....so in love

Yesterday he whispered in my ear, "If we were in a country that allowed it, I would be asking you to move in with me right now". I could feel my insides melting.

I always thought the line "you'll just know" was a crock of shit. But now I understand :)



I have more photos of Paris to put up but I've just started training my student staff and am really busy. I'll try to get to it this week!

He put flowers on the bed for me....



....he makes me so happy

Rory.

Are you currently in a relationship?
No. Unless you count the one I have with my Gamecube right now. We're tight.

When was the last time you went on a date?
It depends on your definition of the word date. To me there is a date that could be with a guy or girl, and it is simply two people going out to enjoy each other's company. Then there is the romantic date, in which two people go out that have interest in each other. A romantic date.....I seriously cannot remember, maybe 3 years ago. No really.

Did you enjoy it?
I cannot recall.

What was your longest relationship?
It is a tie between two of them, each just under 3 years.

Why did it end?
In both cases, I was cheated on. Nuff said.

When you meet the right person, do you fall fast?
Assuming you mean 'right person' as in someone you are willing to date exclusively...no, I do not fall fast.

Have you ever cheated on someone?
No.

Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is acceptable?
Never. It is a completely selfish form of betrayal.

Have you talked about marriage with another person or have you been married?
Never been married, never talked about getting married.

If somebody liked you right now, what do you think a cool unique way of showing you would be?
Surprise me with something creative, which is hard to do. If you wrote 'ladycroft you tha bomb' in the snow outside my window, that would make me smile.

Do you enjoy the chase?
Eh. It's fun to flirt, but I'd rather not dance around the subject too long.

Have you gotten over everyone you had feelings for?
Yes.

Do you believe love at first sight exists?
No.

Are you a romantic?
When I want to be.

If money were no object, what would you do on your next date with someone you like?
Fly to New Zealand and go skydiving, bungee jumping, white water rafting, snowboarding, surfing and zorbing. Oh, and pick bunches of lavender to make syrup with! Mmmmmm.

Outdoor date or indoor?
I like them both, but I think more outdoor.

How important is...money?
Well, you need it to survive. Other than that, I do not need exorbitant amounts to be happy.

How important is... physical attraction?
Very, but that is not to imply this means airbrushed model material. Attractiveness comes in different packages and we each see things differently.

How important is... body type?
Not so much. Well, to be honest, if you were morbidly obese things probably would not work out because you would not be able to participate in the activities I love. In general, though, I guess I have dated short, tall, skinny, athletic, average.....no real trend there.

How important are... brains?
You do not have to have a piece of paper that says you went to school. I have met some folks in my lifetime that have gone to college and are raving idiots. Cleverness and creativity are important. Common sense is critical – if you do not have any, go away right now and stick your head in a gas oven while smoking a cigarette! Seriously, one time I asked a guy to pump the gas while I ran inside to pay. He asked me where the gas goes in a car. I'm NOT joking.

How important is... being an animal lover?
Very, especially dogs!

How important is... good sex?
Very, yet this is something where you have some time. I think it is important to get to know each other's likes and dislikes through experimentation. Then it should be nothing less than fanfuckingtastic!

How important is... race?
Not an issue.

Do you believe that you can change someone?
No. Don't try to. You should like someone just as they are. If THEY want to make changes and you can support that, terrific – but do not think YOU can change them.

If you could get married anywhere?
On the moon would be sweet.

Friends with benefits?
Sometimes.

Do you easily give in when you are fighting?
I do not like to fight, but I will have a debate. No, I do not give in easily. I work things out.

Do you have feelings for someone right now, whether they know or not?
Eh, maybe. I am not entirely sure. I have had a rather unenthusiastic view about boys over the last two years.