04/10/09 02:49 - 52ºF - ID#48342

Storm Gathering

Oh, give me a break...

If you are for gay marriage, and you can't get married - you don't get a bunch of explicit, specific, access to tools that greatly help you to take care of the person you're with.

If you are against gay marriage, and gay people are allowed to marry - you don't get to have stuff removed from your sight that you don't like to think about other people doing.

This 'scare' video is laughable.

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Location: Buffalo, NY

Category: local

04/09/09 09:07 - 35ºF - ID#48331

Controversy!

I like this t-shirt. I like Buffalo, too, but realize it's as much for the flaws as the good things. I'd buy it but the shirt needs a different typeface or at least a bit of kerning.

For sale here, by WNYmedia, proceeds benefit the City Mission:

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Location: Buffalo, NY

Category: life

04/08/09 08:59 - 30ºF - ID#48322

Thanks Everyone!

I had a really, really good time at my birthday dinner. I appreciate you all so much, and hope you had a good time too. It meant a lot to me that you all come out and that everyone seemed to have fun.

^_^

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Location: Buffalo, NY

Category: life

04/07/09 11:05 - 25ºF - ID#48318

This is my last quitting smoking post.

So, I more or less quit smoking about 12 days ago, except not really, I still had one in the morning and one at night. No longer. I'm going down to zero.

To throw my hat over the wall, I'm going to vow on the memory of my mother that I'm done. Mom, I promise that I am done smoking. This is it for me.

Hopefully I don't fuck it up, I'll feel super guilty after failing since I'm promising it this way.

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Location: Buffalo, NY

04/07/09 10:01 - 25ºF - ID#48317

Dinner Tonight

If you're coming to my birthday dinner tonight (details in previous post), just a warning that apparently they only take cash.

Let me know if that's a problem and we can work something out!

Their menu is here, by the way:

See you tonight!

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Location: Buffalo, NY

04/03/09 05:25 - 57ºF - ID#48274

Saturday?

Does anyone want to do anything tomorrow afternoon? I'm on my own while James is engaging in political machinations.

Watchmen is showing at Noon, which I haven't seen, but pretty much everyone else has. Or I'm up for lunch or pretty much anything other then sitting home on my birthday :)

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Location: Buffalo, NY

Category: party

03/26/09 10:25 - 52ºF - ID#48209

Birthday Party!

My 30th birthday party is on Tuesday, April 7th at 7:30pm. We've reserved all of Europa Bistro ( map

) - you can come for dinner or just drinks, but all are welcome. Just give me or (e:James) a heads up if you're planning on coming, so we can make sure we've got a good count.

Hope to see you there :)

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Location: Buffalo, NY

03/25/09 07:51 - 38ºF - ID#48194

Life Spans of Deleteable Items

source:

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Location: Buffalo, NY

03/20/09 11:28 - 30ºF - ID#48133

RIP Space Bat

source:

This bat was clinging to the space shuttle during take off.

In honor of space bat's memory:

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Location: Buffalo, NY

Category: all grown up

03/19/09 09:17 - 32ºF - ID#48128

Home Ownership!

So, my Dad has let me know that there's a 401k account of my mother's that he hasn't cashed in since she passed away a few years ago, and he's decided he wants to use it to help me with a down payment for a house. That coupled with the $8000 first time home buyer's credit (

) means that I am pretty sure that I'm going to own my own place sometime this year.

James and I have talked, and the only downside is that we'd only buy something if we knew exactly where we were planning on living next year, and we've been talking pretty seriously about moving to Portland, Oregon or Austin, Texas.

Money certainly doesn't go as far outside Buffalo. For the price of a 2,000 sqft Victorian home here we could only get a really cute 1 bedroom condo in downtown Portland, like this:

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Of course it would be in the middle of an awesome urban area that only gets 2" of snow every winter and has excellent public transit and career opportunities...

tinypliny writes at 07:20:12 03/26/09 - Comment #47064: I say go (or stay) where you can create the most worthwhile life. Good Luck! :)

heidi writes at 10:50:05 03/20/09 - Comment #46812: I want you to stay!!!

But I have some logical reasons too... It's hard to find a good community - you have one here, you have roots... you've said "I don't want to die here" (hmmm... might have been (e:james)) but that's what retirement's for! You can *live* here, and die somewhere else. :-)

And you really can't beat the housing prices... damn! $159K?? That's awesome. (Mortgage interest deduction!!! Every year!)

jim writes at 02:54:49 03/20/09 - Comment #46802: It's not a loan, it's a credit. No payback needed. You get an $8000 tax refund.

metalpeter writes at 02:16:15 03/20/09 - Comment #46796: I admit I didn't follow the links so I may have missed something. But the first interior looks pretty nice. I would say that taking the first time home owners loan is a bad idea. Granted I don't have all the facts but to get a tax credit on your taxes of that much money that you then have to payback seems like a bad idea. I don't know the percentage or how you pay it back but to me it seems like you could wind up just owing the IRS money. Of course the person who you should ask about that is (e:Terry).

james writes at 11:08:30 03/19/09 - Comment #46786: That last one looks suspiciously like the section-8 housing on Elmwood between Summer and North.

paul writes at 10:27:57 03/19/09 - Comment #46784: I hope you guys stay.

jim writes at 10:07:36 03/19/09 - Comment #46783: It is pretty exciting - my parents never had much money, so in the last 10 years I've pretty much been on my own. They bailed me out of jail once... that's about it :) It's not really that much money in the scheme of things, but it makes buying a home likely instead of a some-year-soon thing.

To get this kinda opportunity is very unexpected and nice.

mrmike writes at 10:06:30 03/19/09 - Comment #46782: Nice to have the option

libertad writes at 10:04:21 03/19/09 - Comment #46781: How exciting. Good luck in finding a place.

jim writes at 09:50:14 03/19/09 - Comment #46779: I think James wants to move more then I do :)

I'd be perfectly content to live in this: :::link:::

drew writes at 09:45:14 03/19/09 - Comment #46778: Home ownership is very cool.

Leaving Buffalo is not.

Now that (e:James) is on the fast track to Mayor, you have to stay.

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