These news stories are alarming. See (e:paul)'s journal for background. People in the burbs can take these stories however they want and I don't concern myself with whether they want to come to the city or not based on their perceptions of them. The Buffalo News reports the facts and we will all interpret them differently based on our own experiences and how our views have been shaped by them. I think that most often I feel safe but it really depends on where I am. Out of the three instances of attacks (2 from (e:paul)'s journal and 1 from (e:gardenmama)'s) I have found myself in those same locations at similar times on foot. Sometimes I have large amounts of cash like $200 and people of lower income levels typically do more with cash than plastic for many different reasons. Many people even pay their rent with cash they turn into money orders.
(e:janelle), I get your concern, and I would assume your statistics correct, but to just assume that these attacks are somehow based on a criminal background of the victim and that you should just assume that bad things only happen to bad people based on statistics is sort of dangerous. I have seen numerous cases of gangs of threatening youth who have little respect for themselves or others do quite horrible things to innocent victims. These crimes can happen anywhere. You are also probably aware that most of these crimes are not reported for a huge number of reasons but mainly out of fear, both fear of reprisal and fear of a failed judicious system. If you know the judicial system is unable to protect you and that by going to the police you can be identified and later can be found it is an extremely hard thing to do. The violence we read about in the police blotter is only a fraction of what is really occurring out there on the streets.
There should be some amount of fear in us that we could one day be victimized for being in the wrong place at the wrong time. I do not think it should consume us but it is reasonable to take some precautions. For me, the most appropriate precaution I take is to trust my instincts as they are most often correct.
One other thing is that Buffalo, in my opinion, does have racial tensions. They are a source of violence within themselves. Race riots occurred here not so long ago. There is anger and distrust still and it takes a very long time for it to heal. Because Buffalo is so divided still racially, you can draw attention to yourself by your race alone and become a target because of it. I suppose that can be true anywhere but again because Buffalo is very segregated, I think it makes it even more likely for this type of violence to occur here. People do not know where to place their anger and anger is often responded to in violence. This type of anger results in hate crimes including crimes against a person's sexuality.
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12/18/2008 12:08 #47100
Violence in Buffalo12/15/2008 22:06 #47072
Bush deserves to be humiliatedWhen I heard that Bush was doing a farewell tour to Iraq, I was infuriated. Farewell tours are for Cher not for somebody that has seriously damaged our country. How dare he do a farewell tour? It is absolutely INSANE and insensitive. This is a man that has no remorse or comprehension of what he has done. He has no regard for human life or human rights. I am not going to cry over the fact that somebody threw a shoe at his head. While I do not condone violence, I can't imagine what the man who threw the shoe at him must be feeling to have done so. I seriously could not imagine what it must be like to be an Iraqi. To actually have to live what they must endure which only comes to us in fleeting news bites or casualty numbers that scroll across news tickers on 24 hr "news" networks.
George Bush is going to have to deal with his actions. He is going to have to deal with the hate he has created. I hope he lives long enough to come to the realization of what he has done, not only in Iraq but all over the world. He needs to be put into jail for the rest of his existence so that he can sit and think about all the pain and suffering he has caused and will cause. People are angry and they have every right to be angry.
George Bush is going to have to deal with his actions. He is going to have to deal with the hate he has created. I hope he lives long enough to come to the realization of what he has done, not only in Iraq but all over the world. He needs to be put into jail for the rest of his existence so that he can sit and think about all the pain and suffering he has caused and will cause. People are angry and they have every right to be angry.
libertad - 12/16/08 19:14
I think the real question for you (e:joshua) is why are so many people against US? This has not always been the case. It might be true for some factions out there or even entire countries or regions but not quite to the extent since Bush and his cohorts took office 8 years ago. I don't think you can label everyone that finds Bush to be a war criminal as a liberal. What is a liberal? Someone who respects human life? You also should ask yourself whether you think that Bush or anyone else can cancel out evil acts with moral and good acts?
One of the things Obama has given us thus far is a new respect in the world. We have regained some or our standing in the eyes of many who look to us. Bush was humiliated whether he wants to admit it or not, yet, he still portrays arrogance by denying the significance of what the "shoe throw" was to so many people. The shoe incident is now a defining moment in History and will probably be highlighted as the single most symbolic thing thus far that demonstrates the sentiment of an overwhelming majority in regards to Bush and also to what he represents. In this case I do happen to agree with the majority! I am sure we will see video clips of the "I'm not a lame ducker" in our "text books" of the future.
I think the real question for you (e:joshua) is why are so many people against US? This has not always been the case. It might be true for some factions out there or even entire countries or regions but not quite to the extent since Bush and his cohorts took office 8 years ago. I don't think you can label everyone that finds Bush to be a war criminal as a liberal. What is a liberal? Someone who respects human life? You also should ask yourself whether you think that Bush or anyone else can cancel out evil acts with moral and good acts?
One of the things Obama has given us thus far is a new respect in the world. We have regained some or our standing in the eyes of many who look to us. Bush was humiliated whether he wants to admit it or not, yet, he still portrays arrogance by denying the significance of what the "shoe throw" was to so many people. The shoe incident is now a defining moment in History and will probably be highlighted as the single most symbolic thing thus far that demonstrates the sentiment of an overwhelming majority in regards to Bush and also to what he represents. In this case I do happen to agree with the majority! I am sure we will see video clips of the "I'm not a lame ducker" in our "text books" of the future.
joshua - 12/16/08 12:34
I love liberal kangaroo courts. Y'all are making me laugh! Should I revel in the fact that Osama bin Laden's #2 took a crack at Obama? I mean, you know... that wouldn't be anything like agreeing with the Arab world about my own country or anything... nah, totally different. Please, spare me the indignation. Even the thought that this was somehow appropriate is an embarrassment.
(e:james) - no politician in history has successfully committed more government time and resources as President Bush has to fighting AIDS in Africa, which has saved and will save millions of lives. No bullshitter in the EU, not Bill Clinton, no Democrat, no Kennedy, no NGO - nobody - has done what President Bush has done for Africa, including these ridiculous LiveAid-style concerts over the past 25 years. It is one of the few true success stories in his administration that no liberals can bare to give him credit for, which is an indictment on themselves, frankly. It's ironic - for years how long has the left been crying for US government aid for social problems in other countries, and it was Bush who gave it to them. Perhaps that explains the denial? It certainly torpedoes the notion that he lacks compassion - even liberals on the inside, who loathe his politics, would never claim that about GWB on a personal level.
I love liberal kangaroo courts. Y'all are making me laugh! Should I revel in the fact that Osama bin Laden's #2 took a crack at Obama? I mean, you know... that wouldn't be anything like agreeing with the Arab world about my own country or anything... nah, totally different. Please, spare me the indignation. Even the thought that this was somehow appropriate is an embarrassment.
(e:james) - no politician in history has successfully committed more government time and resources as President Bush has to fighting AIDS in Africa, which has saved and will save millions of lives. No bullshitter in the EU, not Bill Clinton, no Democrat, no Kennedy, no NGO - nobody - has done what President Bush has done for Africa, including these ridiculous LiveAid-style concerts over the past 25 years. It is one of the few true success stories in his administration that no liberals can bare to give him credit for, which is an indictment on themselves, frankly. It's ironic - for years how long has the left been crying for US government aid for social problems in other countries, and it was Bush who gave it to them. Perhaps that explains the denial? It certainly torpedoes the notion that he lacks compassion - even liberals on the inside, who loathe his politics, would never claim that about GWB on a personal level.
fellyconnelly - 12/16/08 07:49
i am really glad somebody threw a shoe at his head. send him on a world 'throw shoes at bush's head' tour! whoever actually nails him gets a cheap stuffed teddy bear.
i am really glad somebody threw a shoe at his head. send him on a world 'throw shoes at bush's head' tour! whoever actually nails him gets a cheap stuffed teddy bear.
james - 12/15/08 22:15
I don't think he is a stupid man, or an entirely insensitive man. But I don't imagine he has an ounce of compassion for those he hasn't shaken hands with. A distant mother fucker.
I don't think he is a stupid man, or an entirely insensitive man. But I don't imagine he has an ounce of compassion for those he hasn't shaken hands with. A distant mother fucker.
paul - 12/15/08 22:14
I can't wait till he is no longer president and I can suggest that I wished they killed him instead without comitting treason.
I can't wait till he is no longer president and I can suggest that I wished they killed him instead without comitting treason.
12/03/2008 20:25 #46941
Tina brightens my dayThat is Tina Turner not crystal meth (e:tinypliny)!
(E:hodown)'s post made me happy . That is no easy thing in recent days. Tina's experiential film "Whats love got to do with it?" was what sparked my interest in Buddhism. When I first saw the movie, it was years before I actually encountered Buddhism. Her practice is very much like mine as demonstrated on this Larry King interview.
Tina and I have the same mentor and we chant the same thing everyday. That is the awesome thing about our prayers is that I can never have met her before and be immediately connected with her and we could do the prayers and chant together in unison without even a prayer book to guide us because we already know it. It would be so awesome if some day we could do that together.
Now I can't stop watching Tina videos!
We Don't Need Another Hero!
Better Be Good to Me
Private Dancer
I love this one.
Proud Mary
Yeah, Ike was a part of her life here. In Buddhism you change poison into medicine and that is exactly what she did with Ike. My favorite part of her movie is when she starts chanting and finally beats the shit out of him in the limo on their way to the hotel.
This bootleg version was the only one I could find on youtube!
I always think she's saying "You must understand, on the touch of your hand, makes my balls react!"
I also feel connected to Tina because we both have experienced domestic violence as well as come from a Christian background. I love the scene in her movie when she is a little girl in the church and sings "This Little Light of Mine". I still sing that song sometimes! I also love Angela Basset because she played Tina so well.
(E:hodown)'s post made me happy . That is no easy thing in recent days. Tina's experiential film "Whats love got to do with it?" was what sparked my interest in Buddhism. When I first saw the movie, it was years before I actually encountered Buddhism. Her practice is very much like mine as demonstrated on this Larry King interview.
Tina and I have the same mentor and we chant the same thing everyday. That is the awesome thing about our prayers is that I can never have met her before and be immediately connected with her and we could do the prayers and chant together in unison without even a prayer book to guide us because we already know it. It would be so awesome if some day we could do that together.
Now I can't stop watching Tina videos!
We Don't Need Another Hero!
Better Be Good to Me
Private Dancer
I love this one.
Proud Mary
Yeah, Ike was a part of her life here. In Buddhism you change poison into medicine and that is exactly what she did with Ike. My favorite part of her movie is when she starts chanting and finally beats the shit out of him in the limo on their way to the hotel.
This bootleg version was the only one I could find on youtube!
I always think she's saying "You must understand, on the touch of your hand, makes my balls react!"
I also feel connected to Tina because we both have experienced domestic violence as well as come from a Christian background. I love the scene in her movie when she is a little girl in the church and sings "This Little Light of Mine". I still sing that song sometimes! I also love Angela Basset because she played Tina so well.
matthew - 12/04/08 12:59
Your touch makes my balls react!
Your touch makes my balls react!
tinypliny - 12/04/08 09:01
Hahaha... thank ya for the clarification. LOL
I love her voice! I especially love her rendition of the credits song for that James Bond movie- Golden Eye!!! :D
Hahaha... thank ya for the clarification. LOL
I love her voice! I especially love her rendition of the credits song for that James Bond movie- Golden Eye!!! :D
jason - 12/04/08 08:12
Huh. I didn't know that about Tina. Cool!
Huh. I didn't know that about Tina. Cool!
11/18/2008 00:00 #46730
My kitchen sinkI do have my reason for posting this.
tinypliny - 12/15/08 22:25
I love that sink. :) Is it slightly weird that I come to your journal several times to see that sink??!
I love that sink. :) Is it slightly weird that I come to your journal several times to see that sink??!
libertad - 11/18/08 10:14
My kitchen sink hardly ever looks like this. Usually there are dirty dishes in it. I clean it with Bon Ami cleanser which means good friend. It is cheap, non-toxic and works better than soft-scrub. I usually use a sponge in my own sink but often will use a wooden scrub brush when I am cleaning other people's sink. I would say I clean my sink once every two weeks which I think is really not often enough but oh well.
My kitchen sink hardly ever looks like this. Usually there are dirty dishes in it. I clean it with Bon Ami cleanser which means good friend. It is cheap, non-toxic and works better than soft-scrub. I usually use a sponge in my own sink but often will use a wooden scrub brush when I am cleaning other people's sink. I would say I clean my sink once every two weeks which I think is really not often enough but oh well.
lauren - 11/18/08 10:10
that is indeed a shiny sink. i use magic erasers to clean mine, but i am not sure that there is that much shiny left in my sink :)
that is indeed a shiny sink. i use magic erasers to clean mine, but i am not sure that there is that much shiny left in my sink :)
hodown - 11/18/08 08:42
It looks new!
It looks new!
tinypliny - 11/18/08 00:39
Hmmm... I would reconsider that bit, (e:lilho)... especially after your recent MRSA scare. ;-)
Hmmm... I would reconsider that bit, (e:lilho)... especially after your recent MRSA scare. ;-)
lilho - 11/18/08 00:35
i would even lick it.
i would even lick it.
tinypliny - 11/18/08 00:35
Dammit. Now I want to scrub my sink once again. This is so crazy! ;-)
Dammit. Now I want to scrub my sink once again. This is so crazy! ;-)
tinypliny - 11/18/08 00:31
OH. MY. GOD. I AM IN LOVE WITH JUST HOW AWESOME THAT SINK LOOKS. I scrubbed my sink for about 1/2 hour this past weekend and yet, I was not very satisfied with the result. What did you use????? PLEASE let us know! Besides Emanuel, I am also somewhat obsessed with cleaning my sink. I have the most trouble in scrubbing that small gutter in the sink - it never really gets as clean as the rest of the sink. Also, how long does your sink stay this clean? How often do you scrub it??? Enquiring and obsessed minds want to know!!
OH. MY. GOD. I AM IN LOVE WITH JUST HOW AWESOME THAT SINK LOOKS. I scrubbed my sink for about 1/2 hour this past weekend and yet, I was not very satisfied with the result. What did you use????? PLEASE let us know! Besides Emanuel, I am also somewhat obsessed with cleaning my sink. I have the most trouble in scrubbing that small gutter in the sink - it never really gets as clean as the rest of the sink. Also, how long does your sink stay this clean? How often do you scrub it??? Enquiring and obsessed minds want to know!!
mike - 11/18/08 00:20
wow! that is one clean sink! if i was hiring someone to clean my house it would definetely be someone with a sink like that
wow! that is one clean sink! if i was hiring someone to clean my house it would definetely be someone with a sink like that
11/17/2008 22:53 #46727
ChristmasIt is both religious and secular in this country. I say secular because nobody can escape it. I have very fond memories because of it. Lucky me--to have had them. I'm also consumed by guilt at not being able to live up to its expectations. The expectations of what our lives ought to be, are shaped by the images we have of it seared into our subconscious. Our economy is measured by its success and how much we spend and how much we import from China to fuel its insatiable appetite. It is the time of year those who are suffering suffer the most.
I better get my cha cha heels!
I better get my cha cha heels!
metalpeter - 12/25/08 10:38
Some How I missed this the 1st around so sorry for the late comment. You make a good point of not being able to avoid it. What I can say (I don't do it but it is a good Idea) is that if you don't live up to something it is ok to feel bad about it but don't feel guilt that is wrong feeling, just go out and help others, maybe volunteer at a soup Kitchen or tell your family sorry instead of getting you gifts and you giving me gifts I'm spending all that money at KB toys and putting the toys in the toys for tots bin. Just an idea.
Some How I missed this the 1st around so sorry for the late comment. You make a good point of not being able to avoid it. What I can say (I don't do it but it is a good Idea) is that if you don't live up to something it is ok to feel bad about it but don't feel guilt that is wrong feeling, just go out and help others, maybe volunteer at a soup Kitchen or tell your family sorry instead of getting you gifts and you giving me gifts I'm spending all that money at KB toys and putting the toys in the toys for tots bin. Just an idea.
tinypliny - 11/18/08 00:33
Oh man, I always click too soon.
Yeah, I agree. Sometimes I feel we are living this life chasing the wrong goals in our most special moments as a community and as a society. :(
Oh man, I always click too soon.
Yeah, I agree. Sometimes I feel we are living this life chasing the wrong goals in our most special moments as a community and as a society. :(
tinypliny - 11/18/08 00:32
I hear ya, Libertad.
Again, I'm not assuming anything about these two particular individuals.
They might be terrific people for all I know.
I used to cash my checks in NYS for a long time. I have done it at corner convenient marts and places like Tops and Wegmans. The problem with banks mainly is that if you do owe them any amount of money they will share that info with all the other banks making it very difficult to open an account until your account is settled. Another time is when you owe someone money and they seize your account. All money deposited in the account will be eaten up first by bank fees and then by your debtor. When people mess up, like we often do, the excessive fees that add up in the bank can often just be too much to pay back if it means not having enough for groceries. This happens a lot! There was even a time when I first got out on my own that I found the need to write bad checks and later paying the fees so that I could buy some things to eat.
I read all of your comments (e:janelle). I just wanted to make myself clear that I don't think that it is fair to assume based on the info provided to us that any of these young men were involved in criminal activity.
Some really good points by everyone. Is the no check cashing new, it must be, I have seen in past check cashing places. But maybe I'm just thinking of places that advertised in it big letters but you could buy other things there. I'm thinking that in NYS it used to be legal. I don't like walking around with cash my self, and just because you have a lot of it doesn't mean you are a criminal. Some people like cash, you can see it you can feel it, it isn't some absract idea on some plastic card. Plus everyone takes cash. Say right now there is lots of snow If I get stuck at the sabres game, or say for some people working downtown and you see some one you can give them cash to get you to your home or at least close, you can't give some dude a card. Also for people who live check to check or for people who are poor things come up so they need money and if you take your money out of the bank and have A 0 balance you get fined. I have had money problems and for some time I cashed my check at the store on Grant that is both next to and part of the liquar store with the white horse.
If you're directing the comment to me. We read the same article. Remember? It was in the NY Times Magazine? Lol.
And check cashing is not allowed in NY. So people in Buffalo go to corner stores and get money orders.
There was an article recently about how often these check cashing places thrive right next to banks. The banks better deals up front, i.e. "Free Checking," but hit you huge fees if you mess up. Some people use the cashing stores because at least they are up front with their fees (usually posted on a board, a la McDonald's)
Also, banks tend to reflect less the culture of the people around them, whereas the smart check cashing places always hire locally and keep things more informal.
Finally, these check cashers do everything they can to say "yes," even accepting yearbooks as ID! Yes, they are ripped off more than traditional banks, but they make up for it in volume.
Let me be clear--I don't defend the practices either of the check cashers OR the banking industry (which can be pretty shady, too). I'm just saying that there's more to people going to those places than just being stupid. It's no more stupid than carrying a balance on a credit card, and lots of people do that all the time.
I just re read your post again and caught the part about lower income people carrying lots of cash to purchase money orders to pay bills.
I work with a lot of people who do that and that practice has always concerned me. From my experience (mostly in Philadephia) it seems to have a lot to do with a banking system that doesn't work for lower income people; a distrust or a lack of knowledge of banks for lower income people; and an unwillingness for banks to work in low income areas. It's a shame that low income individuals get stuck in a situation of having to carry large amounts of cash on them.
(e:Libertad). I agree that there should be some amount of fear in us that we could be in the wrong place at the wrong time. A healthy amount of fear can contribute to our safety by making us cautious and aware of our environment.
I'm not ashamed to take up a guy on his offer to walk me home if it's late at night and I think the area seems sketchy.
Crimes go unreported for a number of reasons and statistics support your comment that people often don't report crime if they think the police/justice system will not be effective in responding to it.
If you get a chance, read the additional comments that I made on Paul's journal, because I think already addressed the concerns you raise now in your journal.
But if you already read those responses... then let me be really clear.
My intent was not to assume that the men in the incident were criminals. I simply pointed out that Zobar's comment could be right based on the fact that criminally involved people are more likely to be victimized.
I don't believe all victimized people are criminals.
I never said bad things only happen to bad people. I never said bad things can't happen to good people.
I really think we're on the same page here.