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08/16/2009 08:37 #49548

Rebirth!!
So last night we went and saw Rebirth- a big brass band from New Orleans. I haven't seen them since I was there- and WOW it made me homesick.
But I have to say- I'm sure the band kept thinking "wow, we are not in new orleans". These guys are a fixture down there. Everyone knows and loves them. Then they come here and get a bunch of white people, all sitting down- haha. They kept saying "come on people, MOVE!"
Heh. Eventually people got into it and were dancing. But so fun.

I don't know how people can listen to this music and NOT 1: instantly feel happy and 2: shake that ass!

Gotta love those horns!!



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jenks - 08/16/09 10:48
haha, yeah- last night they segued into TLC's Waterfalls. It was pretty funny.
lilho - 08/16/09 10:07
sounds like fun!
zobar - 08/16/09 09:50
Sweet! I saw Rebirth in NYC a few years ago, and they were awesome. They did a hysterical version of Let's Get It On.

I saw them at B.B. King's Blues Bar, and it struck me that I'd never seen so many blonde Eurowaif cocktail waitresses at a blues club.

- Z

08/13/2009 13:57 #49525

WTF????!!!!!!!!!!
Ok, I just got a spam TEXT MESSAGE?!

That's a little frightening. Because I can't tell who it's from (just comes up as one of those 5 digit codes).
But it was some text message telling me to go to some dating website.

I do NOT like this. How the fuck did they get my cell phone number? Who are they? I don't like that I can't respond/block them.

This is not cool. Spam email is one thing. But spam texts??!!

Has anyone else had this happen??
zobar - 08/13/09 18:35
If it came from 36245, somebody emailed your phone and you'll never find them [36245 spells 'EMAIL']. That's bogus and cheap [and also how (e:strip) sends mobile messages]. Your phone's email address would be something like 7168771932@txt.att.net, depending on your carrier.

Occasionally, carriers will sell 'legitimate spam' messages, which usually spend half the allotted space explaining that you're not getting charged for it. I haven't gotten one of those in a while, but I doubt they've stopped doing it.

- Z
tinypliny - 08/13/09 14:16
I HATE text spam! I don't even use my phone much and my balance keeps dwindling because all these random spammy texts AND texts from drunk teenagers sending 6 messages at a time. I absolutely hate it. :/
mrmike - 08/13/09 14:02
I've gotten a couple. I think it's part of cell phone numbers being telemarketed. I'm confident that Sprint is treating their numbers like a regular old list database and the random something gets through.

08/13/2009 13:24 #49523

more healthcare stuff, blah blah blah
But first-
I just finished taking my general surgery boards. Fingers crossed that I passed- because it's not something I'd like to do again.

So now I am catching up with email- got this from the American College of Surgeons the other day.
Now, when I don't have my facts straight, I try to stay out of a conversation- or at least admit that I may well be talking out of my ass. Apparently our president does not do the same thing?

This is distressing, if you ask me...

Statement from the American College of Surgeons Regarding Recent Comments from President Obama

CHICAGO--The American College of Surgeons is deeply disturbed over the uninformed public comments President Obama continues to make about the high-quality care provided by surgeons in the United States. When the President makes statements that are incorrect or not based in fact, we think he does a disservice to the American people at a time when they want clear, understandable facts about health care reform. We want to set the record straight.

Yesterday during a town hall meeting, President Obama got his facts completely wrong. He stated that a surgeon gets paid $50,000 for a leg amputation when, in fact, Medicare pays a surgeon between $740 and $1,140 for a leg amputation. This payment also includes the evaluation of the patient on the day of the operation plus patient follow-up care that is provided for 90 days after the operation. Private insurers pay some variation of the Medicare reimbursement for this service.
Three weeks ago, the President suggested that a surgeon's decision to remove a child's tonsils is based on the desire to make a lot of money. That remark was ill-informed and dangerous, and we were dismayed by this characterization of the work surgeons do. Surgeons make decisions about recommending operations based on what's right for the patient.
We agree with the President that the best thing for patients with diabetes is to manage the disease proactively to avoid the bad consequences that can occur, including blindness, stroke, and amputation. But as is the case for a person who has been treated for cancer and still needs to have a tumor removed, or a person who is in a terrible car crash and needs access to a trauma surgeon, there are times when even a perfectly managed diabetic patient needs a surgeon. The President's remarks are truly alarming and run the risk of damaging the all-important trust between surgeons and their patients.

We assume that the President made these mistakes unintentionally, but we would urge him to have his facts correct before making another inflammatory and incorrect statement about surgeons and surgical care.


jenks - 08/13/09 19:32
Wait, where are these doctors who think all you do is cut? And that it's only about money?
I know people seem to think these guys are out there... and maybe they are... but, I certainly don't know any...
I mean, there is a certain code of ethics and moral behavior in medicine...
You lose your license over stuff like that... Hippocratic oath and all that...

I mean maybe I'm naive- but I think these hacks are more urban legend than real.

But that's all beside the point.

If you're the freaking president of the United States- you should at least sort of have your facts right before speaking. Saying that something that costs $1000 costs $50,000 is a pretty big error.

Though James certainly has a point- I don't know the context of the comments. Just the statement from the ACS. Who is of course protecting their own interests.

And- an amputation is not as basic a procedure as you may think...

To be honest I have no idea how much surgical procedures cost- as residents we are completely sheltered from the 'business' side of it. But considering that that 750-1000 includes 3 months of postop care- it's not all that much.
metalpeter - 08/13/09 19:11
He Said the wrong thing but I know what he was getting at. What he means is that there are some doctors who think that when ever there is a problem you cut. They are Cut happy and they lean that way and don't give their patients all the facts. Surgery shouldn't be the only option. I'm sure he thinks these doctors prefer this because of the money factor.
theli - 08/13/09 19:01
Just out of curiousity... How is $1000 for a leg amputation not a lot?

It really does seem like a bit much for what is apparently, to me, a pretty basic procedure.
jason - 08/13/09 15:48
I had no idea that Obama could fib.
james - 08/13/09 15:31
I would be interested to see the President's comment in context.
dcoffee - 08/13/09 14:55
Interesting. The President shouldn't be pulling numbers out of his ass to make a point.

I think doctors should get paid better. I'm worried that too much money is being skimmed off the top before the surgeon gets paid. $1,000 for a leg amputation doesn't seem like a lot to me, I wonder how much the hospital gets paid for the room the surgeon uses.

08/04/2009 19:00 #49459

grave oversight
I was just going to write that I have a second date tonight and am totally psyched.

But realized that I left out the other bit- that I had a FIRST date this weekend, which was great. :)

Wheee.

He's super adorable. Both in looks, and actions.
After he dropped me off, he texted me that he had a great time and hoped I did too- and that I looked gorgeous.
Aww, he got big points for that.
But he was embarrassed that I was more dressed up than he was- but he was in those ultra-preppy 'nantucket red' shorts.

And I have to say- I am a sucker for a preppy boy.

so anyway.
Yay.
dimartiste - 08/14/09 14:16
Go Girl! May you enjoy many more very fun dates in the future! He sounds wonderful! I hope you enjoy each other! Good times!
mrmike - 08/06/09 11:28
Good for you

07/30/2009 01:23 #49411

NY, NY
So, I'm in NYC for the week. I'm taking a microsurgery course at Columbia. And they are putting me up at a seminary- 47 blocks away. WTF? So I have to commute to this course and take the subway. Huh? I mean really! This is NEW YORK. There must be another place to stay closer than 47 blocks away. That isn't a seminary, too. A seminary is like the last place I should stay- I feel like I should burst into flames when I walk through the door! ;)

But, whatever, it's fine. And the room has a little mini-kitchen. So today I on my way home I bought a box of granola bars to have for breakfast. And I ate a bag of popcorn on my way home. And threw the bag in my trash can.

Which in retrospect, was a stupid idea. But I figured if there's a kitchen, there's meant to be food. But I should have known.

Yesterday, I saw a big roach scurry under the bed. Awesome. But, having lived with cat-sized roaches in New Orleans, I didn't care too much.

But the reason I am awake now is because I was just AWAKENED FROM A DEAD SLEEP by the sound of a MOUSE in my popcorn bag. Awesome.
May have to bring this to someone's attention. Too bad the 'office' is only open from 10-2, and I am gone from 8-5.

Oh well. Otherwise NY is good. Have had the chance to see some friends, and make some others, and on top of it all it's Restaurant Week, so I've been eating way too much.

But, I kind of can't wait to go home on Sat, because I have my date that night. :) He's been super adorably cute. Calling just enough to make me feel important, and not enough to make me feel smothered.
So I want to hurry up and have this date and get to know him better... because I feel like it's not right to be all excited about someone I barely know.

And who knows, maybe if this works out I can cancel my match.com, which seems to be hitting an all time low. I seriously can't believe some of the people on there. Especially when they email me about how much we have in common. I'm like "really? fat bald divorced high school dropout guy with no job in a football jersey? You think we have a lot in common?" But then the other day I actually, for the first time in months, saw someone that might be interesting... so I sent him a message. No reply. After a week, I wrote back "wow, I don't even get a hello? Well, good luck to you." To which he sent back an apology... Said he was sorry to be rude but he thinks it's best not to answer. That while he respects doctors, "Being a doctor is a massive time commitment and for that reason I didn't feel it was a good fit. I am sure many would be estatic [sic] to be involved with someone that would so greatly assist on the financial side of life in addition to the general relationship. For me, time is more important."

Dumbass. The 'financial side' comment is super obnoxious, if you ask me. I also noticed that the only place I didn't match his criteria was "body type". I have listed myself as "average"- he only wants "slender" or "athletic and toned." Again, oh really dude? You're not that hot. You posted 12 pictures that prove that fact. I wrote b/c he was witty and seemed to like the same things as me. Guess not. He also wrote "reguardless" and "defensce". We're clearly not meant to be.

So, I couldn't let it go and sent him back a message that said that I agree- I don't respond to people I'm not interested in. But that usually those people aren't cute doctors. But that if he is willing to write off a whole profession without knowing more [my hours as a hand surgeon will not be a problem]- then maybe we're not a good match. Then for good measure I tacked on "and I have to ask- are you really that hot that merely "average" girls need not apply?"

Somehow i'm not expecting a response to that one.

And just now I got "Your smile light up my screen.. If think.. We can be friends let me know.. I am DOMINIC. If want please sent me mail.. Thanks." DOMINIC, you are 46 but don't seem to have mastered fundamental reading/writing, so I think I'll pass.

God I'm a bitch. Ugh.

Last comment-
Jim/James- you guys ok? :(

later peeps. Now I will try to fall back asleep and hope the mouse doesn't wake me up going through the garbage I moved out to the hallway.
jenks - 08/01/09 09:43
well, no, that's not what I said. I said that I didn't think he was hot enough to be disqualifying 'average' women. But I did not disqualify him based on that. I still thought he was cute (perhaps, average?), and, I realize there is more to a person than their looks. I said he's not all that hot, BUT I thought he was smart and witty and interesting, and thus I sent him a message.
carolinian - 07/31/09 10:44
If I am reading your post right, you are disqualifying a guy partly due to his appearance being below a certain standard while simultaneously lamenting unfair and unrealistic standards of appearance that you yourself don't meet.
metalpeter - 07/30/09 19:51
In Terms of the New York thing. Since you don't like to travel the 47 blocks and you mentioned you don't like the place and you met up with some friends why not just tell them that your place is gross and ask if they have a couch? You aren't paying for the place so what if you don't stay there. Now if you are a player you could find someone to have fun with who is close to the school and like walk two blocks or something?

In terms of the dating thing. The things that you mentioned have nothing to do with if you have any thing in common. Having things in common are interests you both have. It sounds like it wouldn't have worked out anyways so.....
chico - 07/30/09 16:23
I love you. Please come back to me. But quit your job first, so we can eliminate the very last thing we don't have in common.

Signed,

Fat Bald Divorced High School Dropout Guy with No Job in a Football Jersey
vincent - 07/30/09 12:52
Yea, so you're staying in a seminary? All I can think about is the repulsion that I had as a high school kind in going to a "convent" in Lewiston. When I was finishing up my classes for confirmation we had to go on a retreat to this big nunnery/private school to meet with these evangelical Catholics. Well we were there all day and we had to eat their food in this cafeteria. I don't know what they served but seeing these 80 year old Catholic nuns and the slop they ate really gave me the the Hebe jeebees. This was totally reinforced by the fact that when I went to Poland years later we ate at another convent over there on some tour and again these 80 year old nuns served up some porridge soup that was disgusting. So I can feel your odd vibe just through my own experience

As for dating, I knew that you were just screwed here in Buffalo, but it does make me happy to see that we don't have a monopoly of 40 year old, fat bald guys living in their Mom's basement trying to hit the love lotto.

I'm glad that someone in the early 30's (e:strip) single demographic has a shot to put the losing streak to an end. Although I am considering going back on match, I may just not bother given what you seem to be reporting. As for the “high standards” in regards to body type, some people would rather build a relationship of our physical chemistry than convince themselves of physical attraction after getting to know someone.
jim - 07/30/09 09:33
Jenks, thanks, surviving :)
jason - 07/30/09 09:11
Alex, I don't understand the impulse to question someone, or even worse, shit on someone for not responding. Do you respond to every single person you're not interested in? The answer should be yes.

Besides, there is something you need to appreciate about being a guy. I walk down the street and if I'm not a girl's type, many of them will call me a creep. A CREEP!!! For what?! For saying hello? For giving a smile? The difference between being a creep and a catch is razor thin, the inexplicable reaction to panties getting wet.

The reason I don't bother is because a hell of a lot of them are terribly cruel for no good reason. I'd rather beat off than deal with that. I'm happy with that arrangement. Men simply are not as judgmental or cruel. Every little god damn thing is a cause for concern. What's so hard about taking it easy on people? Why not just let it go?

Yeah, I guess I feel passionate about it and got a little ranty. I mean, all the poor bastard did was just not respond. It's okay. For that matter, everything that doesn't work out for us is okay. I've had some terrible disappointments, heartaches, and here I am. They haven't ran me off the tracks yet. Seriously, have fun on your date. Enjoy it! Be happy! The rest of this stuff is noise.
tinypliny - 07/30/09 05:17
What was that about Jim and James??


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