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Not being an asshole

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On certain days I'm not a huge asshole. Days when I don't elbow anyone on the train, silently judge outfits, give the look of death to everyone around me. Today is one of those days. I'm always pleasantly surprised what happens when I'm nice.

It started this morning when I went to go grab coffee at Starbucks before work. There was this couple in front of me in line. They were clearly tourists that spoke no English. The "barista"/cashier was being a super huge asshole about some coupon they were trying to use for a free latte. It was only good for 3 kinds of drinks and they looked so confused. To top it off the wife was getting mad at the husband. He looked kinda scared. It pissed me off that the cashier was being so mean. Tourists are going to be one of the things that keeps the economy in NYC afloat. I stepped in to help out. Problem solved, coupon redeemed.

I then started to walk to work and there was the source of the free coupons. The dude gave me a free latte coupon and TWO bags of coffee.

Flash forward to lunch time. I go to grab a egg salad sandwich on rye. I walk into the deli and order. The owner is behind the counter yelling at everyone, basically being douchy. I give the guy who is making my sandwich a "yeah what a douche" look. He smiles back. He then proceeds to cut me a fresh pickle (note: I love pickles and getting a fresh one is a huge score).

Then I walk over to redeem my coupon for coffee. I go to exit Starbucks with sandwich in one hand and coffee in the other. This guy pulls open the door from the outside, I thank him and he tells me how pretty I am! Ok so he was missing a few teeth and about 20 yrs older than me. But let’s be honest, I'll take compliments where I can get them these days..

You’d think this would teach me to be nice all the time. But let’s be honest, that is not going to happen.

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💬 4 comments

  1. joshua ·

    Yeah, that is an anomaly in NYC. I've found that people in the city are the type of deeply obnoxious, vile individuals that can only be found in NYC. On the other hand, I've had a lot of pleasant experiences with average New Yorkers outside of Manhattan. You saved their day, those tourists - I would have done the exact same thing. Let's face it, baristas aren't exactly in the position to be able to justify being bitchy to ANYBODY. If people behaved more like you did, rather than caged animals, I think NYC would be a significantly more pleasant place to live and visit.
  2. tinypliny ·

    Don't you think that kind of defeats the purpose of the coupons if they went to so much trouble to redeem them and then gave a coupon to you?

    @e:Joshua: I have been to NYC >5 times now and each time, I have found the people in Manhattan and beyond equally friendly. Many of them went out of their way (quite literally) to help me out all the time.
  3. joshua ·

    Interesting, I've been traveling there for 20 years and haven't gotten that.
  4. lilho ·

    awww. i like this post, best post in a while. makes me feel warm inside.

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