06/26/09 03:03 - 69ºF - ID#49087
First, was Rosa. I liked her. She was friendly, talkative sometimes, her dog was a bit loud, but she was nice and knew he was annoying.
Rosa had bbq's on her side porch and that first summer i had a few sleepless and smokey nights since our bedroom window is right across our driveway from said porch. Last we heard, she bought a house on Hoyt somewhere. The landlord didn't like her and thought she was messy.
Then, there was Casey and Charles. Nice younger couple. They had a cute little mutt that i cannot remember the name of, which surprises me. That dog would bark for about a minute in sharp, deep loud barks, but once she got to know us and settled in she barked less.
They were rarely home, but when they were, they were friendly and mostly quiet neighbours. They moved to Rochester for her work.
Currently, the couple that live beside us are, for all i know, very nice people. I just don't see that nice side of them much. I attempted to have some friendly words with them, but neither seemed keen, and that's cool, not everyone is chittychatty like me.
They have or had 2 dogs. A bigger, friendly one and another small barkey min-pin.One morning, at about 6, perhaps 6:30am, the little one began his barking and barking and barking. Those that have or know of little dogs and their insessant barking know how much it can freeze the brain. This was not the first morning of bark, but i had stayed quiet, hoping the dog would settle in time and get used to his new digs. No luck. This one morning, it seemed to go on forever and ever. So, i knocked on their front door. No answer. So, i rang the bell... and rang it and rang it and rang it. And when they answered, furious, i was polite. For about 5 seconds. It let to a shouting match. I attempted to stay on subject, but she let it stray all over the damn place, insulting many things about me, calling me a cracker bitch. Then, the dog was gone. No matter what she may or may not think, i like dogs and it saddens me she felt i may do the poor barker harm.
Shortly before this i was on my way home from work and was following a slow moving car. It signaled and pulled up in front of their house, blocking both their driveway pad and the entrance to our driveway. It sat there. I hit the horn. That is when and how i found out the horn on my old Saturn Blue Bitch did not work. So, i got out. Now, here is where the recollection of my neighbour's varies from my own, which i have to say is rather odd since she was never there in the first place. I walked up to the driver's window and asked him to move please. He would not roll down his window. So, i tapped it and he ignored me. So, i yelled through his window, "you're in my way, can you move?" He called me some name and moved. I got back in my car and pulled into my driveway.
During the incident with the dog in the morning, she told me that i was a rude racist bitch to her cousin.
Not too long ago, my husband politely requested that they park on their side of the driveway because he leaves for work early in the morning and wants to clear both cars easily. That exchange with the dude went well. He does seem to be a reasonable sorta person.
Today, they were fixing or adjusting something with the gate on the shared fence and standing on our property to do so. No one made any comments to each other, but (e:Uncutsaniflush) did notice that the ragged edges of the hand tied metal wires (the ones that Casey and Charles put up to keep their dog from running and that ripped my winter coat last winter) are turned back on our side. She did, however, make a comment under her breath that she is surprised the racists next door did not call the cops for being on their property.
Seriously? How does any of this define us as racists? Must be that all white folk are, huh?
06/20/09 01:50 - 66ºF - ID#49013
06/13/09 12:18 - 68ºF - ID#48940
We got him on Thursday from the Tonawanda SPCA. He's about 7 months, and a big, friendly, inquisitive boy. :o)
06/12/09 08:49 - 57ºF - ID#48893
Forgot, Gardens, Fire
Went to the Botanical Gardens. How could i not take a few pictures?
This one represents my extreme fear of bees... and how i needed to try to take some pictures of a big fat one.
I called 911 last night when the crakling of a fire woke me up after i had just gone to sleep... at about 2:15am. Kinda scary. The house behind us and over one had a fire in it's garage/carriage house.
06/11/09 12:57 - 63ºF - ID#48888
Holiday In Detroit
Isn't this what comes to mind when we think of Detroit?
This is what an empty urban neighborhood looks like. This one was once called Poletown.
View of downtown from Belle Island, with the landmark "Ren Cen" in all its glory...
Ceiling of the Belle Island Conservatory.
A cherry in the Belle Island Conservatory.
More plantlife in the Belle Island Conservatory.
Excellent mexican food in the Mexicantown neighborhood, not too far from downtown and the massive construction around the Ambassador Bridge. Old train station in the background...
Aren't cows cute? How can humans eat them? This one was a loud heifer in the working farm section of the Henry Ford Greenfield Village.
Wee baby lamby, just a few days old...
View from a bubble in a pane of glass in a historical house in the Henry Ford Greenfield Village.
Dark shot of an old plane in the Henry Ford Museum...
Bus that made Rosa Parks, well, a hero to many. I have to admit, i am a sap. Sitting there in that bus made me cry.
Young male elephant at the Toledo Zoo... mom is in the background.
A meerkat in the Toledo Zoo.
Looking at them all now, i realize i don't take what one could call traditional holiday snaps....
06/02/09 11:24 - 55ºF - ID#48828
147 Minus T
Refresher SCIP-R class tonight. Scheduled to be done with my boss and a long time staffer. While there, boss' iphone tells her that an individual is making accusations against me. I was expecting it because i used planned ignoring for Monday's attention seeking behaviors. Still stings a bit, though.
Friday, i "drop my t" and go from being a DAT (developmental aide trainee) to a DA (developmental aide). It's a big deal. And, apparently, the biggest single raise in pay i will probably ever get. I made it a whole year.
But has it been worth it all?
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That being said, the woman who likes to think of (e:leetee) and myself as racists reminds me more than anything of the rich, White Suburban women who think (to quote Andre 3000 out of context) that their "shat don't stank"
I wouldn't be surprised if she came from money and was slumming to be with her boyfriend.
I feel for you.