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Masturbation and sex

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Orgasms feel like butterflies flying. The convulsions in the vaginal canal, you know?It's like fluttering wings I imagine. I wonder what is the relation between the convulsions of an orgasm and the contractions of labor?
Sadly enough I've never noticed any vaginal spasms while actually having sex with a guy. I rarely have orgasms during sex and when I do they're not so great because I'm so distracted with this other person. It's difficult for me to concentrate on my own body. What is the force of this subtle spasm as compared with the weight of the old in and out? I'm cool with this because the best part of sex with someone is not actually orgasm but getting there, ha-ha, or in my case attempting to get there.

I want to understand guy's orgasms. What man would ever want to have sex without having an orgasm? Hmm... sounds like a man I'd like to meet.
I wonder, does pump pump pump explode get boring for everyone or just me. It's such a predictable cycle; it turns sex into masturbation, kind of... from my view. Masturbation is good but you always know the final result. The intensity of orgasm can vary but it is only degrees of the same thing.

Maybe some of you men can tell be how you feel during an orgasm? I've known a few guys who after their orgasm seem to become full of doubt. Is that common? I usually just feel like having a cigarette.

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  1. jason ·

    Pump pump pump explode never gets boring for a guy. We live for this, and for some other things that really don't matter as much. Women have so much more opportunity for sex that it isn't surprising they want more and more out of it.

    I mean, don't get me wrong, variation and change and getting on the fuckswing is awesome, and does wonders. But in the end, the explode is the same, it never has anything to do with how "special" or "different" you make it. We still just blow it and feel satisfied, and then brag to our friends about how freaky our girl is.

    I don't know any guy who says they feel doubt after they blow it. Personally, I feel elated, then thirsty.

  2. metalpeter ·

    I'm not a licanced thearypist but from all the shows I have seen and heard I think I can give a little advice. Have the guy get you off first through Oral. That way you are completely into you and your orgasim will be stonger. Then get him off through what ever position is best for him and if you get off to then it is a bonus.

    From a guys perspective (a fucked up one, and non typical one). Orgasims are greatWith girls are stonger and better then with ones self). Once I get off I want to have another one. Yeah being rode up and down is fun but to be honest getting head feals better most of the time. All guys are differant and I'm the exception I think. I won't get into any details but freaky stuff is fun to. The fun aspect is important to. I have had some great fealing sex that wasn't that fun and felt empty after words. Hope my odd view gave you some understanding.

  3. jenks ·

    Hmmmm
    That post makes me feel really lucky...
    no orgasm during sex?? tragic,
    And yeah getting there is great, but i disagree the orgasm isn't the best part.

  4. ajay ·

    Lets look at it like an engineer, shall we?

    For a guy, sex with a girl is 1000x better than sex with himself (aka masturbation). Spanking the monkey isn't quite the same as spanking the booty.

    If I make sure that the woman has an orgasm (or two, or three....) first, then I know that she'll be satisfied. Hence the chances of a repeat performance are much higher. Therefore, for efficiency and continued booty action, it is necessary to make her climax a couple of times. For good results one can use the fingers; for great results, the tongue is where it's at; and you can't spell "Great" without hitting the "G" spot, so to speak; that involves tongue and fingers. Save the "Great" for special occasions...

    After the woman has climaxed to her heart's content, then I let her ride me while I lay back and watch. It is so much fun to have the woman on top (though some women like the guy to be on top; for me, that's too much work ;) ).

    All of this sex talk is making me thirsty. Time to pop open a cold one...

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