so, i had this date the other night, with possibly the cheapest guy ever.
he is kinda cute, but really annoying, and selfish seeming. however, he's giving me all these programs i need, that are really expensive, so i am seeing him again tonight.
umm, on the fist date, he didn't even offer to pay for my food or drinks. i mean, come on.
so, i am not a gold-digger at all, but i feel like the guy should at least offer to pay the first few times. but, he's giving me like $1000 worth of programs, so we can hang out at least this one time.
then, we shall see, if he is annoying still or not, and if the cheapness goes away. but i really think, dating a cheap guy is not a good idea.
friends maybe, maybe.
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12/01/2007 14:25 #42354
is it wrong to use someone for programs?Category: dating
11/26/2007 19:34 #42292
the flow of informationCategory: random banter
my mind is flooded with so many things, that i feel like i need a newer/bigger hard drive, and more RAM.
i officially hate my job at the hospital, and quitting it would mean more time for other ventures, and i could pick up more hours at the other job i actually like. and perhaps pursue some other job, i actually like.
glad all of you, think getting gross voicemails is so hot, give me your numbers, and ill forward them next time...
i was reading this editorial about how Halloween-new years has been mashed up into one huge never-ending holiday, that is taking us over. i agree, and wish to put it to an end. if that means no presents, i am okhwith that. because, lets face it, what i actually want, i can't have, and the rest is crap probably made in china.
(e:hodown) agrees.
on thanksgiving, my macbook took a 6' plus tumble, and is totally ok. apple will take over the world; i want to live there. and work for apple of course...
i officially hate my job at the hospital, and quitting it would mean more time for other ventures, and i could pick up more hours at the other job i actually like. and perhaps pursue some other job, i actually like.
glad all of you, think getting gross voicemails is so hot, give me your numbers, and ill forward them next time...
i was reading this editorial about how Halloween-new years has been mashed up into one huge never-ending holiday, that is taking us over. i agree, and wish to put it to an end. if that means no presents, i am okhwith that. because, lets face it, what i actually want, i can't have, and the rest is crap probably made in china.
(e:hodown) agrees.
on thanksgiving, my macbook took a 6' plus tumble, and is totally ok. apple will take over the world; i want to live there. and work for apple of course...
ladycroft - 11/27/07 02:57
it still says you haven't accepted me on skype!
it still says you haven't accepted me on skype!
11/24/2007 23:43 #42276
people with zero class and 100% crassCategory: sick fucks
somebody called me today from a restrcited number and left a voicemail of a woman having an orgasm.
i get restricted calls a lot, and random text messages. who ever is doing this is gross.
it looks like i do have a gross stalker lurking.
there are other worth while things i could post right now, but i am angered by this.
f off gross stalker person.
i feel like i need some mace.
i get restricted calls a lot, and random text messages. who ever is doing this is gross.
it looks like i do have a gross stalker lurking.
there are other worth while things i could post right now, but i am angered by this.
f off gross stalker person.
i feel like i need some mace.
carolinian - 11/26/07 13:03
Hey, some people pay good money for that sort of thing!
Hey, some people pay good money for that sort of thing!
lilho - 11/25/07 23:52
james, when i say, "sick fuck", i mean, you too. in the nicest way possible of course!
james, when i say, "sick fuck", i mean, you too. in the nicest way possible of course!
james - 11/25/07 19:23
I am really sorry. That was actually me on the phone. I know, I know. I sounded like a girl but when I peak I blow through the roof.
Once, while getting a hand job from an Iranian diplomat my voice went so high he swore I sounded just like Debby Harry (Blondie is huge in Iran!)
ahem...
sorry you are getting harassed.
I am really sorry. That was actually me on the phone. I know, I know. I sounded like a girl but when I peak I blow through the roof.
Once, while getting a hand job from an Iranian diplomat my voice went so high he swore I sounded just like Debby Harry (Blondie is huge in Iran!)
ahem...
sorry you are getting harassed.
metalpeter - 11/25/07 09:32
I will admit I'm a little perverted my self and don't know how I would react. If I thought it was a girl or lady I didn't know I would find it very hot and then I think I might have to go find some porn or something. but there is another side of me that would be kinda freaked out a little bit. I would think Is someone playing a joke on me and who is it and why, are they an ex and just faking it to fuck with me or does someone I know want to get off in front of me but doesn't know how to tell me. My next thought would be I wonder if it is a sex line or a scam and next time it will be a stalker. But to reverse the gender thing if it was someone of the same gender then it might bother but I'm a guy so that would be weird unless it was a guy and a girl getting off.
I will admit I'm a little perverted my self and don't know how I would react. If I thought it was a girl or lady I didn't know I would find it very hot and then I think I might have to go find some porn or something. but there is another side of me that would be kinda freaked out a little bit. I would think Is someone playing a joke on me and who is it and why, are they an ex and just faking it to fuck with me or does someone I know want to get off in front of me but doesn't know how to tell me. My next thought would be I wonder if it is a sex line or a scam and next time it will be a stalker. But to reverse the gender thing if it was someone of the same gender then it might bother but I'm a guy so that would be weird unless it was a guy and a girl getting off.
imk2 - 11/25/07 00:38
i'm sorry, i may be a little (or a lot) perverted, but if someone did that to me, i totally would think it was kind of hot and would get turned on. i'm kind of jealous.
i'm sorry, i may be a little (or a lot) perverted, but if someone did that to me, i totally would think it was kind of hot and would get turned on. i'm kind of jealous.
11/19/2007 11:38 #42197
thanksgiving: a good startCategory: cooking
last night i baked an apple pie. i made the crust from scratch, because us hos don't like to do things half assed. actually i do like doing things half assed, but not when it comes to cooking.
here are the results:
the ingredients and supplies, let's get started!
steve, my helper, and my momma's beau, helped. thanx steve!
hooray!
put in the oven, and mark it with a "G" for grammy and me!
all cooked, and wrapped and ready for thursday!
there are no photos of the rolling, and prep of the dough, but i assure you, i made it from scratch. making dough is a bitch, and messy too.
i need to buy some white bread to lie on top of my pie to keep it moist, because no one wants a icky dried out pie.
tonight, i might make another mini pie, with raspberries. tomorrow, i start on some other stuff!
i feel like this is going to be a great thanksgiving! yesamesh!
here are the results:
the ingredients and supplies, let's get started!
steve, my helper, and my momma's beau, helped. thanx steve!
hooray!
put in the oven, and mark it with a "G" for grammy and me!
all cooked, and wrapped and ready for thursday!
there are no photos of the rolling, and prep of the dough, but i assure you, i made it from scratch. making dough is a bitch, and messy too.
i need to buy some white bread to lie on top of my pie to keep it moist, because no one wants a icky dried out pie.
tonight, i might make another mini pie, with raspberries. tomorrow, i start on some other stuff!
i feel like this is going to be a great thanksgiving! yesamesh!
ladycroft - 11/19/07 14:15
crust is wicked easy! here's a tip to save on the mess. stick your dough between two pieces of wax paper and roll it out, peel of one layer, flop it in the pie dish, walla!
crust is wicked easy! here's a tip to save on the mess. stick your dough between two pieces of wax paper and roll it out, peel of one layer, flop it in the pie dish, walla!
11/17/2007 23:51 #42181
when life hands you lemons...Category: car
make a lemondrop!
or a screwdriver.
im le tired.
my car broke down a bunch of times this week, luckily, i was able to restart it each time. except for tonight after work. i then sat in my car for an hour and half, half crying, half laughing, nearly peeing my pants.
i had to pee so bad.
my car was just in the shop last week, and being the little nazi btich it is(more on the lovely swastika scratched into the hood later), it wouldn't do its not starting thing for the mechanic, nope. it loves to stall for me. in fact anywhere it can; in the middle of an intersection, the engine shut down on the freeway, on a curvy road, on a major hill; anywhere. i have been here 6 months, my car has broken down about as many times.
the upside to all of this? there is none. i hate that car.
anyway, onto better topics. this will be my first thanksgiving i am charge of everything, shopping, cooking, taming the wild beasts in my family. i have the shopping part done.
i also have a million art projects to complete in the next month.
oooh, and i am officially applying for my passport in two weeks! which means i will have it soon! i can't wait to travel!!!!
and, i still hate cats.
whenever i have really bad days like this, i think, at least im not preg, that makes every situation seem like such less of an issue. not that i am sleeping around so i would have to worry about that, but more of a, at least i don't have a family to feed or some shit like that. i can just hit the sauce when the going gets rough, not that i do that all the time either...
anyway, i cleaned my room today, and it looks really nice, so without further ado, i bring you the (e:lilho) abode! i will be lying in my bed, drinking some form of vodka drink....
or a screwdriver.
im le tired.
my car broke down a bunch of times this week, luckily, i was able to restart it each time. except for tonight after work. i then sat in my car for an hour and half, half crying, half laughing, nearly peeing my pants.
i had to pee so bad.
my car was just in the shop last week, and being the little nazi btich it is(more on the lovely swastika scratched into the hood later), it wouldn't do its not starting thing for the mechanic, nope. it loves to stall for me. in fact anywhere it can; in the middle of an intersection, the engine shut down on the freeway, on a curvy road, on a major hill; anywhere. i have been here 6 months, my car has broken down about as many times.
the upside to all of this? there is none. i hate that car.
anyway, onto better topics. this will be my first thanksgiving i am charge of everything, shopping, cooking, taming the wild beasts in my family. i have the shopping part done.
i also have a million art projects to complete in the next month.
oooh, and i am officially applying for my passport in two weeks! which means i will have it soon! i can't wait to travel!!!!
and, i still hate cats.
whenever i have really bad days like this, i think, at least im not preg, that makes every situation seem like such less of an issue. not that i am sleeping around so i would have to worry about that, but more of a, at least i don't have a family to feed or some shit like that. i can just hit the sauce when the going gets rough, not that i do that all the time either...
anyway, i cleaned my room today, and it looks really nice, so without further ado, i bring you the (e:lilho) abode! i will be lying in my bed, drinking some form of vodka drink....
lilho - 11/19/07 11:40
it was pre-scratched, as long as it isnt completely dead, i am having it painted in the next month.
it was pre-scratched, as long as it isnt completely dead, i am having it painted in the next month.
ajay - 11/19/07 01:39
I don't think anyone would _scratch_ a swastika on the hood of a new car, (e:tinypliny) . Usually it's washable.
I don't think anyone would _scratch_ a swastika on the hood of a new car, (e:tinypliny) . Usually it's washable.
tinypliny - 11/19/07 00:18
Swastika on the hood? Maybe you bought it from Indians? The Swastika is a holy symbol of life and beginnings. All new shiny cars in Delhi (North India) traditionally have a crimson swastika hand printed on their hood before they go any significant number of Kilometres. They also have a coconut smashed and broken on their front bumper for good luck.
Swastika on the hood? Maybe you bought it from Indians? The Swastika is a holy symbol of life and beginnings. All new shiny cars in Delhi (North India) traditionally have a crimson swastika hand printed on their hood before they go any significant number of Kilometres. They also have a coconut smashed and broken on their front bumper for good luck.
mike - 11/18/07 10:51
wow! you are doing the whole thanksgiving thing! GOOD LUCK!
wow! you are doing the whole thanksgiving thing! GOOD LUCK!
jbeatty - 11/18/07 03:01
shot in the dark. Maybe there is a hole in your fuel filter?
shot in the dark. Maybe there is a hole in your fuel filter?
yeah... cheap is not good. And it's totally not about the money- just about the gesture in my book.
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A cheap is a bad sign....... so is a golddigger.....In this case, Scrooge needs to go. And if you feel bad about using him for software..... chances are he is using you for something too....... I don't actually know if that thought is comforting........
Even if you think he is going to make it as a mobster, if you have a bad feeling about this person, I think you should step away, as soon as you possibly can.
(e:lilho), I am going to just throw it out there, but he is not giving you programs - he is stealing them for you. So unless you think he is going to make it as a mobster there is no point in dating someone who steals stuff for you, if what you want is someone who buys stuff for you.
unless you plan on wearing poodle skirts and talking about that new fangled Norman Mailer, going dutch is how it goes.
Also note, your school should give you a killer discount on programs if you don't want to hang out with the dork.
Did you offer to pay for his food or drinks? I think today it's less expected for guys to pay for ladies. (e:Drew) and I did dutch until we became closer. Once we became close, we took turns picking up the check for one another.