Today's quote:
"Sleep. The death of each day, but a doorway to the map of humanity." - unknown
I'm helping my program director/professor/internship supervisor write a new textbook. It's about the function of Catholic colleges and universities. As we were discussing some things today during our meeting we checked in on the Cardinal Newman Society. If you're not familiar, it's a set of like minded individuals in the Cahtolic faith. You may also refer to them as the watch dogs of Catholocism in education, very conservative. Anyhoo, I came across this piece and thought, wow. That's something. Particularly look at numbers 5,7, and 8. I am in NO WAY saying all Catholics believe this for surely there are many that take a different approach. I'm just curious of other's opinions. If you have any. Ciao.
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12/20/2006 16:21 #25454
homosexual activismCategory: deep thoughts
12/18/2006 14:16 #25453
today's quoteCategory: deep thoughts
Embrace the chaos for when you least expect it, peace will be put upon you.
In Chaos I see: The Clint Boon Experience.
In Chaos I see: The Clint Boon Experience.
11/07/2006 15:21 #25452
the star in my universeCategory: tattoos
You look at my skin
Outside not what's inside you will see
That I'll never change for authority
Cuz my ink's my mark on society
Read between these lines and you'll understand
That my ink is with me 'till the end
(Inked theme song)
Outside not what's inside you will see
That I'll never change for authority
Cuz my ink's my mark on society
Read between these lines and you'll understand
That my ink is with me 'till the end
(Inked theme song)
lilho - 11/07/06 21:29
cute. and i can do that persons hair, give me a day, and ill get in touch with you when i return!
cute. and i can do that persons hair, give me a day, and ill get in touch with you when i return!
jenks - 11/07/06 20:15
holy crap, you got a tattoo!? Ok, I definitely haven't talked to you in TOO long. :(
holy crap, you got a tattoo!? Ok, I definitely haven't talked to you in TOO long. :(
metalpeter - 11/07/06 19:37
That is a great song to a great show, I admit I lost track of when it is on but Miami Ink is a good show to. That star looks preaty cool is it just me or is it two colors?
That is a great song to a great show, I admit I lost track of when it is on but Miami Ink is a good show to. That star looks preaty cool is it just me or is it two colors?
mrmike - 11/07/06 16:53
Nice!
Nice!
10/27/2006 14:45 #25451
pooch paradeCategory: halloween
10/25/2006 17:19 #25450
four agreementsCategory: deep thoughts
I've been reading the book called The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz.
1.Be impeccable with your word
2.Don't make assumptions
3.Always do your best
4.Don't take anything personally
The first 3 items are words which I have truly tried to live by. It took time to become enlightened by these prospects. The time to make mistakes, time to grieve, time to push through them, and time to adjust. That last of the 4 is something I've always had a hard time with.
1.I often tell people, "Say what you mean and mean what you say". I don't like double talk, backstabbing, double standards and the like. I don't know many people that do like it. Some are more prone to it than others. None of us are immune entirely, but I certainly put the conscious effort into my words.
2.I learned not to make assumptions after many disappointments. Countless times I had been let down by others before I realized it is not just that they are flakes, but I made an assumption about them. 1 plus 1 equals 2, but not always. A hard lesson to learn and one we all have to confront throughout our lives. I suspect it played a role in my independence at an early age.
3.I used to be quite the perfectionist. I do try my best. Sometimes I tried too hard. If it wasn't just right, it was worthless to me. I've certainly eased up on the intensity of perfection. Nothing is perfect. School, it doesn't mean all that much in the long run. Great papers, they don't add up to much but a great paper that got you a grade. What you learn experientially carries far greater weight. Perhaps my art work still retains some level of perfectionism, but only to me.
4.Don't take it personally. Oh how I struggle, as I'm sure many do, with this thought. Are people susceptible to taking things more personal if they are deeply passionate, deeply committed to the things they do? If they place greater value on friendships does it not stand to reason they would be more affected by things done or said to them? It is a character trait that should always be looked down upon as a great flaw? Does this not generate the sort of genuine love we look for from others? Finding that balance between maintaining the self and not getting hurt is not as simple as "don't take it personal". It is a daily struggle for me. I have made progress in this area for sure. I think practicing yoga and meditation helped me with this. Letting many things roll off my back that had once bothered me was a fantastic improvement. I think a portion of the struggle is not related to my passion but the fear that I may then become hard to the world I love. I don't want to build a wall.
I will continue to learn and grow. Hurting is the less glamorous part of the process. I have learned that people I loved do not love me in return. I have learned that those I held in close regard did not have the same understanding with me. I have learned friends come and go even at the most critical time when we need them most. I have learned I will be replaced by others that are deemed more interesting to be with. I have learned that friendship is a two seat bike meant to be shared and to let go of those who don't put in equal effort. Most of all, I have learned what it is to be me and I love it. I love my light and dark side. I love showing passion toward others. If it is not returned, I must stay strong and continue to be me, the best me I can be, and not take it personally.
1.Be impeccable with your word
2.Don't make assumptions
3.Always do your best
4.Don't take anything personally
The first 3 items are words which I have truly tried to live by. It took time to become enlightened by these prospects. The time to make mistakes, time to grieve, time to push through them, and time to adjust. That last of the 4 is something I've always had a hard time with.
1.I often tell people, "Say what you mean and mean what you say". I don't like double talk, backstabbing, double standards and the like. I don't know many people that do like it. Some are more prone to it than others. None of us are immune entirely, but I certainly put the conscious effort into my words.
2.I learned not to make assumptions after many disappointments. Countless times I had been let down by others before I realized it is not just that they are flakes, but I made an assumption about them. 1 plus 1 equals 2, but not always. A hard lesson to learn and one we all have to confront throughout our lives. I suspect it played a role in my independence at an early age.
3.I used to be quite the perfectionist. I do try my best. Sometimes I tried too hard. If it wasn't just right, it was worthless to me. I've certainly eased up on the intensity of perfection. Nothing is perfect. School, it doesn't mean all that much in the long run. Great papers, they don't add up to much but a great paper that got you a grade. What you learn experientially carries far greater weight. Perhaps my art work still retains some level of perfectionism, but only to me.
4.Don't take it personally. Oh how I struggle, as I'm sure many do, with this thought. Are people susceptible to taking things more personal if they are deeply passionate, deeply committed to the things they do? If they place greater value on friendships does it not stand to reason they would be more affected by things done or said to them? It is a character trait that should always be looked down upon as a great flaw? Does this not generate the sort of genuine love we look for from others? Finding that balance between maintaining the self and not getting hurt is not as simple as "don't take it personal". It is a daily struggle for me. I have made progress in this area for sure. I think practicing yoga and meditation helped me with this. Letting many things roll off my back that had once bothered me was a fantastic improvement. I think a portion of the struggle is not related to my passion but the fear that I may then become hard to the world I love. I don't want to build a wall.
I will continue to learn and grow. Hurting is the less glamorous part of the process. I have learned that people I loved do not love me in return. I have learned that those I held in close regard did not have the same understanding with me. I have learned friends come and go even at the most critical time when we need them most. I have learned I will be replaced by others that are deemed more interesting to be with. I have learned that friendship is a two seat bike meant to be shared and to let go of those who don't put in equal effort. Most of all, I have learned what it is to be me and I love it. I love my light and dark side. I love showing passion toward others. If it is not returned, I must stay strong and continue to be me, the best me I can be, and not take it personally.
mrmike - 10/25/06 22:26
Well said, I concur
Well said, I concur
jenks - 10/25/06 17:51
Yeah, I think you (we) have to strike a balance. Taking things personally is what makes us human. While letting every little thing break your heart is not a good way to live, neither is being an unfeeling machine. I personally prefer to feel too much, than too little. Yes, the hurt is more intense, but so is the love. I think (hope) it's worth it.
Yeah, I think you (we) have to strike a balance. Taking things personally is what makes us human. While letting every little thing break your heart is not a good way to live, neither is being an unfeeling machine. I personally prefer to feel too much, than too little. Yes, the hurt is more intense, but so is the love. I think (hope) it's worth it.
Just to add a Little bit. If memory serves when I went to Canisius (seems so long ago like another life time) I think I do remember seeing a GLBT organisation room on campus someware it might have been past the bookstore and before the shop that was never open in the area where they had clubs and organisations. I think it is good that they allow it.
"There is no valid scientific evidence for a biological origin of same-sex attraction. However, there is evidence that persons with same-sex attraction can and do change." That statement is acutally incorrect as you pointed out. Firstly there is such a thing as gay animals. There are services and programs where some churchs try to get gays to turn stright but they don't really work they just might cause the person to stop having sex but they are still gay. I heard someone Priest explain that being gay isn't a sin. What is a sin is giving into temptation and having gay sex.
I belive that most forms of chistainty belive homosexualty is a sin or evil. Not that everyone belives that. My belief is that you can't condem anyone for sining. It seems everyone seems to forget about that "Let thee who is without sin cast the first stone" story. I think most people codem people and don't except them. There are some people who do both. Meaning they think their friend or family member is going to hell but they still acept them as a person who they love anyways.
For the record, Canisius does support a large GLBT community. What I was really aiming at here was the interpretation of Vatican belief versus other's understanding of Catholic teaching. To be accepting of others versus condemning them.
I also found this line contradictory. "There is no valid scientific evidence for a biological origin of same-sex attraction. However, there is evidence that persons with same-sex attraction can and do change."
Sure, say, if Canisius College gets tax dollars, then I'm on board with you Ajay. Otherwise, they can approve/deny whatever kind of club they like, and it's their right.
Sure, eveyone has a right to their opinions.
But not everyone has a right to my tax dollars.
If there are people who believe in discrimination, they should not get any tax funding. Unfortunately, churches do get a LOT of tax benefits; that is a problem.
That page makes for entertaining reading, in light of the entire sexual abuse scandal. Latest deal: paying out $75M:
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More news here: :::link:::
I know guys, the First Amendment is really brutal, yeah?
I'm not a fan of the Catholic church in general but they can run their colleges pretty much however they see fit. I think a gay person would have to be extremely stupid to assume that a Catholic school would respect their sexuality, or even be obligated to do so.
Is it fair? Of course it isn't, but that's really not the point. Sure they're out of touch, and they have the right to be. There are out of touch assholes everywhere. If someone doesn't like the rules at a Catholic school they can always transfer.
This document shows how out of touch they really are. The first example of that is that a signifagant percentage of people who go to Catholic Colleges arn't Catholic or at least arn't practicing. A local example if you want to be a nurse you go to D'yvoule if you want to be an accountant You go to Canisius if you are good at Basketball you get a schoolership at St. Bonaventure. Secondly College is a time when people are supposed to learn about them selves (hence all the girls gone wild videos and girls kissing girls who arn't really bi or gay but just experiment) College isn't supposed to be prison. Yes the point is that you go there to learn or get a degree. But that isn't the only thing it is about. The other problem is that they say that nothing can contradict the bible. Well if that is true by evolution if you start there then what else will they not let teachers teach. Besides the church has no right to preach at people when they have passed gay pedohpilic priest from parish to parish. I'm not saying that Catholic Schools should give up there catholic education. I think it should be there for anyone who wants it. But that dosn't mean you have to force people to what you belive is moraly correct. A little bit of encouragement through signs and on campus advertising is good and through school organisations. But to say that every minority on campus can have there own group but not the gay kids is just wrong. Debate is a verry good thing on College campuses, if no one ever learns how to debate this country is in a lot of toruble.
My opinion- ugh.
I personally am not a big fan of (overly) religious education. I think the point of education is to learn about various viewpoints- not just to have one narrow one shoved down your throat, and all others condemned.