"A few of my favorite things..." written by Gardenmama on estrip.org

11/05/08 10:20 - 51ºF - ID#46566

A few of my favorite things...

...Coffee, Chocolate, friends...

Just a reminder in case anyone is interested, tomorrow is Literacy Volunteers' annual Coffee & Chocolate fundraiser - 5:30 - 8:00 p.m. at the Shea's Smith Theatre & Intermission Lounge. A $20 donation gets you an evening of goodies from Fowler's Chocolates, coffee from Starbucks and appetizers from some local dining establishments. There's also entertainment, basket raffel & silent auction.

Ummm - I love coffee and chocolate.. almost as good as... whatever! hahaha

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11/05/08 01:13 - 52ºF - ID#46542

Gracious

While I hated the negativity of this long, arduous campaign, and the campaign b.s. and rhetoric definitely made me lose some respect for both of the candidates, I must, nonetheless, say that they were both very gracious in their speeches this evening. During his speech, McCain once again seemed the man I might have considered voting for 8 years ago had he, rather than Bush, been on the ticket. But who knows, maybe a hard run at the White House back then would have changed him into whomever it was that came out in this campaign. Anyway, I thought Obamaâ€™s speech was great too. Nice to see both of them speaking of working together and healing the nation...

YEA! Itâ€™s over - tonight - I can finally sleep!

Happy Election to All, and to All a Good Night.

gardenmama writes at 08:06:41 11/05/08 - Comment #41651: I too voted for Gore in 2000, and though I don't regret it, I wasn't thrilled either. And had it been McCain running against him, I'm really not sure which way I would have gone but I think I would have given him some real consideration. dragonlady7, I too wish I could believe the theory of throwing the election on purpose - it would serve the R's right after what they did to him. I guess that's part of what surprised me with the campaign, he seemed to be trying a little too hard to please them. I understand there's a whole purse stings thing attached to the kowtowing stuff but it irks me nonetheless. And of the 2012 campaign, MrMike, maybe they'll give us at least until after inauguration day before they start up with that crap - haha.

joshua writes at 12:35:52 11/05/08 - Comment #41607: I voted for Gore, and it was the only vote I've ever regretted! At the time I didn't regret it too much... I was the guy passing around Noam Chomsky in class, to give you some perspective.

Look, McCain has always been this guy. All politicians (the Messiaobama included) have done things in their past they aren't too proud of in order to advance their careers. Neither Obama or McCain are "bad guys" - reasonable people know that.

dragonlady7 writes at 12:10:11 11/05/08 - Comment #41606: I wanted McCain in 2000 too!! I wanted him more than Gore!! I was SO ANGRY when Bush got the nomination, I was almost madder about that than him actually winning. McCain is a hawk but he would have buttoned up Afghanistan before going after Iraq. People keep saying "Oh you can't blame W for all that's wrong now" but that's bull, it was his personal batshitness that put so much pressure on us to go after Saddam personally.

Ugh.
But yes. McCain's speech was the way I remember him being, back when I liked him. It was disconcerting, because I had this odd warm-fuzzy feeling. Is it just that he's defeated, that I like him again? No, the things he said were actually nice, and sensible.

I read a theory that he threw the election on purpose because he wanted to screw the Republicans who'd screwed him.
I like that theory, weirdly.

dcoffee writes at 11:44:37 11/05/08 - Comment #41605: I think the real McCain showed up last night. He was a class act. He was great on SNL last weekend too. Maybe with the campaign over now he can go back to being himself.

mrmike writes at 09:41:01 11/05/08 - Comment #41589: Had McCain been that guy all along he might not have had to stuggle so. He spent so much time wanting the country off his front lawn in recent months, it was difficult to tell what he for.

Great speeches and now it is finally over and we can concern ourselves with something else until the 2012 campaign begins next month.

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11/03/08 06:32 - 59ºF - ID#46498

ELECTION WOEs

I find with the closer tomorrow gets, the more apprehensive I become. I know that Obama is ahead in the polls but, 8 years ago, so was Gore (I believe it was by 8 points pre-election day) - we all know how that turned out. Part of my concern is that frequently the polls make teetering, would-be voters stay home if their candidate of choice is the one who is ahead; or makes voters come out if their candidate is behind. A combination of these two things causes really bad things to happen, ala 8 years ago. Thank god Iâ€™m off work tomorrow because I just donâ€™t think Iâ€™ll be getting much sleep tonight.

On the brighter side, after tomorrow, come what may, it will all be over. No more phone calls, no more flyers, no more dreadful negative TV ads, and on and on and on... that in itself deserves some celebrating.

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11/01/08 11:36 - 36ºF - ID#46470

Heating system

Does anyone have one of these infrared heaters, or has anyone heard anything about them? I was speaking to someone recently who heard good things about them, but I would appreciate some additional opinions. Theyâ€™re supposed to help save money and be safer than regular space heaters. I keep my heat pretty low and the back of my house tends to be colder than the front- itâ€™s pretty chilly. Also, heating costs are supposed to go up this winter and frankly, I prefer not to have to pay outrageous gas bills. Of course, I donâ€™t want to pay outrageous electric bills either.

Science is not necessarily my strongest knowledge area so maybe if someone can even tell me if the whole premise of the infrared heater as an energy saver makes sense?

Thanks.

http://greenisbetter.org/

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10/31/08 06:17 - 60ºF - ID#46453

H A P P Y H A L L O W E E N ! ! !

Here's wishing you all a very happy, spooky, silly, haunted halloween! Hope you all have a blast at the party - I, regretfully, will be unable to attend. ENJOY!!

P.S. - My costume was going to be Dr. Seuss' Thing 1 - maybe next year.

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10/30/08 05:50 - 47ºF - ID#46432

Life's cruel twists

One of my dearest friends (my daughterâ€™s god-mother) called me at work yesterday a.m. to tell me that her brother had died from a massive heart attack. He had just turned 56 years old earlier this week. I had been friends with him for 23 years and my children referred to him as Uncle Albert. His family is very close and my heart is breaking for them and, selfishly, for me too. I hate that people have to die. Today I am so very, very sad.

Of Albert...

Wine and tears and music flow...
family and friends (so many) gathered in disbelief
so full of life, how could it possibly be
a heart so strong, so full... should cease

Father, brother, husband, lover, son, uncle, friend
he gave so much to so many

Waves of joy and sadness intermingle,
as, between the tears, love and laughter fill the air,
a reflection of memories so sweet

Together, seeking solace and understanding
we mourn the loss of one so loved and loving, yet
we celebrate a life that touched ours so uniquely
knowing, the gift that was Albert shall live on...
forever in our hearts and souls.

by: KAZ 10/30/08

Picture of Albert toasting - enjoying life at Allegany State Park

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10/28/08 08:25 - 39ºF - ID#46395

Cancer questions

I have a friend who is battling esophageal cancer. Her sister sent me the following update, which I received today:

A few weeks ago she had a lung drained and they were going to drain the other the following week. After a week's delay due to the stomach flu she went in to have the procedure done. They determined the same lung had filled up again (worse than the lung they hadn't touched yet) and drained it again. As per (patient), they have no intention of draining the untouched lung. They stopped chemo (fluid in lung is side effect of chemo) and don't plan on resuming it until after Thanksgiving. They're keeping an eye on her lungs and she'll have a CAT scan just before Thanksgiving to determine how to proceed with chemo so that her lungs don't continue to fill with fluid (other side effects are tearing eyes, which (patient) says are much less teary since stopping chemo and thick crusty nails which she is grateful it's glove weather so she can hide her hands now, and also total exhaustion which she hopes, with these weeks off, will help her regain some strength).

I am curious as to why they wouldnâ€™t drain the second lung, especially if itâ€™s causing her pain, as is my understanding. Also, is this really a side effect of chemo (I donâ€™t remember this being a problem with my husband)? Does anyone know?

gardenmama writes at 09:49:41 10/28/08 - Comment #41166: Thank you both for all the info. Tiny, yes, she used to be a smoker, but not an everyday smoker, usually only an occasional social smoker. Whatever her form of cancer, the dr.s said it was some rare type and that she doesn't really fit the demographic for it at all. Yes, the treatment has been primarily pallative and trying to buy some time. She has a teenage daughter whom she's pretty determined to see graduate from H.S. next June; though she has already surpassed what they initially expected - I'm guessing out of sheer stubbornness.

tinypliny writes at 09:41:16 10/28/08 - Comment #41165: Thanks for clearing stuff up, (e:jenks).

Good luck to your friend (e:gardenmama). She will be in my prayers.

jenks writes at 09:25:18 10/28/08 - Comment #41161: p.s. I've never heard of cancer cells in the saliva, unless I suppose it was cancer of the salivary glands...
Won't say it's impossible, but i haven't heard of it.

Unfortunately, esophageal ca is a 'bad actor'.

And stage IV anything is usually inoperable. I'd have to check the guidelines, but even chemo/radiation is usually more palliative than curative at that point.

Even if surgery were an option, an esophagectomy is no joke.

I'm sorry you're having to deal with this... best wishes to everyone.

jenks writes at 09:21:48 10/28/08 - Comment #41160: I must have felt you calling my name tiny, after four months away, I'm baaaack....

minor correction tiny- fluid in the lung like that (technically in the pleural space, between the lung and the chest wall) is called pleural effusion. Pulmonary edema is a little different. But nonetheless...

I don't know side effects of all chemo all that well, but effusions (malignant effusions) are unfortunately pretty common in advanced cancers (particularly breast). May well also be due to chemo. Usually they will tap the fluid a few times, but if it keeps reaccumulating, they will try a procedure called pleurodesis, in which they put a chemical irritant (usually talc, or sometime doxycycline or bleomycin) in the pleural space- it makes the lung 'stick' to the chest wall, so the fluid can't accumulate. If that doesn't work (it doesn't alway) they may have to do surgery to accomplish the same thing, or if surgery isn't an option for whatever reason (patient too sick etc) they may just leave a tube in to drain the fluid.

As far as only doing one side... Any time you stick anything into the chest, there's a risk of collapsing the lung. Which is bad enough, but collapsing both is even worse, so usually they'll only do one at a time, just in case. But if they really have "no intention" of EVER tapping the other side... I'm not sure why that would be.

But side effects depend on the specific chemo regimen- which may be why her husband's experience was different. Nausea/vomiting/fatigue are pretty universal, though.

And one last comment, effusions aren't usually PAINFUL per se, but cause (sometimes severe) shortness of breath.

Hope that helps!

tinypliny writes at 09:17:31 10/28/08 - Comment #41159: What I meant was PCR is very sensitive and picks up EVEN small number of malignant cells in the saliva.

Based on what you are saying, it would seem that this patient had large number of shed malignant cells in the saliva. So PCR may not have been necessary.

tinypliny writes at 09:15:11 10/28/08 - Comment #41158: Some more questions - was she a smoker? Did the lung have any traces of cancer? Sometimes malignant cells can be detected in the saliva when you carry out a PCR (Polymerase Chain Reaction) assay on the saliva. But this technique picks up small number of malignant cells in the saliva.

:/ I need to read up about this!

tinypliny writes at 09:10:16 10/28/08 - Comment #41157: If she didn't have surgery, it does sound like she was receiving neoadjuvant (to shrink the tumour to a manageable size) before surgery. I am not really familiar with the treatment protocol for advanced stage esophageal ca so I need to read before I say anything completely inaccurate.

Hmmmm.... were the cancer cells shedding in her saliva? I need to read up about this.

(e:jenks)?

gardenmama writes at 09:01:35 10/28/08 - Comment #41150: No Tiny, no surgery. I'm not sure of all the details but when she was diagnosed it was stage 4 and she had a tumor the size of a golf ball. Also, there's something about the "type" of cancer that it is that's not the "usual". I could have this messed up but I believe it involves something with there actually being cancer in her saliva/her saliva being cancerous? Anyway, she's been through radiation and was in some type of chemo study but then had to stop it because she became too ill. So they went to a different type of chemo.

tinypliny writes at 08:50:04 10/28/08 - Comment #41144: And to answer your other question, yes, it's possible that pulmonary oedema is a side-effect of chemotherapy (neo-adjuvant/or otherwise) but no, it doesn't always occur is all patients.

With regards to your question about why they are not attempting lung drainage again or even in the other lung, I don't really know. Maybe the bonafide surgeon (I am looking at you, (e:jenks)) could give us some insights of postop/post-chemo edema management?

tinypliny writes at 08:37:54 10/28/08 - Comment #41142: Did she have esophagectomy - surgery dissecting out the cancer + lymph nodes before chemo? Pulmonary edema is the #1 postop complication after esophagectomy for thoracic (lower-part which is in the chest cavity) esophageal cancer.

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Category: movies

10/27/08 09:48 - 43ºF - ID#46375

Top 10 things I like...

...about going to the movies; and top 10 movies I want to see that are out right now:

Does it ever seem like the movie industry releases a bunch of movies at a time that you want to go see, or there is nothing out at all that you want to see? Why canâ€™t they spread the good ones out so that thereâ€™s always something worth seeing? Anyway, I donâ€™t know exactly why, but I love going to the movies.

So, here are the top 10 (random) things I like about going to the movies:

1. Approximately two hours of escape from your own reality
2. The smell of the popcorn (though I usually donâ€™t eat it)
3. Big screen
4. Laughing out loud and/or having a good cry
5. Comfy seats with cup holders
6. No telephone (if you donâ€™t stupidly mess up turning off the sound - like I did last time I went. I hate that!)
7. Sometimes the movie surprises you, taking unexpected twists
8. Sharing an evening with a friend
9. People watching in the lobby
10. Happy endings

Top 10 (random) movies I want to see that are out right now:

1. Nights In Rodanthe
2. Righteous Kill
3. The Secret Life of Bees
4. Miracle At Saint Anna's
5. Body of Lies
6. Burn After Reading
7. Rachel Getting Married
8. The Dutchess
9. The Women
10. The Dark Knight

(Most of them I probably wonâ€™t see till theyâ€™re out at Blockbuster-and, yes, almost half of them are "chick flicks.")

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10/26/08 06:26 - 57ºF - ID#46353

Costume shopping

Took my daughter Halloween costume shopping today to the Spirit costume store. I could not believe how ungodly expensive costumes are. She got this little woodland ferry-ish/nymph costume (which is way too short and revealing), that really doesnâ€™t have much to it, for $50. It is pretty cute - but $50? GEEZ! She actually wanted two costumes, one for school and one for Halloween night, but her friend and I talked her out of that. (There was no way she was getting a second costume.) Sheâ€™s going to put something together for school from stuff she already has. We then went to the Blvd. Mall to pick up a few accessories. We were going into Spencers and my daughter said something to me in reference to the â€œtypeâ€ of store it was (meaning it had â€œdirtyâ€ or otherwise â€œinappropriateâ€ stuff), as if it would somehow offend my sensibilities. I thought the whole thing was rather funny. Still donâ€™t have my costume together - having a hard time making a definitive decision but guess I better figure it out if Iâ€™m going to wear one. Eve or Lady Godiva are definitely out of the question, and I don't really do the slut/hooker/sexy whatever very well either - I'm not exactly 20-something, or even 30-something, anymore...

Went to the Battle @ Buffalo last night. We really enjoyed it. Turns out my niece knows the guy whose studio it is, and a couple of the dancers; the guy at the door collecting the $ went to high school with my son and niece; and my old next door neighbor was there with his kids. Briefly got to meet Felly and Lauren, which was also cool. It was a fun night and relatively inexpensive family entertainment. Pretty likely weâ€™ll go again - only earlier next time - to get some seats.

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10/25/08 05:12 - 55ºF - ID#46327

Early Halloween and New Car

I picked up my new car today - yay! I'm pretty excited. The dealer told me Buffalo has the highest car theft rate in NY state - I had no idea. I don't really think the car I bought is a usual car theft target - it's not exactly a luxury car or sports car.

Anyway, I was driving my daughter's friend home (who lives off Elmwood) and we saw a bunch of families out walking around with kids dressed up in costume. I guess there is some type of early celebration on the strip today.

Also, I had to stop at Wegman's this a.m. to pick something up for my sister and most of the employees were in costume. I guess they're all being encourage to dress up just this weekend. it was kind of funny.

Wanted to take my grandaughter to the Halloween thing at the Zoo last night but she had a party at school, and I have plans for this evening (going to the breakdancing competition Lauren posted about) so we can't go tonight either. Oh well, guess there's always next year.

Oh yeah, the dead dear in the parking lot thing was gross. I hate that I really like chinese food because you hear so much disgusting stuff about what chinese restaurants do (cats, dogs, rats, pigeon, now deer) that it really makes you not want to eat there. It's sad. ;(

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