"praise jersey~" written by Fellyconnelly on estrip.org

Category: moving

07/02/07 12:32 - 59ºF - ID#39885

praise jersey~

well.....

i'm officially a couch pet. staying with kathi unil i'm fully moved into buffalo. there is something extremely discomforting about it all.

more importantly

jersey was amazing. delightful. swell sweet. delicious. oh my god did i just say that about JERSEY? i have problems.
no really we went to the beach and had excellant drunken times.

i'll mention just a couple highlites.

1. found out what happens if you do not put sunblock on evenly. i look like i have red camouflage (sp?) skin on my chest. very hot let me tell you.

2. it was interesting to walk behind my group of big dykes on the boardwalk so i could fully appreciate the gawking of all the meatheads. also drinking beer in the bathroom on the boardwalk when i clearl y didn't need any more.

3. kathi fell asleep on the beach and we have a lovely photo of her sleeping on her chair, all alone except for the random dude-bro that offered to take his photo with her. when we finally showed her later she was thoroughly amused.

4. in my drunkeness, lynda and i had a good ten minutes of interpretive dance which i may or may not post the video of when i get my camera cables back. it was moving.

5. waking up and driving home exhausted with a hangover and sore muscles from fighting with ocean waves yesterday.

i'm sure there is more but i'm half dead. but here is the real news. the uhaul (budget truck) is loaded. sitting back at my former residence waiting for me to come pick it and steven up so that we can head out. 8 am which means maybe 2 ish we will be there? did i mention that i'm in pain?
and hung over? i just took a 3.5 hour nap.

buffalo? i'll see you soon!

Permalink: praise_jersey_.html
Words: 303
Location: New Paltz, NY

Category: moving

06/28/07 01:38 - 80ºF - ID#39835

tick tock tick tock tick

times a tick tockin away!
tonight after work begins crunch time.

everything we own is getting moved to the garage. or to kathis. tomorrow morning lauren and i will be wrestling with the hoardes of ny city folk who are all on a mission of mass exodus of the hot and steamy city in favor of the ever so pristine jersey shore (sarcasm? noooo)
spending the weekend at the beach with a ridiculous amount of assholes i'm sure. but hey, sun and ocean and a free house a block away from the shore? sure.

i intend on mild inebriation throughout the weekend.

ending sunday morning, when we again will be facing the hoardes of (holyshiti'vegottagobacktowork)
in time to get lauren to work
and me to the budget rental truck
and then pack all night

monday afternoon, you will see me, there in buffalo
i'll be the one swearing under my breath at the 47 boxes of books(bricks) that have lauren's name all over them.

here we go!

chico writes at 03:16:34 06/28/07 - Comment #20220: oops, posted that last item to the wrong journal entry, my bad.

maybe you should take Lauren's books down the shore with you?

hmm. it seems some posts are best kept separate.

chico writes at 03:14:26 06/28/07 - Comment #20219: I have a book problem, and it's worse than Lauren's. My old friend Joe was in town for a visit recently and he reminded me that we moved over 75 boxes of books into my office last August, and I have to admit that I just moved another 15 (different) boxes from my old place to the new digs. Having to move multiple dozens of boxes of books is a good way to test friendships, haha.

Of course, the problem with selling/giving away books is that, unlike weeding a garden, you might end up missing the "weeds". My buddy Tom in Albany once weeded his library of books he felt he "never used" and subsequently spent the next year or two going to the shelf to look for a title that -- sure enough -- he'd sold or given away in that weeding frenzy. His advice: NEVER weed your library.

So I guess I'd say, 47 boxes of books -- a pain, yes, but what is life without pain, after all? And better the pain now than later. :-)

fellyconnelly writes at 03:08:16 06/28/07 - Comment #20218: (E:hodown) just the thought of NYC in this heat makes my skin crawl... i don't envy you....

(e:james) - lauren will NEVER sell her books. even if she never reads a single one of them again. and being that she will soon be attending grad school for a degree in that which requires enough books to put encyclopedia britannica to shame.... oh i might have just gotten a little depressed just now...

and dammit why isn't that pic of steven coming up?

james writes at 02:47:09 06/28/07 - Comment #20217: Before moving I decided to sell 1/3 of my books. Amazon payed for my moving expenses and our security deposit. So, with that volume in mind I have an idea what you are in store for. God speed.

hodown writes at 02:07:13 06/28/07 - Comment #20216: Im totally jealous. Its so hot an miserable in NYC right now. Even if the shore is gross, its better than nothing :)

fellyconnelly writes at 01:52:02 06/28/07 - Comment #20215: oh and by the by....
stephen
[img]0607/StevenAndLauren0603.jpg[/img]
will be accompanying us!
i'm trying to imagine what 6 hours in the car with stephen is going to be like... probably just crazy...

Permalink: tick_tock_tick_tock_tick.html
Words: 167
Location: New Paltz, NY

Category: fwuffy

06/26/07 04:23 - 91ºF - ID#39815

cuuuute with chris

Permalink: cuuuute_with_chris.html
Words: 7
Location: New Paltz, NY

Category: pain

06/24/07 05:41 - 82ºF - ID#39795

grumble grumble

my throat hurts.

which sucks. i don't enjoy that very much. i thought that was supposed to end when i quit smoking. that was 9 months ago.

i think we have made a decision to move on the 2nd. so if anyone wants to stop by, we will be there. moving. and then we have to get back in the car and head back to NP on the morning of the 3rd so that we could go back to work. lovely, eh?

anyway, i need to go close my store. i think i'm going to go home, get ice cream and then nap.

ice cream + sore throat = mildly complacent.

Permalink: grumble_grumble.html
Words: 108
Location: New Paltz, NY

Category: randomo

06/23/07 12:08 - 65ºF - ID#39783

my grandpap made dandelion wine

i drank a little too much blue moon last night...
but luckily i started out the day snuggling with a purring kitten... unless you are (e:paul), there is no way a bad day could start out with a purring kitten!

lauren just went out to lunch with her ex boyfriend... i wish she would hurry back with some food...

so my question is this...

what is everyones favorite hot spots around elmwood? (and i don't mean for wireless internet access)

coffee spots?
cafes?
bars?

there is a place in NPZ that has the greatest food ever....

and I need to find a similar place..

also... i have a menu for 'just pizza' and noticed dandelions on several menu items... what is up with that? buffalo doesn't seem like the type of place to go all hippie tofu on me... whats the deal people?

ummmm yeah thats all for now.

oh wait....
one other question: is amy winehouse is really a white chick?

leetee writes at 07:58:16 06/23/07 - Comment #20064: Holy mother of... how could i forget Saigon?!? It was the first restaurant (e:Uncutsaniflush) and i ate a meal in after moving to Buffalo 2 1/2 years ago! (e:jenks), thanks for the reminder. They have some good eats there... yummm...

Buffalo has a plethora of very good places to eat, not just on the strip. We have been known.. *gasp* to drive out to the 'burbs to eat food.

Our latest discovery is Zhang's Buffet, on Union near the Walden Galleria Mall. They have pretty good sushi and made to order stir fry.

theecarey writes at 05:15:32 06/23/07 - Comment #20060: purring kittens rock. Stopped at a landscape nursery yesterday, and two older kittens demanded attention and a lap to nap on. I sat down an obliged-- what else was I to do?

You wont be hurting to find food places around WNY--all kinds all over the place. On elmwood, among all the other places peeps mentioned, I dig Louis Hotdog joint--Yummy turkey burgers, sweet potato fries. Jims Steak Out is always good at 4am..

Coles- good food and micro brews! (on Elmwood)

venture a bit further out to Pearl Street Brewery- great bar and grill.

hungry now..

fellyconnelly writes at 05:02:20 06/23/07 - Comment #20057: FOOD APLENTY! yay.

and hi baby!

james writes at 04:15:27 06/23/07 - Comment #20053: When I go back down state to visit my folks (they are just north of Westchester) what amazes me is that a mom and pop restaurant serving alright food costs about the same as some of the most wonderful restaurants in Buffalo.

So, don't be afraid to go to places like Left Bank (amazing French/American) or Toro (a tapas bar) or Betty's (brunch never had it so good). You wont find much off beat or new cuisine here, but good food is aplenty.

scarlette writes at 02:55:46 06/23/07 - Comment #20051: Hi baby!

fellyconnelly writes at 02:41:57 06/23/07 - Comment #20049: wow! you guys all rock, in case i haven't told you that before.... so much info... Crazy!

there are hookas @ sahara grill??

i really did know that amy winehouse was a crazy drunken white chick from britain, i just was incredulous. but 'drunk london white version of lauryn hill' is probably the best description i've heard yet...

i remember seeing 'spot' in my drives - i can't wait to hang out in the coolest place until they realize that i'm not really cool and they kick me out!

i love the bistro in new paltz. i will be so sorry to see it go.

and i guess i'm going to have to take the plunge and try these crazy dandelions...

thanks again for all the info!

paul writes at 01:48:20 06/23/07 - Comment #20043: Ya, as (e:leetee) said dandelions are traditional italian food, you can find them made into many different types of dishes in Buffalo and the Dandelion greens are available at almost every grocery store.

jenks writes at 01:36:54 06/23/07 - Comment #20038: yep, amy winehouse is white. my BOL called her "a drunk london white version of lauryn hill", hehe.

I agree with everyone on the recs...
falafel bar is great. Sahara grill not as much so. Panos is 'eh', but I'll go. India gate- cheap buffet on wed night, and daily for lunch. Saigon cafe (thai), right next door, one of my faves. Solid grounds great breakfast. Bistro europa is good too, great wine list. Toro [neo-tapas], faherty's- good too. (no food at faherty's.) Globe is good for takeout lunch.
Spot is the 'social' coffee place, aroma a little quieter.

elmwood bars... there's coles and goodbar up towards 'my' end (north)- goodbar has a good beer list. as does coles. but i rarely go to either. then the faherty's/toro scene. I like allen st, too. Then there's a bunch of stuff on delaware, not too far away- colter bay, stillwater, and now the snooty fox [anyone been there yet? i haven't, but i've heard good things.]

joshua writes at 01:18:20 06/23/07 - Comment #20034: Globe Market - I like the food and they have Teany teas, which I love and haven't found anywhere else around here. They also have a gourmet shop in there as well which is interesting to look at, but I've never found myself interested in buying any of it.

BTW what a neat spot you have there in New Paltz! The menu looks cool.

Pano's I love - but then again I love mimosas and a little brunch on a sunny Sunday morning. Pano's is legendary, the food is good and the owner is a great guy. If you like Indian food, a local favorite is the India Gate near Forest on Elmwood - they do a lunch buffet and I like their samosas. You'll find a ton of things to check out and decent variety right on the street. I can't really say anything bad about any of whats available. There is a new European-style bistro called Bistro Europa which I hear is good, and also Mode (used to be Le Metro) on Utica and Elmwood is alright - I just checked it out last week and had a decent sandwich. Falafel bar - no frills and fabulous - near Bidwell on Elmwood. In the summer you may be interested in the Farmer's Market - local produce and products like fresh honey, dairy, loose leaf teas and other things. Lots of good looking berries if thats your thing for $4-6 a quart.

Spot or Caffe Aroma for your coffee - IMO the mochas at Caffe Aroma are better. Spot does have decent sandwiches, wraps, cold salads, etc. - if I'm up early enough on the weekends I head over and get a "Mike" which is ham, cheese and egg on a bagel with some aioli. If you like cookies with your coffee or tea I think Spot has some decent selections and all of them are good. Caffe Aroma serves alcohol and Spot doesn't.

I hear Solid Grounds is good but I've never been there. Its close to where you are going to live, so check it out and let me know =D

Pizza - you are sandwiched in between two good ones - Casa Di Pizza and Just Pizza. I love Just Pizza but it can be pricey. La Nova is another favorite and they have some frickin' great BBQ wings.

Bars - tough to say. For some offbeat fun (and if you don't mind chain smoking locals, which is illegal here and goes unenforced) then I would check out The Pink and Hardware, which are on Allen. Further down Allen towards Main St. you'll find Gabriel's Gate, which I love, and even still further down the street you'll see a selection of gay bars. I've never been in them so I can't attest to their quality so you may want to ask Paul or someone else which ones are better. On Elmwood the bars aren't bad but tend to attract suburban idiots who can't find any culture in Clarence or Williamsville. If I just want a drink and am trying to fly below the radar I go to Cole's (great beer on tap and in bottles!), McGharrets (hippiesh college age to twenty somethings bar, absolutely no frills and isn't for everybody), Faherty's (I know the bartenders but this bar does attract said suburbanites), Colter Bay and in general the Allen St. bars.

mike writes at 12:55:09 06/23/07 - Comment #20032: sahara grill has terrible service. I like the food, so take out is a better option but I have never had a good experience in the restaurant itself!

leetee writes at 12:45:52 06/23/07 - Comment #20031: :::link::: that should be the link to Globe Market. I forgot a space and the link didn't work.

leetee writes at 12:44:14 06/23/07 - Comment #20030: Yeah, Amy Winehouse is not only white.. but British!! Go figure, huh?

Lots of folks 'round here like Globe :::link::: as a place to lunch. Personally, i think the staff there are morons and the food is overpriced pap. But who's to argue with popularity?

Spot :::link::: seems to be the place the cool people hang (hence why i'm very rarely there) for coffee. Their tea selection is not too bad, the desserts i've had there are decent. I hear the food is good, too, but i haven't had any.

I hear Solid Grounds has great breakfast and lunch...

My fav food place on Elmwood is further north, between Potomac and Bird, Falafel Bar. Small place, but good mediterranean and great falafel. Some people like Sahara Grill better(might be the hookas, not the food though?), but the service there is the world's worst. Only go if you have a day to wait for your salad and think that misogynist assholes make good restaurant owners.

Hmm... this is getting wordy... well, what can i say? I'm a fat chick foodie...

As for dandelions -- in these here parts, that's more of an old school Italian thing than a hippie vegetarian thing. So no worries about Buffalo beomig a hippie town.. whew, eh?

mike writes at 12:25:23 06/23/07 - Comment #20029: haha dandelions are not hippie tofu here, they are a very italian thing and one thing buffalo has an abundance of is Italians and their eateries. Though i actually tihnk you could prolly eat pretty well hippie tofu style here if you wanted too.

Permalink: my_grandpap_made_dandelion_wine.html
Words: 166
Location: New Paltz, NY

Category: randomo

06/22/07 01:10 - 67ºF - ID#39763

stick your beef between two buns....

yesterday i spent about a half an hour filling out an online resume / questionairre for cingular. they called this morning and wanted me to come in for an interview.

umm... sorry i don't live there yet...

but the fella said to call him when i made it to buffalo and he would set me up with an interview.

SCORE!

anyway, i managed to deposit approximately 16 envelopes filled with resumes and sparkly clean delicious cover letters with addresses of many different sprint/nextel/cingular/cricket/etc addresses on them. I sent none to verizon as i have beef with the verizon store here in the mall.

did i really just say that i have 'beef' ?

anyway, in hopes of attracting all kinds of star wars lovers that may open up said envelopes, i was sure to affix a lovely star wars stamp on each of the envelopes. I saved Darth Vader for the Sprint store.

its going to be tough juggling all the interviews i'm going to have, and even tougher deciding which company deserves me the most...

sigh*

I just invited my boss and his wife to my going away party, and lured him in with the seduction of 'drunken slip and slide' he was panting with excitement.... at least that is what he said.

tonight i;m going to kick back with a 6 pack of blue moon and enjoy me friday night... just wish i could get out of here now.

Permalink: stick_your_beef_between_two_buns_.html
Words: 242
Location: New Paltz, NY

Category: randomo pix

06/21/07 08:07 - 75ºF - ID#39758

trip pics

pics of our trip to buffalo... there are not i know...

drivin drivin drivin

but this is our new home!

and this is our balcony!

anyway, i feel the need to inform you that one of my cats just jumped onto my shelf and stuck his head into a box of tampons and ran off with two of them. just what i need.

back to work!

Permalink: trip_pics.html
Words: 71
Location: New Paltz, NY

06/19/07 10:03 - 69ºF - ID#39738

OFFICIAL NOTICE!

We just got back from Buffalo
(pics later)

We went first to esquared's sheldon apartments wherein they started showing us this first apartment....

"the guys who lived here before were artsy"

and when i mentioned (e:jim) and (e:james) she promptly said that it was their apartment!

we saw your plaaaaacceee...

lauren loves your color preference, but we have no idea how you could have lived with that kitchen...

and i have to ask... they were really going to raise your rent due to the 'balcony'?

anyway - we went over to the other place and fell in love. we took it.
we are official (e:strip)peerrss!!! 367 elmwood baby!

more soon...

leetee writes at 08:25:10 06/20/07 - Comment #19936: Congrats on finding a place. Well done! I hope the move is a smooth one...

fellyconnelly writes at 07:58:04 06/20/07 - Comment #19935: apartment is cozy but we don't really need huge amounts of space...
James: they were asking $750 for that apartment.... i don't know how you managed to peel OR roast a carrot in that kitchen!
and yeah... maybe they meant 'gay' when they said 'artsy'... or maybe she said 'colorful' that is kinda gay right?

thanks for all the well wishing... i think we homos and our homo cats will fit in just nicely....

ladycroft writes at 04:52:56 06/20/07 - Comment #19925: welcome to the hood :)

metalpeter writes at 04:50:27 06/20/07 - Comment #19924: First of all congratulations on getting a place that you both like. I'm not sure of the numbers on elmwood I can never remember them but I don't think you two are to far away from me, maybe I'll see ya around the hood.

libertad writes at 04:37:32 06/20/07 - Comment #19920: Do you think that she equates artsy with gayness? Maybe it was her way of saying yeah two homos lived here before, you will fit right in. Artsy Friendly housing.

james writes at 10:22:21 06/20/07 - Comment #19909: artsy? More like farsy.

They were going to raise our rent $40. After we moved out they were renting that place for $135 more than we were paying.

And that kitchen.... the stove it too small to roast anything bigger than a carrot, not enough counter space to peel said carrot. I turned the dining room into our kitchen and had to... oh, I am going on.

Congrats. I hope you like the place. That is a cool part of town to be in.

jason writes at 09:40:03 06/20/07 - Comment #19908: Congrats Felly. See, things have a way of working out one way or another.

chico writes at 09:25:45 06/20/07 - Comment #19906: Great location... right in the middle of everything, close to Allentown and walking distance to downtown in good weather. Well done! What's the apartment like? When do you move in?

Best of luck in the new digs!

joshua writes at 08:47:51 06/20/07 - Comment #19904: Sweet - you are my neighbor although you live a few blocks away. Congrats! =) =) =)

Permalink: OFFICIAL_NOTICE_.html
Words: 112
Location: New Paltz, NY

Category: randomo

06/17/07 12:56 - ID#39704

rooaaaddd trip.

buffalo HERE I COME!

i think we are leaving around 5 am. lauren hates me for that. but i'm driving, right?

we have to get up to wilson and drop off a bunch of my stuff at my brothers house, visit, and make it over to my other brothers house in ransomville before heading back into buffalo for a 2 oclock double appointment at sheldon apartments and elmwood village apartments.

then i have to run around putting in applications all over b-lo

tuesday morning at 9 we are to call and confirm a noon showing of another apartment.

we also have to call about a 2 bedroom on ashland.

and do some more job hunting

and lauren has to go visit the college at some point.

BUSY BUSY BUSY

and I still do not know where i'm going to end up staying. the problem is now that my family is guilting me into staying with them. oh sweet jesus if they were to find out that i came to western ny and did not stay with them then they would be convinced that the world is ending... so lauren and i are just going and saying the hell with it - we will get to where we are getting and do what we have to do....

okay i need to get some food and look for more apartments online

Permalink: rooaaaddd_trip_.html
Words: 225
Location: New Paltz, NY

Category: randomo

06/16/07 10:27 - 69ºF - ID#39696

pop goes the brain cells

so i'm recounting the deposits for the last week so that i can make a bank deposit....

and as i'm counting i'm noticing something strange...

i keep losing count between 14 and 15.

i say 14 in my head and then 15 and then i'm like... wait... was that right?

i did this about ten times just now and it makes me wonder if there is some reason i have forgotten that after 13 comes 14 then 15 and so on... perhaps its true...

this job has eaten my brain.

or maybe its just the zombies...

okay at any rate its time to go home, thank god.