Frustrated

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   museumchick · Nov 28, 2006 2:18pm

   I wonder if maybe she had an off night? I think usually if someone has no interest in another person, they won't hangout with them- they'll think of some excuse to get out of it. So maybe the fact that she still spent time with you is still a good sign.
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   jasoninbuffalo · Nov 28, 2006 3:28pm

   I have dated women like that. I actually just am pretty blunt. I usually say something like, hey I am just curious. You are pretty hard to read and just making sure you dig me and are having fun. I have had good luck with this. The worst thing you can do is waste your time with someone who isn't really into you so being up front is a good idea.
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   iriesara · Nov 28, 2006 3:55pm

   Maybe SHE has no idea what she wants....best not to put too much into the idea emotionally if you think it might not go anywhere. Just chill back, leave the door open and see what happens. Hard feelings can ruin an unsure thing before it's even started. No reason for frustration.....
   remember, we're all just people trying to figure out what the fuck is going on around us and how we fit in, cut her a little slack.
   
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   ajay · Nov 28, 2006 4:51pm

   Lets look at it another way: why does it matter if she digs you or not?
   
   Just go out and have fun with her. If you are a fun guy and an enjoyable company, she will automatically pull out the shovel. If she doesn't start diggin' you then, heck, at least you had fun! :-D
   
   Too much worryin', too little lovin' ...
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   jason · Nov 28, 2006 4:56pm

   You know what this really is? I've thought about it, and it's my insecurity for sure because I haven't dated in so long and I'm out of sorts.
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   metalpeter · Nov 28, 2006 9:10pm

   I wish I had some good advice for ya. All I can really say is try to have fun and enjoy the time you spend with her.
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   mrmike · Nov 28, 2006 9:58pm

   Quit thinkin' so hard. You'll hurt the ballclub.
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   matthew · Nov 29, 2006 2:25am

   you should ask her what she's thinking, if she gives you a positive response, you're in the clear. If she hasn't thought about it in your terms she'll probably be flattered that you have. good luck.

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