with people. I don't know who the people are that want to live on the waterfront considering there are so many other nice, affordable places to liv ein the city. (e:lilho) says it is people with boats.

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I ate a cheeseburger for my second lunch today. They had a clam bar but I didn't notice it until after I ate the chesseburger. In fact they wine and beer plus free outdoor wifi and sitting areas. It is a great attraction that I think a lot of people don't know about.

A sign about the robberies around Roswell

A picture of the yummiest ribs they had for lunch. Came with two potatoes and corn on the cob.

The other night I cooked Tuna after the gym but I had no lemons so I tried blackberries. They worked well, it was yummy.

Our first house has been painted, finally.

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Category: citylife

06/13/06 10:50 - 66ºF - ID#32661

Matthew and Main Street

(e:matthew) and I got in a big fight about Main Street. I have a hard time discussing things with him because he yells and then I yell and then we start hating.

So here is my problem. I am scared of Main Street at night time (sometimes even in the day), should I pretend I am not? Should I pretend that when I go to the Utica subway stop that I am not harassed and that I don't freak out reading the emails I get about Canisius Students and Roswell workers getting robbed in broad daylight.

I feel like I should be interested in it's revival it but on the other hand I don't feel like it is my responsibility. I feel like I didn't create the problem, I have no degree in Urban Planning or Sociology and I am a middle class, athiest, white gay man. I seriously doubt that anyone who lives across Main Street even wants my opinion on the issue.

I really believe the only way neighborhoods can change is from the inside. Something that I feel religious groups and large scale investors (jobs, etc) can help with. However, outside of economic and spiritual investment in a community, both of which I am not able to offer as an individual - outisde change seem so forced to me.

If I go to someone else's neighborhood and start cleaning trash off the street, what am I saying about the people that live there. Maybe they want trash on their streets, maybe their live suck enough where trash isn't even really an issue. If it was me I would be offended. I mean how would you like it if someone just want to your neighborhood and changed it to conform to their standards.

I feel like the situation is out of my control. Everyone talks about the divide and that it exists. And everyone aggrees that it is wrong but what is the answer? At least I am buying a house in the city and contributing $5000 in taxes each year to the city instead of to some gated suburb.

What is the answer? Thinking about it all angers me so much. I guess that is why people move to the suburbs, lol.

shawnr writes at 09:21:54 06/15/06 - Comment #9001: Holy crap what a can of worms, Paul.

I never feel weird on Main Street. I mean, sometimes Pete's Sake is a little creepy, but I think that's because there's that bulletproof glass and it gets in my head.

I'm sorry, but I think that walking around "looking tough" is asking for a fight. I don't do that, and I've never had a problem except the small smattering of crazy people.

I think if we want to change Main St. we need to live there and use it. We need to stay in the city. The place is populated by the people who live there.

No, the real way to allay your fears is to pause and remember that even though it feels like you're hearing about a "lot" of bad things happening, it's actually rare to have a problem. If you're not afraid of being hit by a car, then don't be afraid of being hit by a person. It's like walking around in fear of lightning -- there's no need.

Rather, make a fun program where we can graph and chart on google maps everything that happens on main street and all vote on whether it is a good or a bad thing to get some kind of real idea about what goes on...

metalpeter writes at 07:40:51 06/14/06 - Comment #8949: I will admit in my younger days I was on the other side of Main St. Often. Did I have some problems yes.

Main is that invisable line that kinda divides the city but it does it by race and income level. The good people out way the bad. But no body heres about the good people or the hard working people on the news you only hear about the bad stuff. Of the maybe 5 or 6 stores I went to on the east side none of them where Black Owned only the arabs had the guts to own those stores. I think that in a city Like Buffalo whare there arn't a lot of great jobs and opertunites for people it is hard for the poor to get un poor. Plus you add racism to it improving neighboorhoods is really tough.

I think Home ownership is verry important. People who own homes have a bigger stake in the community and will care alot more about it.

I think cleaning up someones hood is a bad idea. It is like saying you guys can't keep up your hood so we are going to do it for you, it is verry insulting.

I think cultural diffeances and social class are what really devide people now a days as opposed to race. I know it is only comedy but I Chris rock has a skit about the diffeance betweens Blacks and niggas. If I where to say what he says I would sound like a Klansmen but he makes some good points.

I do think that this Medical Campus and the buildings they are working on May help break up the Main St. Divide I hope it does. It would be nice to see some areas of the city more mixed. But if there arn't jobs the the poor and disinfrachesed will still half to commit crimes.

boxerboi writes at 05:23:07 06/14/06 - Comment #8934: (e:mrdt) I've never seen paul walking down the street looking like a bitch. haha actually I have a hard time picturing it.

I'm with (e:paul). Main street is a dump and its scary. I used to run from summer best station to my apt on elmwood when i would leave school at night. although I don't really know what I was running from, I never saw anyone out past 8pm.

I hope with the current interest in creating housing downtown ciminelli, etc. will head the cleanup efforts.

maybe we can put some bench's up so the nasty beggers will migrate to main street instead of elmwood.

chico writes at 03:53:49 06/14/06 - Comment #8928: OK, so this thread reminds me of the story in today's Buffalo News about the toy Airsoft guns that look like real 9mm's -- which can be mistaken by cops and would-be victims alike for the real deal. Or, vice-versa...here's the relevant quote:
<q>"A local incident two weeks ago showed the equally dangerous consequences of a real handgun someone thought was fake. On May 31, a bandit pulled out a handgun and ordered a 56-year-old Buffalo man to hand over all his money on Fillmore Avenue.
"I'm not scared of your toy gun," the victim said, starting to walk away, before the would-be robber shot him in the lower back with the real gun.</q> D'oh! See :::link::: for the whole story.

jenks writes at 02:35:04 06/14/06 - Comment #8925: jesus... it scares me that people even have to think like that. I have never been in a fight, have never thrown a punch, and never plan to. Maybe I'm naive. But I just walk down the street and mind my own business. And if it's a sketchy area, I don't go alone, and I don't go in the dark. I've never had a problem anywhere (New Haven, DC, New Orleans, Chicago, and of course buffalo.)

mrdt writes at 01:47:55 06/14/06 - Comment #8923: If you're gonna walk down the street like a bitch, people will treat you like a bitch.

95%of the fights I have been in were won by intimidation and knowing my opponent.

So here is what I recommend to you. Walk down the street tough - back straight, head up, shoulders back - looking like you just got out of sing-sing. Notice any traffic coming toward you and listen for footsteps behind you. DO not make eye contact with anyone but if someone decides to fuck with you quickly size them up and look for weak spots (areas you will strike first). Once they start talkin shit give them the look you get when trying to squat your max for the 12th rep. Then start yelling something crazy, when I was about to engage in a randon street fight I would yell "OCTOGON MOTHAFUCKA, OCTOGON!!!" "OCTOGON!!!" (It brings about confusion and error, most of the time your opponent won't know what to do.) Don't tense up but if you see them getting ready to strike then you'll know you have to dodge a threatening attempt then immediately strike their weak spot with a shot to the throat or grab and squeeze the testicles tightly. Once you have them within an inch of their life threaten to fuck them up if they try to hurt you.

However, act with caution if your aggressor has a weapon. Don't worry about a gun too much though, cause that motha fucka pawned it two days ago for some crack.

I recommend carrying a weapon of your own, whether it's a switchblade, butterfly knife, brass knuckles, box cutter, roll of quarters or bic lighter to add weight and surface area to your punch or sharp piece of metal.

I used to walk around Allentown all the time and never got fucked with.

lilho writes at 10:27:42 06/14/06 - Comment #8914: the suburbs are fucking ugly. ewww.

mrdeadlier writes at 09:18:58 06/14/06 - Comment #8908: "that is why people move to the suburbs"

Ding ding ding, we have a winner! I'm not going to pretend that I live in the suburbs by accident; it might sound pretentious or elitist but my life it too short to be spent solving problems for people that don't want them solved (I know there's so much more to it then that but like you said, I'm no sociologist or economist). And I'll just say it: having random people "hug" me to try and find my iPod or Treo is a rare occurence where I live.

Good point on having non-neighbors coming in and cleaning up the trash. I never thought of it that way; and I agree with you, if people from say Williamsville or Clarence started cleaning up my street in Kenmore I would be offended.

matthew writes at 08:40:03 06/14/06 - Comment #8906: I live closer to main street than i do elmwood.

libertad writes at 11:08:45 06/13/06 - Comment #8898: We all are on the same side really so I hope you guys don't fight too much. I like matthew's idea about a clean up but I don't feel that it should be a place where none of us live. Maybe we could compromise? I saw tons of trash on Elmwood between my house and the festival. Maybe they cleaned it up by now? i dunno. Who knows where to start? Any other suggestions or is the trash clean up going to be on main street?

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Category: citylife

06/13/06 06:47 - 68ºF - ID#32660

Neighborhoods

I wrote about gentrification when talking about Grant St a while back (e:paul,3819) - I agree (e:mike,505) that while it appears good for the people moving in, it doesn't always fair so well for the people being shoved out.

I really don't know what to do about the situation but I know that it is weird living next to the most segregated wall I have ever seen. Has anyone noticed that other cities are not quite as segregated as Buffalo?

We also make fun of people for being scared of the city but my aunt mentioned the other day that her brother never comes to the city because he is scared from when he was "driven out of his neighborhood." At first I though she was just referring to him feeling uncomfortable or being racist but then she explained more that as their eastside german neighborhood became a black neighborhood people even threw bricks through the windows and generally drove them out. That is a scary scenario. I have no idea what it was like in the 80s. but something was different because the mansion we rent now, which is like 6000 square feet and would go for about $250,000 now cost our landlords only $26,000 in 1986 according to the Historical Society.

Was anyone around in the 80s who can say what it was like?

Like like at UB there is a faculty member who documented the race riots of the summer of 1967.

Can anyone at UB get ahold of that for us?

Besag, Frank P. (Graduate School of Education)
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Race riot interviews, 1967. Transcriptions of taped interviews with neighborhood people, store owners, and police immediately after the race riots in Buffalo in the summer of 1967; and paperback book ANATOMY OF A RIOT: BUFFALO 1967, based on the interviews. The interviews were part of a survey commissioned by State University of New York at Buffalo president Martin Meyerson.

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Category: festivals

06/11/06 04:59 - 64ºF - ID#32659

Allentown Art Festival And MIA

The Allentown Art Festival is getting so crazy. It is bigger and bigger each year. It actually feels like you are at some big city festival. I think Buffalo is really growing. At the same time, having it so big seems almost detrimental to shopping. You seriously feel like you are holding everyone uo when you stop for a second.

(e:holly) said taking pictures of people's art is stealing. I don't really agree but it made me feel paranoid about filming the stuff.

The freakin' scientologists have littered the streets with their trash.

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Category: birthdays

06/11/06 01:48 - 53ºF - ID#32658

Birthday Pics

We had my Dad and Uncles Birthday Party today. It was much colder than last year. While there we went to a garage sale and got some furtniture for real cheap. The kid who was working the sale asked me if I likes sports. I said not really. THen he asked, "well do you like to read?" So anyone, who knows me can guess my answers. He was actually trying to sell me a book about sports

This photo was an accident. I can't believ how scared my aunt looks. It is so funny.

Story Time
We watched a bunch of old family films. It was great to see everyone so young. Even Nonna was in the films, all of which were shot before I was born.

I couldn't believe it when shooting the squirrels randomly came up after writing about it this morning (e:paul,4428) Does anyone else remember Mr. Barry from Kenmore Middle?

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The fun of amphetamines

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Syphoning Wine

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Category: robotic animals

06/11/06 12:31 - ID#32657

As Seen In Cheektavegas

My mother has a robotic animal fetish. She bought this robotic singing pink flamingo for my aunt. They are best when the batteries start to die and they get the satanic voice. This one only gets the voice when it turns it's head to the left.

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06/10/06 01:02 - 59ºF - ID#32656

Behind the Grainmills, Over The Bridge

I was pretty moved by (e:byllic,5). I reminded of all the crazy animal cruelty kind of things I saw in my life. It seems that animal cruelty and railroad track's/urban rural strecthes go hand in hand. I remember seeing numerous dead and butchered animlals behind the grain mills on Military Rd near the end of Tremont Avenue in Kenmore.

Back then it was always blammed on the Satan worshippers. Does anyone else in Kenmore remeber the wave of "Satan worshippers" from the 80s. What was up with that? I wish I was old enought to know if they thought they were real or if it was the adults perspective n the goth kids. I remember my best Friend James' babysitter got murdered back there too.

Yet I remember spending lots of time there because it was a combination of remote from the eyes of our parents and dangerous. It also had the entrance to the sewers which which played by and inside of plenty. As far as I was concerned it was as close to being in Goonies as I was gonna get.

As an industrial wasteland, I am sure it killed many more people than the satan worshippers ever did (e:paul,397)

The most graphic memory I have was going fishing with my Dad at Buckhorn State Park. I actually spent a lot of time there because the metro bus would take us to grand island, or because we would walk over the nasty bridge from kenmore. It was pretty far. I think Grand Island was one of the only places I ever hitchhiked in Buffalo. I remember it seemed so rural to me as a kid.

Anyways, I kept seeing fur in the water floating down the river and eventually followed the floating chunks to their source. A black garbage bag full of a large chopped up dog. Who chops up a dog and sticks it in a garbage bag at a state park? That image haunted me for a long time.

(MAP TO: BUCKHORN)

As a kid, I too was repsonsibile for a bit of the cruelty. I distinctly remmebr dresing up like "indians" and making bows and arrows out of sapling branches and heavy duty rubber bands. Then me and my friends would shoot the freakin' squirrels. I remember hitting the first one and feeling like it was really wrong.

I think it was because back then all the adults I knew hated the squirrels and talked about shooting them. Eiother way it was wrong and I feel guilty now.

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Category: housing

06/09/06 01:16 - 66ºF - ID#32655

Closing July 11th

The contracts have arrived.

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Category: thursday

06/09/06 12:42 - 63ºF - ID#32654

Thursday Crusaders

This morning I saw the Orchard Park Police on Main Street, what's up witht that?

I started out the evening with (e:enknot) at his friedns house, but there was a cat. Then we went to the square and (e:mike) showed up and I decided to walk around a bit.

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Metropolis Mike

(e:mike) also suffers from allergies like me

This guy has a belt made out of bullets. I think its is gross.

I entertained myself with the Satan worshippers.

There were so few protestors this week and only one sign.

(e:libertad) and I felt bad for the cute one. He needed some liberation. (e:libertad) tried to give him his phone number but the kid asked him if he was a homo and wouldn't accept it.

Hotty McJesus

Watch this video - this man goes nuts on the "christians" and then the police pull him off them at the end.

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(e:libertad) and the Hotty McJesus

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I have a thing for Hotty McJesus

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Some babble.

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Category: thursday

06/08/06 06:49 - 74ºF - ID#32653

Buffalo Wifi

Here I am at Thursday in the square again. It was so hard to rip myself away from the computer as I am getting closer and closer to my master creation javascript user interface library.

Okay I am ready to forget about it for a bit.