"Work annoys me" written by Janelle on estrip.org

Category: work

01/02/08 03:58 - ID#42726

Work annoys me

It annoys me that my supervisor keeps asking me if I'm "comfortable" with a plan of action document that I wrote over 3 months ago and submitted for his review AND have already started implementing. What the hell does he mean by "comfortable"? And why, 3 months later, has he yet to review it? And it seems a little late to be asking me if I'm comfortable with it when I'm already knee deep into it.

It annoys me that he treats me like his personal administrative assistant. I'm not his administrative assistant. I'd actually like to be an administrative or executive assistant. But currently, that's not my job title or an accurate description of my job. I suppose if he respected me enough to read the documents he's always asking me to create, I'd be a little more easygoing on this point.

It annoys me that I was told at the initial interview that this program for which I'd work was for all intensive purposes approved, when in reality, its' 6 months later and it's still not approved. Lesson learned, I will never work for a social service program again that doesn't have its approval and financing at the time of the interview. Oh, wait...I'm thinking I should just wash my hands of non-profits all together.

It annoys me that it was highly stressed to me at the interview that this job required an individual who can be successfull working autonomously and independently make decisions and follow through(terrific, that's my strong point). In reality, my position requires a person with a strong personality who is good at team work and doesn't mind running their projects and work by 20 other people to see what they think until they run around in bloody circles. Not my weakness, but certainly ain't my strength.

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Location: Buffalo , NY
Last Modified: 02/05/12 02:18

Category: life

01/01/08 11:43 - 33ºF - ID#42706

2007 into 2008

2007 ... the year of changes ...

We left Pittsburgh. Traveled to Vietnam. Bought a house in Buffalo. I reconnected with a childhood friend who lives here now. Childhood friend helped us make new friends. We met a ton of new people through estrip. I started blogging for the first time ever. We started at a new church that we really like. I started a new job. My last job I loved, but I came home angry and frustrated. This job, I don't love, but I come home with a happier disposition at the end of the day. I now have time to do the things I enjoy because I'm not utterly exhausted from work. My mom declared she was divorcing my dad, an act that sent our little family into a tailspin. We celebrated the holidays in our home with my family and it turned into a mini family reunion. In 2007, I have been the happiest I've been for several years.

2008

I want more changes for 2008. I'm going to make a plan for work...go back to school, switch jobs, do something...but I need to make a plan for the future. I'm going to consider being a commissioned lay pastor, so I can serve a church in a way that won't conflict with my husband being a pastor. I offered to teach piano lessons to children at Massachusetts's Avenue Project and I am going to try to make it happen. I'm going to travel to Bulgaria in July, hopefully.

I hope a few things stay the same. Share my life with (e:Drew). Live in Buffalo. Stay connected with our friends and church.

Here's to another year!

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Location: Buffalo , NY

Category: pictures

12/31/07 08:46 - 29ºF - ID#42690

View from the window

This is our view from the bathroom. Usually when I look at it, I think, they really need to paint their house before the clapboard starts rotting. But in the winter time it has this old rustic farmhouse look to it that I like.

This was the view from our window this morning. I rarely watch the weather, so unless I hear weather murmuring from other people, snow like this is a pleasant surprise.

This is the view of a window from our bedroom door. One day, we plan on having a stained glass window. In the summer I'll have a beautiful stained glass view and in the winter I already have a winter wonderland view, I'm never going to want to leave bed.

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Location: Buffalo , NY

Category: holidays

12/21/07 10:24 - 25ºF - ID#42606

Christmas is coming

I'm such a little kid...I'm so excited to be off from work soon for the Christmas holiday...I can hardly stand it. It's only 10:15am and it feels like the day is dragging on FOREVER.... It is the never ending work day full of bad Christmas music and minory annoyances. It's standing in between me and family, fun, presents, Christmas celebrations...I have work I COULD, in theory, be doing, but I can only think about 4:30pm...at which point the work ends and the fun begins.

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Location: Buffalo , NY

Category: work

12/20/07 09:05 - 33ºF - ID#42594

Incompetence Abounds

So a person comes to work with the plan to check e-mail and voicemail from the previous work day and shoot off to a morning meeting in Hamburg. Voicemail, e-mail and estrip checked, the person gets up and starts leaving the building to drive to the meeting. The person runs into their supervisor who lives in Hamburg. "Hm", the person says, "Mr. Supervisor, why did you drive here to work only to turn around to go back to the meeting in Hamburg". Mr. Supervisor pulled a face that said, Meeting? What meeting? That face was quickly folllowed by a face of dawning realization. Then Mr. Supervisor finally said, "<ahem, clear throat> The meeting was cancelled....oh, no, I need to call everyone else to make sure they know".

Is it just in social services where these things happen? Would people at the prestigious Roswell schedule meetings then capriciously cancel them without telling anyone? I mean, am I complaining about something that happens everywhere....I guess scheduling and canceling meetings is just a pet peeve of mine I like to rant about it.

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Location: Buffalo , NY

Category: sims

12/16/07 04:10 - 25ºF - ID#42538

More to life than money and careers

I have everything you could want in a Sims life. My husband makes high-end gnomes for sale. I'm purusing a career in modeling. We have every toy in the Sims toybook...but I just can't help like feeling that there's more to this life...

In these days and times, Sims are so disconnected from one another. They need to get back to their communal roots and rediscover the religious Sim life in commune with one another. So I present to the SIMS world, my Sims religious compound....

The building on the far left is the children's barrack.
In the middle front building on the bottom is the recreation room.
The middle back building is the cafeteria.
The building on the far right is the barrack for my faithful adherents!
Who wants to move in?

On top of the front middle building is my special apartment that I share with the husband. Can't be a cult leader without some swanky digs, right?

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Location: Buffalo , NY

Category: life

12/14/07 02:57 - 33ºF - ID#42518

"Just Say No"

...applies to more than just drugs!

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Location: Buffalo , NY

Category: religion

12/07/07 09:01 - 24ºF - ID#42422

Who gets the whooping cough?!

Whooping cough broke out on Bob Jones University forcing them to close classes a week early for the semester. Who the hell gets whooping cough in the US these days? Homeschooling students at BJU whose parents refused to vaccinate them as children do. And then they pass it on to the people who had whooping cough vaccinations as children but never got boosters as adult, because you're not really expecting to be exposed to the whooping cough as an adult in the US. The only reason I got the whooping cough booster was because it was bundled in with diptheria and tetanus (DPT) and I needed the tetanus for going to Vietnam.

Two years ago, measles broke out among youth at church. Again, mostly home schooling kids whose parents rejected vaccines. Homeschooling kid goes to Romania, brings home measles. Who sends their kids overseas without vaccinations?

There is an anti-authority issue; *there is a suspicion of vaccinations (which extends to outside the christian homeschooling community as well) and there is this:

A concern with using vaccinations that come from cell lines that originate in aborted fetuses. The greater Christian community can help with the anti-authority issue and the public health community can help with the suspicion of vaccinations issue. It also seems worthwhile if the medical community explores the use of vaccinations not using a cell line originating from an aborted fetus. It could encourage these homeschoolers to vaccinate their kids and decrease these weird break outs of diseases that shouldn't occur in the US anymore. Doctors and biologists on the board...is it feasible?

For the record, I'm not entirely gung ho on vaccinations. I fall into the group of people who are suspicious of vaccinations at times.

drew writes at 12:05:46 12/08/07 - Comment #29005: Wow, I really took myself to task there, didn't I?

You're right Janelle, I didn't open the links. I based it on the people in my family that didn't vaccinate.

drew writes at 11:13:24 12/08/07 - Comment #29003: (e:Drew), you clearly skimmed my post and didn't open the links. There are people who do not vaccinate because there is a cell line used in vaccinations that originate from an aborted fetus. Read the third link. It's the catholic church's stand on the issue.

drew writes at 10:43:30 12/08/07 - Comment #29002: they don't avoid vaccinations because of stem cells or anything like that. It's because of supposed links to autism and other problems that show up around the same time that vaccinations are given.

jenks writes at 10:22:35 12/08/07 - Comment #29001: ugh. I don't even know where to start. Why are people afraid of vaccines? I mean I know why, but it just seems crazy to me. And I'll have to look it up, but as far as I know, vaccines generally come from killed viruses, not stem cells (aka "aborted fetuses"). But, maybe that will all get better, because someone recently figured out how to get stem cells from SKIN- so maybe we can finally move ahead with (what I consider) valuable and important scientific research, and not be hung up by the whole pro-life thing. It's a no-brainer to me- but that's me being intolerant.

janelle writes at 10:34:10 12/07/07 - Comment #28984: Lol, I stand corrected (e:Ladycroft).

ladycroft writes at 10:12:48 12/07/07 - Comment #28981: actually, i had whooping cough last winter!

janelle writes at 10:03:32 12/07/07 - Comment #28977: The federal government couldn't force the HPV vaccinations on young girls without those same conservatives freaking out that the government was acting outside of its "ordained" role. It really isn't about, is this administration a "godly" one. It's about, is this action within the domain of a "godly" government.

drew writes at 09:55:21 12/07/07 - Comment #28975: 'because they believe (now) that the federal government is "godly," it can do anything it wants. If Clinton were still in power, the govt would be attacked for torturing, wiretapping, and war, but apparently, "godly" leaders can do whatever they want, without being questioned.

But few governors or school boards have been deified the way GWB has been.

I guess we won't go bowling tonight. Homeland security is knocking at the door.

janelle writes at 09:43:50 12/07/07 - Comment #28973: I think not vaccinating your kids is not a scientific authority issue, but a government authority issue. The state can't make us vaccinate our kids.

Conservative christianity is okay with federal government authority to go to war, etc...because it falls under the domain of what a "godly" government is allowed to.

drew writes at 09:14:09 12/07/07 - Comment #28971: It's funny, 'cause recently, conservative Christianity has been cool with authority (to go to war, torture, wiretap, etc.) but this is a different kind of authority. It's not federal government authority (which was the enemy during the heyday of the civil rights movement), but scientific authority, and local school board authority, which are now feared.

Another funny irony. Some in this crowd take as gospel really shaky studies that imply that there are problems with vaccines, but refuse to listen to even the best of studeis that suggest larger, enviornmental problems.

Theologically, its because they are all about personal holiness, without acknowledging systemic evil. If something bad happens to somebody, its because of something that they personall did (which is true of a vaccination, but not neccisarily global warming.) In addition to this way of seeing the world not making very much sense, Jesus also specifically taught against it.

But it makes life easier to get through (until you get sick, at least), so lots of people go for it.

mike writes at 09:07:19 12/07/07 - Comment #28970: HAPPY BELATED BIRTHDAY!

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Location: Buffalo , NY

Category: life

12/06/07 08:47 - 20ºF - ID#42413

Birthday Ramblings

I overheard a great conversation last night at the vet, sitting next to an older man talking on a cell phone.

"What did I tell you to do? Huh? He does that to you again, you tell him, I'm gonna smash your face in. Then you do it. Bop him in the nose. Tell the teacher about this. Did you tell the teacher? And then the next time he does it, you bloody his nose good. Don't worry, he's not going to do anything back once you give him a good bloody nose. He's gotta learn his lesson."

It was hard to keep a straight face during that conversation.

On another note, today's my birthday. I'm turning 25. I've been turning 25 for a few years now. I wonder when I'm going to turn 30? So far, it looks like a nice birthday is ahead. My wonderful husband is making me birthday casserole and is going to watch my favorite musical, Oliver, with me. Just got it from my parents for my birthday. Good day, indeed.

ladycroft writes at 04:50:10 12/07/07 - Comment #28963: happy happy birthday!

drew writes at 07:07:51 12/06/07 - Comment #28954: metalpeter, I think the second idea sounds more fun.

jim writes at 06:45:24 12/06/07 - Comment #28952: Happy Birthday!

metalpeter writes at 06:39:14 12/06/07 - Comment #28951: I admit I have never heard of Oliver the musical sorry. But as long as you like it and have a good time that is all that matters.

(e:dre) I'm not sure if you should be classy and get a glass or just grab the entire Bottle and pretend you are Janis Joplin with a Bottle of Jack Daniels. Hope it winds up being a great time for you both.

drew writes at 01:29:01 12/06/07 - Comment #28943: I'll need the wine to get through Oliver :)

jason writes at 12:37:32 12/06/07 - Comment #28941: Well done! Have a glass of wine or three.

museumchick writes at 11:49:45 12/06/07 - Comment #28937: Happy (approximately) 25th birthday! I hope it's a great day for you.

james writes at 11:11:35 12/06/07 - Comment #28932: Pretend you are in prison and have Drew bake you a birthday cake with a file in it!

lauren writes at 10:40:49 12/06/07 - Comment #28930: Aww Happy birthday Janelle! You are only one year older than me! :)

And yay for Oliver..Food Glorious Food!

drew writes at 10:31:08 12/06/07 - Comment #28929: 25 was a long time ago for (e:janelle), too.

We are going to have a talk about lying tonight.

leetee writes at 10:29:06 12/06/07 - Comment #28928: Happy Birthday, Janelle

paul writes at 09:29:03 12/06/07 - Comment #28925: Happy birthday!

mrmike writes at 09:21:26 12/06/07 - Comment #28924: Ah, 25. I remember it, long damn time ago. Enjoy, hope you have the best day.

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Category: bad cat

12/05/07 09:08 - 22ºF - ID#42401

Bad Cat

People always wonder how the cute, playful black cat Tatanka could be a bad cat......
It might have something to do with the fact that I spent hours making gingerbread cookies; cutting them out in heart shapes; swearing everytime they didn't turn out right; baking them; cooling them; icing them; and then carefully putting them away in the pantry until the night of my party only to discover that the black cat had opened the pantry, climbed inside and took big bites out of each separate cookie. The black cat later got sick from eating said cookies and had a yucky poop two inches from his litter box...because he apparently couldn't make those additional two inches to poop INSIDE the litterbox...

james writes at 03:24:12 12/05/07 - Comment #28891: be careful Drew. Brain is a gateway organ.

First you have a bit of brain and soon as you know it you are mainlining spleens. It gives whole new meaning to Naked Lunch.

drew writes at 03:00:49 12/05/07 - Comment #28889: We curse when we cook or do brain surgery, too.

And we eat the mistakes as well.

Eating a couple bites of brain now and then doesn't make you a zombie, right? I mean, we can quit any time.

james writes at 02:19:13 12/05/07 - Comment #28885: can you imagine if we kept boars as pets. Maimed gingerbread men would be the least of our problems.

This is the second time you or Drew wrote about your cursing while baking. Baking is a whole different science than cooking or brain surgery, and much more difficult. But, unlike brain surgery when you make a mistake you can still eat it!

janelle writes at 10:23:11 12/05/07 - Comment #28878: Yes, you describe that feeling well, (e:Carolinian). He is an amazingly intelligent cat and never ceases to make (e:Drew) and I laugh. My other favorite story...I was sitting in the living room and I heard *crunch, crunch, crunch* from the kitchen. I went in and found that he had knocked a cereal box off the shelf, forcefully pushed his paw into the box and was scooping out pieces of cereal to eat. So we had to move the cereal boxes to the top of the fridge. He also learned to press the button that opens the trash can. I thought it was a fluke so I closed the lid and hid and watched him do it again very purposefully. So then we had to move the trash can!
I'm convinced that some day he will figure out how to open the refrigerator and then we'll really be screwed!

carolinian writes at 10:12:09 12/05/07 - Comment #28876: I imagine you must be feeling the mixture of frustration and pride a parent must feel when their kid breaks something but does it in a precociously intelligent manner.