10/26/07 10:20 - 47ºF - ID#41814
The Res'
I was intriqued with the comments I heard when they got back. The words were heavily loaded to indicate negative opinion of the reservation and the people who live there. Here are just a few of the comments:
"I couldn't get off the res' fast enough"
"Well, you know, no one who lives there wants to work"
"Sure, we want to expand our services out to that area, but we don't want an actual agency site on the reservation"
"You don't want to leave your car parked on the reservation"
It was a little curious to me because social service workers are used to working with "undesirable" people in "undesirable" environments. I've seen lots of shit (literally and figuratively) working in this field.
But I'm also curious as to the nature of any prejudices some people might have in this area towards Indians or prejudices/negative attitudes going the other way? What are they rooted in? What are the tensions? (I know about the casinos obviously and the I90 conflict over the tolls).
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Location: Buffalo , NY
Category: news
10/18/07 01:07 - 59ºF - ID#41701
What incredible grace...
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Location: Buffalo , NY
Category: human rights
10/17/07 08:29 - 59ºF - ID#41682
Yahoo in China
What do you think? Does Yahoo have no responsibiity for the actions of the Chinese government? Were they simply following the laws of the land? Should US companies do business in China if they are subject to the Chinese government in a way that makes them complicit with a human rights violation?
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Location: Buffalo , NY
Category: life
10/14/07 12:16 - 53ºF - ID#41633
Celebration, come on!
I lost 5lbs after being conscious about my eating habits and getting back on the exercise machine. I'd like to share this accomplishment with friends because I worked hard.
But do I? Nope. Not even with my closest of girlfriends. Because most people make disparaging comments about me losing weight...you're so skinny, you could use a little weight on you, whatever...
Well, ya know what....It's my body and I get to have control over it. And I have a preferred weight where I look my best and feel my best. I would love to tell people that I gained 10 lbs after college and loved those ten lbs that went straight to my hips and ass and made me look smoking hot in those hip huggers. But it's hard when they're so busy judging me.
But now I put on another 10lbs, I don't feel as good about how I look, my pants are horribly tight, I'm in between sizes right now, and don't care to replace my wardrobe. So, I'm trying to lose those 10lbs and I refuse to be apologetic about it, because it's my body.
And you know what else I get tired of? The nasty remarks people make towards me when I turn down candy or only drink diet soda. It's your own damn assumption that I don't do those things to avoid weight gain. I'm actually quite careful about sugar because I'm unbelievably prone to cavities and I'd like to keep my teeth for as long as I can. So shove it!
<steps off soab box, bows and exits>
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Location: Buffalo , NY
Category: sims
10/13/07 11:03 - 48ºF - ID#41625
The Seduction of Joey Johnson
I was a little bit nervous when I invited him over as I had been dabbling in a relationship with Drew Ludwig. But all was forgiven with a passionate kiss at the door:
We started out with some light conversation.
He likes cloudy Days
Oh, good! I like rainy days...this might work!
I can't propose to him on an empty stomach so I whipped up a turkey dinner for the two of us:
I like sailboats
Oh, shoot, not Joey. He hates sailboats, they don't pollute enough!
Oh, yeah, well, um, I like cars...they pollute a lot!
Moving onto pinball. I need to show Joey that living herw is full of pinball fun!
I sneak downstairs to change into a little special something to move in for the kill!
I nervously chatter about clothing accessories to relieve the tension of the moment.
Okay, time to test the waters with an intimate hug.
Good, good... moving in for a fiery kiss...oh, no a setback!
Shoot, I'm committed now. Suck it up and propose!
No, no! I did everything right...why doesn't he love me???
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Location: Buffalo , NY
10/11/07 11:35 - 52ºF - ID#41606
Plant Lamp
It's a plant lamp. The lamp rod is inside of a large plastic basin that holds lots of soil into which three cute little house plants are planted.
Hold onto your seats, this is the exciting part.....
To turn the lamp on and off, you don't use a typical on and off lamp switch. Oh, no my friends. You gently touch one of the leaves of the plant to turn it on and again to turn it off!
Science is an awesome thing!
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Location: Buffalo , NY
Category: family
10/11/07 09:08 - 49ºF - ID#41589
Divorce and the Holidays
Any advice from those with experience in juggling divorced parents and holidays?
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Location: Buffalo , NY
Category: sims
10/09/07 10:48 - 63ºF - ID#41567
Sims Update
Work, study, work socialize, work, study, work, socialize.
So she treated herself to a pool now that she makes the big bucks as a specialist:
Yeah, I look that good in a bikini in real life too.
She also acquired a lover to shake things up:
It's just a matter of time before she seduces Joey Johnson into marriage.
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Location: Buffalo , NY
10/07/07 02:09 - 65ºF - ID#41534
The parable of the Greedy Sim...
Drew wanted the good life right away and bought a big mansion with no money to fill it....
He had no money left to buy a smoke detector or buy books to learn how to cook, so....
Despite his best efforts...
But greed has now led to....
Now, Janelle who started modestly, studied hard, and saved her money, is living the big life....
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Location: Buffalo , NY
Category: sims
10/06/07 04:59 - 78ºF - ID#41521
The Sims
Here's my modest new dwellings:
And here I am:
I'm in the medical career and I just got a promotion to intern. It's been hard to do all the socializing and studying I need to be a resident.
Not much interesting now, but I have three potential boyfriends lined up that I'm courting. More on that later, peeps....
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Location: Buffalo , NY
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I can only speak from my own experience, but having lived in the area my whole life I can say that most of the experiences people have with the Indians that I'm aware of involve buying cheap gas and smokes. Some people feel that the Senecas use their sovereignty in an arrogant way and do not believe that the Senecas should have sovereignty in any part of the city of Buffalo. But, like most civic issues around here, the average guy on the street is indifferent.
Also, prejudices don't exist in a vacuum, though, they come from somewhere. So where did these ideas come from? What are the social dynamics between Indians and non-Indians in the area?
My inclination would be to think that these people are utterly clueless and a tad racist to boot. Are these the same people that live in Williamsville but tell me that they don't visit Buffalo because of the attitudes of the black people?
To be fair, I've never dealt with people on the reservation in a social services environment. In all seriousness and all bullshit aside, this is one of the most offensive things I've read in a while. I think it may suit you better to form your own opinions and go from there.