So a friend of mine has been trying to arrange a not-too-obvious meeting between me and some cute guy she knows. Doesn't want to be too high school about it, and is trying to make it look like I just 'happened' to show up while he was there. But it's turning into a wild goose chase. The other night I got a message at like 11:30 "come to mother's! now! quick! he's here!" and then five minutes later "nevermind, he left." Good thing, b/c I was in bed anyway.
But so this saga continued last night, with the added complication that I was on call, and knew I'd have to go back in, just didn't know when. But so I met them at Stillwater (but he wasn't there), and as soon as I arrived, "the group" had decided to go to dinner at the Viking Lobster Company. Kind of a hole in the wall, with a 1-page xerox menu- fish fry, steak, or lobster, or a combo thereof. Of course, as soon as I ordered, I got called back for some utter bullshit at the hospital, and I had to go. Eventually made it back as everyone else was almost done and my food was cold, but nonetheless it was pretty damn good. Though I feel a little guilty that I keep getting these free dinners from my friend's BF. But he won't take my money, so I guess I should just enjoy it.
And her BF is a pretty cool guy. And, since Buffalo is a one degree of separation kind of place, I shouldn't be surprised that he knows people i know. And even knows cool stuff about people I know.
To the point that I have a pop quiz for you peeps-
Listen to this song and tell me if you can guess who's singing. Hint: we all know and love him.
apparently there's a video that goes with it, but I couldn't find it online.
So that was the cool part of the night. The shitty part- that in my rush to get to/from the hospital and not miss all of dinner, I made a mess.
I got there, and went to park in the last spot. It was at the end of a row, there was plenty of room. See diagram.

There was a car to my left, but nothing to the right. Tons of space. But there was a dumb street lamp at the end of the line marking the space. As I walked in, I thought 'i have to remember to be careful when I leave to back straight out so I don't hit that thing."
Well then work was annoying and I was mad, so when I left I was cranky, and what did I do? forget about the stupid light, and turn as I backed out.
I just heard this sickening CRUNCH as the right front end scraped against the light. I thought 'well I wasn't going fast, I stopped right away, how bad can it be?" I was hoping I just scuffed the fender...
Well no. The whole bumper was practically on the ground. turn signal and fog light all mashed up. God dammit.
And i don't want to drive around all ghetto with my bumper held on with string, but I can't take it in til at least tuesday...
It's still driveable, it's not MAJOR damage as far as I can tell, but I'm sure they'll have to order all sorts of parts. Anyone want to wager on the cost? I'm guessing $1000, but I sure hope I'm wrong.
UGH!
So anyway... happy saturday peeps. I think I'll go do laundry.
Oh and my buddy Fantastic Kyle (see previous post) is IMing me again-
2:17 PM
Hi there
How have you been?
2:20 PM
Are you there?
2:30 PM
I hope I haven't upset you
3:15 PM
Are you ignoring me?
Gee dude, what do you think????
That "lamp" was the City of Buffalo getting back at you... :D
That dude needs to learn how to pick up chicks OFFLINE.
I'll dibs 1500 in the pool. Bumper plus fender fun makes for happy collision guys.
Makeup sex, sure, just respect me in the morning
:)
Since you brought it up again, I feel free to revisit the topic. Personally, I figure opinions are like assholes, everyone has one. So it really doesn't matter to me if you love or hate Buffalo.
However, when you wrote "All I can think is 'if you think this is awesome, you have obviously never lived in a 'real' city, and I feel badly for you.'" I didn't find this statement to be the least bit charming.
I found it to be arrogant and conceited. Your statement implies that the only reason ANYONE would love Buffalo is because he or she is a stupid ignorant hick who has never lived in a "real" city or even knows what one is.
And you, of course, are entitled to your opinion. Maybe you are right and I am a stupid ignorant hick. I would be ok with that. Because I would be a HAPPY stupid ignorant hick.
That being said, it amazes me that you are suprised when after you insult a city AND the people that love it, they take umbrage.
But that's just me. As always, I could be wrong.
oh, and we should start an (e:strip) pool... you say $1,000, I say $1,250.
too bad the lamp post wasn't Fantastic Towel-Boy Kyle... although the two seem roughly equivalent in terms of intelligence quotient
First of all I didn't know we where fighting But Sure lets have Makeup sex why not(Kidding of course). I wish you luck with what ever is going on with the meeting someone else and FWB thing.
I'll be honest song wise that sounds so..., I know I have heard it before but I can't think of the band. The guy singing does kinda sound like Tony.
I have a feeling why what you said hit such a nerve is because of that insider vs outsider standpoint. I'm not saying you are an outsider to (e:strip). But it looks as if you are someone who didn't want to be here and who doesn't like it (it also meaning buffalo) . Kinda like when people from other countries complain about not liking the us. Well then move the fuck back to your shit hole country that you ran away from is the normal response. I think that is kinda how your post came off. It is different if you live here and want to be here but complain about how Buffalo has to get its shit togather. I figured the cold was getting to you and the FWB also so you just kinda lashed out. It is ok to not like certain aspects of Buffalo and get frustrated with things. But how you express it is a big factor. I'm not saying to be fake or polite or to lie or anything like that. I'm just saying you don't have to write in bitchy tone. However that being said it is your journal and you should feel free to write what ever and how ever you please.
It sounds like right now things are going a little rough for ya, with the accident an all, so I hope things get better for ya.