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12/23/2008 15:24 #47154

Pastors Wife Post
I don't spend a lot of time prattling on about being a "pastor's wife". In part, because I hate the term and all it implies. Also because it doesn't mean that much to me. I'm married to a great guy. He happens to be a pastor.

But this time of year we're out and about at the parties socializing with new people, many of whom want to know what I do as a pastor's wife.

Nothing, is my usual response. It's not entirely true, but it makes me laugh to see people drop their jaw. I watch them imagine the mind boggling possibility of a pastor's wife who doesn't do it all at the church.

A response that my "pastor's wife" friend has used before is, "My job is to keep my husband satisfied in a way no other church member can". I'm a little to shy to work that line, but maybe I'll give it a try sometime.

So for everyone who wonders what a pastor's wife does in her spare time, I'm not sure about the other pastor's wives, but I like to spend snowy days off work making miniature igloos and snow angels.

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Note the moat with the drawbridge around the igloo. There's just enough room inside for a small rabbit or squirrel to shelter through a Buffalo storm.

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theecarey - 12/31/08 15:55
awh! I used to make little igloo animal shelters all over my yard growing up; can't believe that was forgotten about until your post.

I do love your friends response- it would be great to pull it off with a straight face, haha
tinypliny - 12/31/08 14:04
Cool!! I have always wanted to make snow angels and igloos! ;^)
lauren - 12/29/08 20:37
Hey Janelle...sorry this is a little late in response to your comment on felly's journal...but, we are leaving tomorrow night (hopefully) by 7/730 so if you have time you can stop by to get your key...also, if you feel so inclined, we will be gone from tomorrow night through Sat evening so if you wouldn't mind checking in on our kitties once to make sure they are still alive and haven't burned down the house, that would be awesome (although completely cool if you can't as well). either way, let us know.
ladycroft - 12/24/08 03:58
haha! i dated a PK who's mom was exactly the stereotype PW you're talking about. guess it must be hard to break the mold!
james - 12/23/08 16:33
Well, having your own pet computer programmer is a big responsibility. You have to feed it, take it for three walks a day, and give it plenty of love. Pet pastors are similar with the exception of making sure their robe is clean on Sundays.
janelle - 12/23/08 16:07
Really? I always assumed Jim was a rather spiffy computer programmer due to your constant maintenance and upkeep.

What a mind boggling revelation!
jim - 12/23/08 16:05
Can we watch that Star Trek trailer again tonight? I haven't seen it this week yet...
james - 12/23/08 16:01
I get the same thing. People are amazed that as a computer-programmer's husband I don't have to remind him to bathe, refill his mountain dew, or force a smile while watching a trailer for the latest Star Trek movie.... well, I do the last one.
carolinian - 12/23/08 15:49
Growing up as a non-christian in the bible belt, my envisioned stereotype of a pastor's wife's duties involved the wearing of large, gaudy, sombrero-like church hats.

12/17/2008 11:23 #47088

Work conversations
My supervisor popped in my cubicle to ask about the whereabouts of my neighbor in the cubicle next to me.

He then looked at me awkwardly for a few seconds. He's so transparent. Inside his head, I saw him thinking: I have ignored Janelle for two solid days. I have barely acknowledged her existence. I haven't even said hello. Quick, think of something to say so she doesn't think I'm completely socially incompetent and indifferent to her.

"So ... Janelle ... How are you?"

"Great, Mr. Supervisor"

The exchange went on a little longer than that and I managed to make a joke. But then off he went. And I just cracked up at my desk. Probably sounded crazy to the ladies on the other side of the cubicle. Oh, well.
james - 12/17/08 12:13
I torture Jim with "my boss is a demi-human barbarian" stories all the time. It is my favorite part of talking shop.

And your boss sounds like everything one could want in management.
janelle - 12/17/08 12:01
I know that I'm probably way more amused by my supervisor stories than anyone else, but I still share them because he just cracks me up.

He's so transparent through facial expressions, body language and in his communication.

Sometimes his transparency is funny, sometimes I feel embarassed for him, and sometimes its offensive.
james - 12/17/08 11:43
cubicles just can't seem to keep the crazy in. Mr.Supervisor sounds wonderful as usual.

12/16/2008 09:38 #47079

Pet Sitting
We are looking for a pet sitter on Dec 26th and Dec 27th. You would only need to come in on the afternoon/evening of the 26th and then twice on the 27th.

The lucky volunteer might receive goodies from Trader Joes in Pgh!
fellyconnelly - 12/16/08 13:04
That could might be us, I just gotta check our schedule
drew - 12/16/08 11:19
Said person might also check in on cats. I don't think the cats would do well in another home--do you?
drew - 12/16/08 11:18
Update. We only need somebody to feed cats--I found somebody who wants Buck to live with them for a few days.
james - 12/16/08 10:54
Jim, we should hit Trader Joe's while we are visiting my folks.
jim - 12/16/08 10:18
James and I are out of town...

12/09/2008 11:02 #47005

Illinois Politics
As happy as I am that the governor of Illinois is finally getting his comeuppance, I hope that this is just one more stepping stone to taking down the dynasty of Chicago and upstate politics known as the Daley family which has worked every which way to screw over downstate Illinois.

Go downstate!


jim - 12/09/08 14:37
I'd take that bet... of course, we won't know for 4 or 8 years.
jason - 12/09/08 14:33
Eh, seeing as Obama comes from the Chicago cess pool he may be more likely to pardon the guy. I'd bet a fiver on it.
janelle - 12/09/08 13:08
A US attorney that was appointed under his administration, I mean.
janelle - 12/09/08 13:06
No *angry face* It would not be hilarious. Downstate Illinois makes a spitting gesture towards you.

Well, maybe a little funny if Bush pardoned a man who was investigated and prosecuted by a US Attorney that he appointed.
james - 12/09/08 13:01
It would be hilarious if President Bush pardoned him. Just because, you know, he can.
jim - 12/09/08 11:15
What... the.... that is brazen. I'm glad he finally went down.

12/04/2008 20:02 #46960

The Plumber
We had a fixture in our bathtub break off. It is the fixture that controls the plug to make the tub drain or retain water. It was beyond our ability to repair, sadly. After a couple of months of a do-it-yourself fix using a wire coat hanger (hat tip to Drew on that one), we finally called a plumber.

We got charged a lot of money for the plumber to put two holes in our wall. Whatever homeowner put the plumbing in must have been awfully optimistic that there would never be a plumbing problem, because they didn't put in an access door to the plumbing. I guess they won, because we're the ones stuck with the problem.

Apparently, putting holes in the wall was a hit or miss kind of thing because here's hole #1 leading to nothing:
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And here's hole #2 which led to what he needed:
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And here's the two fixtures that he replaced in the bathtub I now need to clean:
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Apparently the large sum he charged us didn't include putting a door on or replacing the plaster or tidying up a bit in the bathroom. So, we'll be doing those fun little projects ourselves.




gardenmama - 12/04/08 23:54
Definitely use the pix you took to go with your other stuff if you challenge your assessment - bathrooms are expensive.
paul - 12/04/08 22:20
I really don't understand of how it can be hit or miss. Is it not measurable where the bathtub is? Its not like the bathtub pipes could be anywhere but behind the bathtub.
janelle - 12/04/08 22:06
To be fair, what he quoted us is the same as someone else quoted us. So it's the going rate it seems. And I suppose he's a plumber not a contractor. It just didn't occur to me that we would have to repair the wall.
paul - 12/04/08 21:44
Why don't you say their name. SOunds crappy.
james - 12/04/08 20:39
If you assess your home the way the city of Buffalo does that should drop your value by at least 20k