So, last night I had a really vivid dream about my old house in New Orleans. So today I googled it.
And I found a pdf of some glossy report about katrina funding- showing that my house was denied.
Then I found a pdf of the minutes of some new orleans historical preservation society- from 2009.
And in the last section of the minutes, "demolition for neglect"- I found my house.
Yet google maps still shows it in all its glory... bougainvillea (sp?) in bloom... looking great. But, it says 2009 in the corner.
I am amazingly sad.
In fact, I am surprised by how sad this news makes me.
Goodbye, old friend.
:(
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Vacation...So... I just got back from vacation. And it sucks that we couldn't stay longer- BUT, it's really nice to still have the whole weekend.
So friday night we went to my parents' as a little surprise for my mom's 60th bday. My sis/BIL/niece came in saturday, but they got in too late and we missed them. But, still I think mom was really touched/surprised that we came home.
Then sunday went down to Palm Beach. BF's parents have a condo down there, and it was great. Too bad the weather kind of sucked. It hit 70 on monday and we got to spend about 2h at the beach before it got too windy. Then the cold came in, and it didn't get over about 62 the rest of the time. Which is warmer than here- but still, I was REALLY hoping for some beach time, and a tan. Ah well.
Wed we drove to Orlando to meet BF's BFF who he hasn't seen in a couple years. So we drove 2.5 hr to see him for 2h then drove back. But it was nice to meet him, and a great lunch.
Did some shopping, or rather, browsing, since we can't afford anything, in some of the ritzy shops in palm beach.
Oh and we saw The Wolfman. Which was good- but not as super-rad as I wanted it to be.
Then today had to come home. :(
I got a text from orbitz saying my flight was on time... soon after got a text from my dad asking if it was cancelled. Which made me nervous, so I looked online- usair.com said it was on time.
So I go to check in and the kiosk tells me my flight has been cancelled.WTF. So I go stand in line foreeeeever while they try to help some lady who apparently was flying internationally with an infant and they were making her buy another ticket (or something).
But so I get to the front of the line, and she told me that yes, my flight was cancelled, but I'd already been rebooked on a different flight. Which was better times, and even better- was the flight BF was on. (we were supposed to be on different flights).
What?! My flight got cancelled and i got an EVEN BETTER one instead? That DOES NOT happen in my world.
Then tonight made some super delicious zucchini pasta for dinner, since I am still on vacation for the weekend. my diet starts back up on monday, and I am NOT looking forward to getting on that scale- I ate like a pig all week. It's going to be bad.
Oh well. Just need to get back on the horse. That's all.
So, here are some pix. (btw, I tried mobl-posting some mobl-pix, but it didn't work.)
Mom's birthday present. We commissioned a local artist (a HS classmate of my sister's) to do this painting for her. This is a crappy phone pic, but it's gorgeous. And the scene is right near our house. And it's an original. Super cool.
Me and BF and his BFF in Orlando.
Sunset over the golf course
Trying on uber-preppy clothes in Palm Beach. hehehe.
View from the condo. (It's right on the 14th hole of some golf course. Which means nothing to be, but I guess is semi-big deal. I just know it was pretty...)
Our all-too-brief stint at the beach
This super-cool-dood then appeared at the beach, replete with skinny jeans, socks, sneakers, cigarettes, and mardi gras beads. Oh and the awesome shades. :/ And then he was bossing all the other kids around, and they let him, because clearly the worship him. GOD I am glad I am not a teenager anymore.
And here are some other randoms that were in my phone...
My favorite Valentine.
The best thing I saw in MoMA. This chick was staring at that BLACK CANVAS for like 20 minutes. And you can see- it's roped off. That, and Starry Night (like, THE Starry Night) are about the only pieces roped off in the whole museum. Seriously? that stupid black canvas? Clearly I am just not a connoisseur of fine art, i guess.
But anyway- I think that picture of the girl staring at it is much cooler than the 'art' itself.
Last week the whole freaking state practically shut down, because snow was forecast. I am not lying when I say just about every school in the state was closed. UConn was closed. The whole freaking university! Because there MIGHT be snow.
This is what it looked like at work around 2.
It *did* eventually snow. We got about an inch. Seriously?! It was like mass hysteria.
I dunno, I just thought this equipment in the hallway in the OR looked like it was dressed up for halloween. ;)
Good night peeps!
So friday night we went to my parents' as a little surprise for my mom's 60th bday. My sis/BIL/niece came in saturday, but they got in too late and we missed them. But, still I think mom was really touched/surprised that we came home.
Then sunday went down to Palm Beach. BF's parents have a condo down there, and it was great. Too bad the weather kind of sucked. It hit 70 on monday and we got to spend about 2h at the beach before it got too windy. Then the cold came in, and it didn't get over about 62 the rest of the time. Which is warmer than here- but still, I was REALLY hoping for some beach time, and a tan. Ah well.
Wed we drove to Orlando to meet BF's BFF who he hasn't seen in a couple years. So we drove 2.5 hr to see him for 2h then drove back. But it was nice to meet him, and a great lunch.
Did some shopping, or rather, browsing, since we can't afford anything, in some of the ritzy shops in palm beach.
Oh and we saw The Wolfman. Which was good- but not as super-rad as I wanted it to be.
Then today had to come home. :(
I got a text from orbitz saying my flight was on time... soon after got a text from my dad asking if it was cancelled. Which made me nervous, so I looked online- usair.com said it was on time.
So I go to check in and the kiosk tells me my flight has been cancelled.WTF. So I go stand in line foreeeeever while they try to help some lady who apparently was flying internationally with an infant and they were making her buy another ticket (or something).
But so I get to the front of the line, and she told me that yes, my flight was cancelled, but I'd already been rebooked on a different flight. Which was better times, and even better- was the flight BF was on. (we were supposed to be on different flights).
What?! My flight got cancelled and i got an EVEN BETTER one instead? That DOES NOT happen in my world.
Then tonight made some super delicious zucchini pasta for dinner, since I am still on vacation for the weekend. my diet starts back up on monday, and I am NOT looking forward to getting on that scale- I ate like a pig all week. It's going to be bad.
Oh well. Just need to get back on the horse. That's all.
So, here are some pix. (btw, I tried mobl-posting some mobl-pix, but it didn't work.)
Mom's birthday present. We commissioned a local artist (a HS classmate of my sister's) to do this painting for her. This is a crappy phone pic, but it's gorgeous. And the scene is right near our house. And it's an original. Super cool.
Me and BF and his BFF in Orlando.
Sunset over the golf course
Trying on uber-preppy clothes in Palm Beach. hehehe.
View from the condo. (It's right on the 14th hole of some golf course. Which means nothing to be, but I guess is semi-big deal. I just know it was pretty...)
Our all-too-brief stint at the beach
This super-cool-dood then appeared at the beach, replete with skinny jeans, socks, sneakers, cigarettes, and mardi gras beads. Oh and the awesome shades. :/ And then he was bossing all the other kids around, and they let him, because clearly the worship him. GOD I am glad I am not a teenager anymore.
And here are some other randoms that were in my phone...
My favorite Valentine.
The best thing I saw in MoMA. This chick was staring at that BLACK CANVAS for like 20 minutes. And you can see- it's roped off. That, and Starry Night (like, THE Starry Night) are about the only pieces roped off in the whole museum. Seriously? that stupid black canvas? Clearly I am just not a connoisseur of fine art, i guess.
But anyway- I think that picture of the girl staring at it is much cooler than the 'art' itself.
Last week the whole freaking state practically shut down, because snow was forecast. I am not lying when I say just about every school in the state was closed. UConn was closed. The whole freaking university! Because there MIGHT be snow.
This is what it looked like at work around 2.
It *did* eventually snow. We got about an inch. Seriously?! It was like mass hysteria.
I dunno, I just thought this equipment in the hallway in the OR looked like it was dressed up for halloween. ;)
Good night peeps!
lilho - 03/01/10 09:34
you look good, and happy! woo woo!
you look good, and happy! woo woo!
ladycroft - 02/24/10 07:26
Like I said, ya'll are welcome to visit us here. It's always sunny, always warm :)
Like I said, ya'll are welcome to visit us here. It's always sunny, always warm :)
jenks - 02/22/10 20:05
Abstract Painting
Ad Reinhardt (American, 1913-1967)
1960-61. Oil on canvas, 60 x 60" (152.4 x 152.4 cm). Purchase (by exchange). © 2010 Estate of Ad Reinhardt / Artists Rights Society (ARS), New York
570.1963
GALLERY LABEL TEXT
2007
At first glance this painting presents a flat black surface. But longer viewing reveals more than one shade of black and an underlying geometric structure. Reinhardt has divided the canvas into a three-by-three grid of squares. The black in each corner square has a reddish tone; the shape
between them formed by the center squares is bluish-black in its vertical bar and greenish-black in its horizontal bar. Reinhardt tried to produce what he described as "a pure, abstract, non-objective, timeless, spaceless, changeless, relationless, disinterested paintingâ€"an object that is self-conscious (no unconsciousness), ideal, transcendent, aware of no thing but art."
Abstract Painting
Ad Reinhardt (American, 1913-1967)
1960-61. Oil on canvas, 60 x 60" (152.4 x 152.4 cm). Purchase (by exchange). © 2010 Estate of Ad Reinhardt / Artists Rights Society (ARS), New York
570.1963
GALLERY LABEL TEXT
2007
At first glance this painting presents a flat black surface. But longer viewing reveals more than one shade of black and an underlying geometric structure. Reinhardt has divided the canvas into a three-by-three grid of squares. The black in each corner square has a reddish tone; the shape
between them formed by the center squares is bluish-black in its vertical bar and greenish-black in its horizontal bar. Reinhardt tried to produce what he described as "a pure, abstract, non-objective, timeless, spaceless, changeless, relationless, disinterested paintingâ€"an object that is self-conscious (no unconsciousness), ideal, transcendent, aware of no thing but art."
metalpeter - 02/22/10 19:55
Those Disrciptions are legit so I guess it really is art. My gut says that it is a performance piece, but then my memory someplace has heard of this and I think it is a very famous piece of art?
Those Disrciptions are legit so I guess it really is art. My gut says that it is a performance piece, but then my memory someplace has heard of this and I think it is a very famous piece of art?
vincent - 02/21/10 14:48
@ Paul
There we go, we should rent an estrip condo somewhere in FLA for a week! Splitting it 4-6 ways should not be too bad.
@ Paul
There we go, we should rent an estrip condo somewhere in FLA for a week! Splitting it 4-6 ways should not be too bad.
jenks - 02/21/10 12:09
peter there was like a page long description on the wall of the black painting- apparently the black has subtle variations- slightly redder in the middle and slightly bluer in the corners. something like that.
still. as far as I'm concerned- it's a black freaking canvas. the end.
peter there was like a page long description on the wall of the black painting- apparently the black has subtle variations- slightly redder in the middle and slightly bluer in the corners. something like that.
still. as far as I'm concerned- it's a black freaking canvas. the end.
metalpeter - 02/21/10 10:47
@(e:Paul) I'm going to say the 3 of you go to Miami maybe the south beach section not sure.
1. Beach During the day
2. Clubs at Night (never been but I have heard they are great) [Maybe someone should do some research on this]
The Idea of closing things cause it might snow as you said is Mass Hysteria , it also seems like a theme the Twilight Zone would use. I don't know about the art but I guess I have two thoughts or it might be one depending on how you think about it. I wonder if it is just a black piece of canvas painted to make it look like more so that you get the art type of people looking at it to see what they can see when their really is nothing to see. Along that same line I wonder if it is a performance piece where the art is other people looking at the person looking at something to figure out what it is.
Glad you had a good time. Vacations are a good way to get away. But sometimes you need a vacation from the vacation when they get crazy.
@(e:Paul) I'm going to say the 3 of you go to Miami maybe the south beach section not sure.
1. Beach During the day
2. Clubs at Night (never been but I have heard they are great) [Maybe someone should do some research on this]
The Idea of closing things cause it might snow as you said is Mass Hysteria , it also seems like a theme the Twilight Zone would use. I don't know about the art but I guess I have two thoughts or it might be one depending on how you think about it. I wonder if it is just a black piece of canvas painted to make it look like more so that you get the art type of people looking at it to see what they can see when their really is nothing to see. Along that same line I wonder if it is a performance piece where the art is other people looking at the person looking at something to figure out what it is.
Glad you had a good time. Vacations are a good way to get away. But sometimes you need a vacation from the vacation when they get crazy.
paul - 02/20/10 21:40
I want to go to a beach so bad. Next winter I am definitely heading somewhere warm.
I want to go to a beach so bad. Next winter I am definitely heading somewhere warm.
02/08/2010 17:35 #50988
NYCSo, we went to NYC this weekend. It was great. But freezing.
I just wish I could afford it a little better and not be angry about how expensive everything is.
But we took the train in friday and then saved on cab fare and walked to the hotel. BRRRRRR. Got to our super-sweet priceline deal hotel around 9, and then went to the Carnegie Deli for dinner. It's probably not the best deli in NY (as they claim), but we did it "for the experience".
BF got a "reuben". I decided to try to go a little "lighter" and ordered the turkey sandwich.
This is what we got:
reuben
turkey
yeah. Not so light.
It's just ridiculous though. The sandwiches cost $25 each. TWENTY FIVE DOLLARS. And there's no way in hell anyone can (or should) eat that.
Why not just give a reasonable portion, and charge half as much?
Oh right, because then you wouldn't get written up in all the tourist books.
So, I probably let about $17 worth of sandwich go to waste. Ah well. Better for my waist, if not my wallet.
Then on saturday we went to MoMA, which was awesome- and infuriating. Cool to see Starry Night and the Warhol soup cans and all sorts of other famous pieces up close and in person. But then the "art" like bricks laid on the floor in a square, or a piece of rope hanging from the ceiling, or a plain black canvas, just make me nuts.
There was also a big Tim Burton exhibit, which I would have LOVED to go to- but we didn't have time. Also hit the MoMA store- which I think was just as good as the museum. ;)
Then went to an old college friend's baby shower. Great to see her, and her awesome view! Saw a bunch of people I haven't seen in years.
Then found a lovely little hole in the wall italian place for dinner... awesome homemade pasta, and reasonably priced.
Then off to a party for a friend who just got back from 2 years in Australia. She was my neighbor growing up, but I haven't seen her in years. And then her brother was there too, and another friend from my DC days, who I haven't seen in 12 years. Fun, fun, fun. Stayed out til 2, which is the latest I've been up in a long time, which made me feel good- maybe I'm not TOTALLY a boring old lady yet.
Then sunday morning met up with yet another friend I haven't seen in years- from when I was in Chicago. And met her fiance. We had breakfast at a place they'd been dying to try. And don't get me wrong- it was delicous. But (with tip) it came to $200 for the four of us. For freaking breakfast. Pancakes were $22. And the best of all- when the bill came, we saw that coffee was $7 per person. I mean really?! New York is expensive, I know that, but this was absurd. And yes, it was delicious, but not $50 each delicious. Ah well... I just had to take a deep breath and remind myself it was a mini vacation and to stop being a scrooge....
Then caught the train back, and on the way got a call from my sister- a power plant in Middletown CT blew up yesterday, and so far 5 are dead and maybe 100 injured. People in towns ten miles away felt the explosion and thought it was an earthquake. Yikes. My hospital was on alert for 'mass casualties'- but nothing trickled down to me.
then a super bowl party, where I swore I was going to eat only veggies and fat-free dip to make up for the weekend- but instead I ate chips and cookies and lasagna and garlic bread and....
Oops.
And now, it's back to the grind.
But six days til florida!!!!!! can not WAIT to get out of the cold for a bit!!!
xoxo
-J
p.s. WTF is the big deal about the Tim Tebow commercial during the super bowl? After it aired everyone was like "that was it?" I of course had had no clue a) who tim tebow is b) that he was in a commercial c) that it was controversial.
But in said commercial his mom talks about him and says "there were so many times i almost lost him" and holds up a baby picture... then she blabs some more, and he comes and tackles her, and she calls him Timmy. That's it. if anything I thought it was an ad for the March of Dimes or something.
But that was it. That was the big controversial ad.
whoop de effing do.
I guess it was supposed to be a pro-life ad, though i don't know how you were supposed to know that. and it was paid for by Focus on the Family or something like that... some right wing pro-life group. and I guess THAT is the big deal. that the network let something 'political' be shown.
Ok, and one last comment.
Who picks the halftime acts? The Who? Really? I mean, yeah sure I like Pinball Wizard... but couldn't they pick someone a little more current/relevant/popular? They looked like a bunch of old men dragged out of the retirement home.
Ok, enough blabbing.
Later peeps!
I just wish I could afford it a little better and not be angry about how expensive everything is.
But we took the train in friday and then saved on cab fare and walked to the hotel. BRRRRRR. Got to our super-sweet priceline deal hotel around 9, and then went to the Carnegie Deli for dinner. It's probably not the best deli in NY (as they claim), but we did it "for the experience".
BF got a "reuben". I decided to try to go a little "lighter" and ordered the turkey sandwich.
This is what we got:
reuben
turkey
yeah. Not so light.
It's just ridiculous though. The sandwiches cost $25 each. TWENTY FIVE DOLLARS. And there's no way in hell anyone can (or should) eat that.
Why not just give a reasonable portion, and charge half as much?
Oh right, because then you wouldn't get written up in all the tourist books.
So, I probably let about $17 worth of sandwich go to waste. Ah well. Better for my waist, if not my wallet.
Then on saturday we went to MoMA, which was awesome- and infuriating. Cool to see Starry Night and the Warhol soup cans and all sorts of other famous pieces up close and in person. But then the "art" like bricks laid on the floor in a square, or a piece of rope hanging from the ceiling, or a plain black canvas, just make me nuts.
There was also a big Tim Burton exhibit, which I would have LOVED to go to- but we didn't have time. Also hit the MoMA store- which I think was just as good as the museum. ;)
Then went to an old college friend's baby shower. Great to see her, and her awesome view! Saw a bunch of people I haven't seen in years.
Then found a lovely little hole in the wall italian place for dinner... awesome homemade pasta, and reasonably priced.
Then off to a party for a friend who just got back from 2 years in Australia. She was my neighbor growing up, but I haven't seen her in years. And then her brother was there too, and another friend from my DC days, who I haven't seen in 12 years. Fun, fun, fun. Stayed out til 2, which is the latest I've been up in a long time, which made me feel good- maybe I'm not TOTALLY a boring old lady yet.
Then sunday morning met up with yet another friend I haven't seen in years- from when I was in Chicago. And met her fiance. We had breakfast at a place they'd been dying to try. And don't get me wrong- it was delicous. But (with tip) it came to $200 for the four of us. For freaking breakfast. Pancakes were $22. And the best of all- when the bill came, we saw that coffee was $7 per person. I mean really?! New York is expensive, I know that, but this was absurd. And yes, it was delicious, but not $50 each delicious. Ah well... I just had to take a deep breath and remind myself it was a mini vacation and to stop being a scrooge....
Then caught the train back, and on the way got a call from my sister- a power plant in Middletown CT blew up yesterday, and so far 5 are dead and maybe 100 injured. People in towns ten miles away felt the explosion and thought it was an earthquake. Yikes. My hospital was on alert for 'mass casualties'- but nothing trickled down to me.
then a super bowl party, where I swore I was going to eat only veggies and fat-free dip to make up for the weekend- but instead I ate chips and cookies and lasagna and garlic bread and....
Oops.
And now, it's back to the grind.
But six days til florida!!!!!! can not WAIT to get out of the cold for a bit!!!
xoxo
-J
p.s. WTF is the big deal about the Tim Tebow commercial during the super bowl? After it aired everyone was like "that was it?" I of course had had no clue a) who tim tebow is b) that he was in a commercial c) that it was controversial.
But in said commercial his mom talks about him and says "there were so many times i almost lost him" and holds up a baby picture... then she blabs some more, and he comes and tackles her, and she calls him Timmy. That's it. if anything I thought it was an ad for the March of Dimes or something.
But that was it. That was the big controversial ad.
whoop de effing do.
I guess it was supposed to be a pro-life ad, though i don't know how you were supposed to know that. and it was paid for by Focus on the Family or something like that... some right wing pro-life group. and I guess THAT is the big deal. that the network let something 'political' be shown.
Ok, and one last comment.
Who picks the halftime acts? The Who? Really? I mean, yeah sure I like Pinball Wizard... but couldn't they pick someone a little more current/relevant/popular? They looked like a bunch of old men dragged out of the retirement home.
Ok, enough blabbing.
Later peeps!
ladycroft - 02/14/10 09:16
um, yah...i just paid $95 for a breakfast of eggs and waffels; I thought my eyes were going to fall out of their sockets when i saw the bill.
Would LOVE to see Tim Burton stuff though!!!
um, yah...i just paid $95 for a breakfast of eggs and waffels; I thought my eyes were going to fall out of their sockets when i saw the bill.
Would LOVE to see Tim Burton stuff though!!!
metalpeter - 02/10/10 17:29
Have to chime in on the Tebow ad. From what I read it got controversy before it even aired. The one post I read some one thought the ad was altered to be less obvious. My understanding is what really happened is she didn't go to get an abortion and change her mind, there where some health issues and she was told multiple times that for that reason she should get one. I think the other issue is that political stuff isn't really done that much during the super bowl.
I liked the who, but not really a fan of their's. I love that comment you made though. In terms of picking a bands I think it is a tough line to walk. You want to pick a band that has a bunch of hits and that everyone knows. But often when you do that you might get a group that hasn't had a hit in some time, A good example of this is Aerosmith. I love them but couldn't tell you a New Song they have done is some time. Bands that I think would be a good fit based on be legends and having new music also are Metallica, Greenday (yes they are now in that status well close), AC/DC, U2. I think there are some bands out there who can do it soon but haven't been around in the "Pop" or Everyone Knows their stuff yet, Coldplay comes to mind quickly. But you need to have that big star power to draw people or what ever. It also can't be anyone who will drive people away. Take Snoop he would be perfect but there are some people who that would make them switch at Half Time so......
Glad you had a good time in NYC and at the Super Bowl Party.
Have to chime in on the Tebow ad. From what I read it got controversy before it even aired. The one post I read some one thought the ad was altered to be less obvious. My understanding is what really happened is she didn't go to get an abortion and change her mind, there where some health issues and she was told multiple times that for that reason she should get one. I think the other issue is that political stuff isn't really done that much during the super bowl.
I liked the who, but not really a fan of their's. I love that comment you made though. In terms of picking a bands I think it is a tough line to walk. You want to pick a band that has a bunch of hits and that everyone knows. But often when you do that you might get a group that hasn't had a hit in some time, A good example of this is Aerosmith. I love them but couldn't tell you a New Song they have done is some time. Bands that I think would be a good fit based on be legends and having new music also are Metallica, Greenday (yes they are now in that status well close), AC/DC, U2. I think there are some bands out there who can do it soon but haven't been around in the "Pop" or Everyone Knows their stuff yet, Coldplay comes to mind quickly. But you need to have that big star power to draw people or what ever. It also can't be anyone who will drive people away. Take Snoop he would be perfect but there are some people who that would make them switch at Half Time so......
Glad you had a good time in NYC and at the Super Bowl Party.
theecarey - 02/08/10 20:58
"They looked like a bunch of old men dragged out of the retirement home"
that really made me laugh out loud.
I didn't watch a second of the super bowl, so I am pretty clueless on the going-ons of it.
I envy your city trip (though not the prices or that over priced over bearing sandwich), but I think I will envy your Florida trip more. A little warmth and sunshine is so appealing right now. Soak it up, sister!
"They looked like a bunch of old men dragged out of the retirement home"
that really made me laugh out loud.
I didn't watch a second of the super bowl, so I am pretty clueless on the going-ons of it.
I envy your city trip (though not the prices or that over priced over bearing sandwich), but I think I will envy your Florida trip more. A little warmth and sunshine is so appealing right now. Soak it up, sister!
jbeatty - 02/08/10 17:56
I think the committee that picks the act for the halftime show wanted to keep it cleaner than it has been in previous years ie. Janet Jackson and crew. Even though Pete is getting old I did enjoy The Who.
I think the committee that picks the act for the halftime show wanted to keep it cleaner than it has been in previous years ie. Janet Jackson and crew. Even though Pete is getting old I did enjoy The Who.
02/02/2010 17:52 #50955
follow-upOk, so I'm a little embarrassed that I'm actually going to be that sappy giddy girl that makes you want to puke, but.... this is so freaking cute I have to share.
So, yesterday was our 6 month anniversary. Not a HUGE deal, I suppose, but kind of a big deal I guess...
But so I wasn't even sure if he'd remember. And sure, I'd love to get flowers and presents and all sorts of romantic stuff. I was secretly HOPING he'd do something- but I wasn't expecting it.
So, I made dinner reservations at a nice place, and didn't tell him, so it could be a surprise. They're actually for tonight, since the place is closed on mondays. And then I figured that's good- b/c on the off chance he planned something, I could cancel mine.
So, yesterday came, and he totally remembered and said happy anniversary. Then I was at work really late and he had stuff to do, so I didn't see him til way later.
So, once it was pretty clear we weren't going to do anything, I told him we have reservations for tonight. Not to rub it in- but just to make sure he didn't have any plans or anything.
And all of the sudden he looked all sad and started apologizing that he hadn't done more.
And then I felt like an ass for making him feel bad.
And then he walked over and picked something up off my desk. It was a card, and he had left it there so I'd find it in the morning.
So, I opened it. And it's super adorable. And perfect, b/c it's from the heart, and he did it without me nagging or anything.
Please pardon the iphone picture quality.
So, yesterday was our 6 month anniversary. Not a HUGE deal, I suppose, but kind of a big deal I guess...
But so I wasn't even sure if he'd remember. And sure, I'd love to get flowers and presents and all sorts of romantic stuff. I was secretly HOPING he'd do something- but I wasn't expecting it.
So, I made dinner reservations at a nice place, and didn't tell him, so it could be a surprise. They're actually for tonight, since the place is closed on mondays. And then I figured that's good- b/c on the off chance he planned something, I could cancel mine.
So, yesterday came, and he totally remembered and said happy anniversary. Then I was at work really late and he had stuff to do, so I didn't see him til way later.
So, once it was pretty clear we weren't going to do anything, I told him we have reservations for tonight. Not to rub it in- but just to make sure he didn't have any plans or anything.
And all of the sudden he looked all sad and started apologizing that he hadn't done more.
And then I felt like an ass for making him feel bad.
And then he walked over and picked something up off my desk. It was a card, and he had left it there so I'd find it in the morning.
So, I opened it. And it's super adorable. And perfect, b/c it's from the heart, and he did it without me nagging or anything.
Please pardon the iphone picture quality.
mrmike - 02/03/10 08:28
awww, only threw up a little in my mouth. Seriously, that's great, happy for you and that you seem to have a good thing going. Happy Anniversary
awww, only threw up a little in my mouth. Seriously, that's great, happy for you and that you seem to have a good thing going. Happy Anniversary
leetee - 02/02/10 22:51
awe. love. congrats. you 2 look good together. hope it works as good as it looks. :o)
awe. love. congrats. you 2 look good together. hope it works as good as it looks. :o)
metalpeter - 02/02/10 20:43
He Sounds very sensitive but not over sensitive hope everything is a very good time for the both of you. Oh yeah not sure if sensitive is really the right word. Oh yeah that card is awesome by the way.
He Sounds very sensitive but not over sensitive hope everything is a very good time for the both of you. Oh yeah not sure if sensitive is really the right word. Oh yeah that card is awesome by the way.
Oh wow - did you sell that house to someone?
that stinks, sort of like being erased a little bit. Sorry