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06/03/2010 19:43 #51794

wonder pets!
What's gonna work? Teamwork!

Such a cute show. My cutie pie lil niece is coming to visit tomorrow and I can't wait!!!

The dating thing lasted a week, because men are flakes and I refuse to chase anyone down. If a man likes me, he will put in the effort. Apparently no one likes me... Whateve having so much fun with friends!
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05/28/2010 19:06 #51749

hello kitty notepads
I love using hello kitty notepads at work and cite notepads ub general. It elevates my mood and the amount of cuteness in my lifestyle. Who wouldn't want more cute?

Well according to one man, no one is going to take me seriously if I use cute notepads. I can only be taken seriously with plain notepads.

Screw this. I don't really want to be seen as serious anyway. I want to be seen as fun and cute and stylish like hello kitty.

This man clearly has no style or sense of humor! I am going to write his messages on hello kitty paper only from now on...
ladycroft - 06/08/10 09:25
move to japan, they all use cutesy notepaper.
deeglam - 06/01/10 16:26
damn right sista! I agree- please, I use hello kitty notepads everyday. I don't care what anyone thinks, it keeps me from going insane from the mundane.
metalpeter - 05/29/10 18:15
The Dude didn't say what he wanted to say the right way. If you are using them for a task at work as opposed to something personal, then it would look unprofessinal and that would make it look like you wheren't serious. Kinda like when you see some blonde who really puts hearts or smily faces as the dots over their i will all ways be looked down on, well except for others who do that. What he also didn't say is that if what you write down is good then that out ranks the Hello Kitty stuff. But let me back that up a bit. The unprofessional all depends on the Job, if someone was working in a non professional Job or with kids or something like that, then Hello Kitty might be prefered. Who knows people who like hello kitty will be impressed that you have the balls to do that. Who Knows maybe he wants to do it and just doesn't have the balls to, HA.

05/28/2010 00:24 #51741

bug bites or something
Giant hive looking things on the back of my upper thighs. I cherish this part of my body I do tons of squats.I have a date tomorrow date and its not complete without a mini.


I wish the itchy spot be gone!!!
paul - 05/28/10 02:37
Here to hoping they are not spider bites.

05/26/2010 23:33 #51733

my mom's guy says
there is an unwritten guy rule that men expect major action on date 3.

really????


i told him this is bs.


i think holding out is the best power you can have.... i am testing it out right now. i'll let ya know how it goes....
enknot - 06/07/10 12:41
a sweet dude expects major action when he wants it, but by date 3 if there's no action (or attempt for action) then either you're dating a prude or you've just been made into a fruit fly. (ok that's a false choice, but the other options are less entertaining except: he's using the pressure cooker technique to turn you into an instant freak)

metalpeter - 05/28/10 17:52
I think all the rules and all The Games are all BS at some point they came from someone either getting hurt or something but those are the things that make people not want to date.......
lilho - 05/27/10 18:14
I just think the rule is bs if you like eachother you should both decide together...
metalpeter - 05/27/10 18:03
I'm no expert but this is what I have heard:

There is a 3 date rule.
But it isn't the guy who came up with this it is girls who did.
So If some guy dated girls who followed that, then that could lead them to thinking you know what happens on the 3rd date.

I have heard that because of this rule ladies often only do 2 dates and if they think the guy is special then the 3rd date happens.

I didn't even know people dated any more, HA.
carolinian - 05/27/10 16:31
Unwritten guy rule is to quickly mentally calculate your standard deviation from her estimated mean time-to-action (i.e. the time from first meeting to "magic"). Your number of standard deviations to the right of the mean indicate how badly you're being strung along/mind-gamed. If you're more than 3 to the right, you're not only being strung along, but you're probably being used for something as well.
lilho - 05/27/10 12:11
date two was last night. i told him about the three date thing... he laughed. but i could tell he is starting to lose it which is so fun for more. the thing is, he just moved back into town and is staying with his rents until he buys a condo. i told him when he get the condo then we can make the magic, but that is not for a while!!!!!! then he said something about a hotel. but really, i think he should wait if he likes me... i am not down with getting down in the parental unit. i am not moving out of my parental unit for some time, and he needs to get that condo. or take me on a weekend getaway..... this is so fucking fun!
joshua - 05/27/10 12:01
Weird. I'm "kinda hoping" on date one and "blueballed" on date three.
jason - 05/27/10 11:57
Well. I don't know if that's a rule. I don't believe in it. I also don't believe in splashing all kinds of money on the first 3 dates either. If you don't read any kind of physical chemistry there isn't much point in continuing anyway.
tinypliny - 05/26/10 23:39
So is the next one #3?

05/02/2010 15:37 #51491

mark my words
Forming an extreme dislike of all children excluding my niece. Never having children of my own. Looking forward to some sort of retreat from all children coming soon.
tinypliny - 05/02/10 21:49
Didn't you want to become a teacher?! It does involve a lot of kids, you know.