Category: sex

07/23/06 10:08 - ID#29297

Oral Sex

So a friend of mine recently had an STD test, and was questioned about the use of condoms. The nurse asked if he used condoms every time he had sex, and he said "yes." And then she asked if that included oral sex, and he said no, so she said "well, that means no then."

I'm putting it out there to see how many people actually use a condom for oral sex. I'd like to hear your thoughts, opinions, etc. I personally have never heard of anyone using one for oral sex. I can only imagine it would not be any fun for either party involved.

On the same topic, does anyone consider oral sex "sex"? Are you no longer a virgin if you've partaken in the act of oral sex?

Deep issues to ponder...

ajay writes at 09:44:55 07/24/06 - Comment #10224: Oral sex is not sex... unless, of course, you are a Democrat president; in which case, it is worse the incestuous necrophilia!!!!111!!one!!

metalpeter writes at 08:22:52 07/24/06 - Comment #10215: Sex is short of Sexual intercourse so because of that a Blow Job isn't sex. That is also why it is called oral sex, it has to have the term oral in it to qualify it as sex. But oral sex could also mean using you mouth as in just talking about sex but that isn't really how it is used.

In terms of using a condom. I being a stright guy have never given a bj (but if I ever did) what fun is tasting the rubber yuck. That being said I have been forced to use one to get a bj. I have to admit it wasn't as fun. For anyone who wants to do the reserach who dosn't know how, there is a way to put one on using ones mouth.

libertad writes at 11:22:07 07/24/06 - Comment #10191: You are still a virgin until the bloody sheets are hung on the line for the neighbors to see!

Of course i'm just being ridiculous. Really, I do think along leetee's lines, but also think that going all the way the first time has special meaning.

uncutsaniflush writes at 11:20:56 07/24/06 - Comment #10190: fwiw, I think if an activity involves some sort of physical activity whose purpose is to make at least one other person sexually satisfied then that activity is sex.

Is B&D or S&M actually sex? Frequently, such scenes involve no genitalia and no direct skin to skin contact.

Must an activity involve a penis and a vagina or a penis and an anus to be considered real sex?

I would think that if a blow job isn't considered sex then hand jobs and cunninglingus isn't sex either.

And what about 69-style positions? If eating pussy and blow jobs aren't really sex; then two people 69ing each other aren't really having sex either.

leetee writes at 01:41:40 07/24/06 - Comment #10183: I think i'm kinda weird and a bit of a prude, but i think if there is the word sex in the act, then it's sex.

Virgininity? Well, depends on how it's defined. For women, there can be a tecnicality -- hymen in tact, virgin; broken, no longer a virgin.

But sex is so much more than a hymen or lack thereof. The intimacy matters so much more than just getting off.

I guess my rules have always been if you can get a disease from it, then it's sex and you aren't a virgin anymore. If you need protection, there's no more virginity.

How romantic is that, huh?

libertad writes at 10:22:59 07/23/06 - Comment #10174: blah, I would rather not have any oral sex rather than bj's with a condom. They have fruity condoms (i have some). I find them repulsive, especially strawberry which looks like somebody has a bloody wang. Personally, I think that you are still a virgin if you only have oral sex. All that being said oral sex is risky business. Like mama always says "you don't know where that thing has been!"

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