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Sometimes life sucks

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Tonight I was driving a kid home from church. He came because his friend invited him--we welcome high school guys on Tuesday nights and we play ball, discuss the Bible together. Its good for our church to have some kids that are a little bit more "street" around.

Anyway, I was driving a kid home, and it was his first time here, so he is kinda checking us out. He asked me for advice about how to deal with a girl he likes (such a ninth grader!), and we talked about that for a while, but then I realized that we are driving through a neighborhood that looks more and more menacing.

"So do you feel safe here?" I asked, tenatively.

"Not really. My best friend got killed here three weeks ago."

The kid's in ninth grade. Not a thug. A sweet, kind, skinny, freshman.

His friend was shot because he hit on a girl, and the girl's brother didn't like it.

No kid his age should have to deal with crap like that.
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💬 5 comments

  1. twisted ·

    Sure as hell would make you think twice before giving advice about "how to deal with a girl he likes."

    And no. No kid should have to deal with that.
  2. jason ·

    Damn, damn, damn damn damn. That is so sad Drew.
  3. lizabeth ·

    Oh man, that is really heartbreaking.
  4. fellyconnelly ·

    its amazing how many kids these days have to deal with things like that.... so sad...
  5. lauren ·

    Yes yes, quite sad...but certainly not an anomaly. It is lucky for you that you have the oppotunity to spend time with some of these kids and see what they think about it. I think a common misconception is that people who live in those kinds of neighborhoods like it there, are comfortable walking the streets while outsiders are not. No one should have to deal with that kind of fear.

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