But this time of year we're out and about at the parties socializing with new people, many of whom want to know what I do as a pastor's wife.
Nothing, is my usual response. It's not entirely true, but it makes me laugh to see people drop their jaw. I watch them imagine the mind boggling possibility of a pastor's wife who doesn't do it all at the church.
A response that my "pastor's wife" friend has used before is, "My job is to keep my husband satisfied in a way no other church member can". I'm a little to shy to work that line, but maybe I'll give it a try sometime.
So for everyone who wonders what a pastor's wife does in her spare time, I'm not sure about the other pastor's wives, but I like to spend snowy days off work making miniature igloos and snow angels.

Note the moat with the drawbridge around the igloo. There's just enough room inside for a small rabbit or squirrel to shelter through a Buffalo storm.

awh! I used to make little igloo animal shelters all over my yard growing up; can't believe that was forgotten about until your post.
I do love your friends response- it would be great to pull it off with a straight face, haha
Cool!! I have always wanted to make snow angels and igloos! ;^)
Hey Janelle...sorry this is a little late in response to your comment on felly's journal...but, we are leaving tomorrow night (hopefully) by 7/730 so if you have time you can stop by to get your key...also, if you feel so inclined, we will be gone from tomorrow night through Sat evening so if you wouldn't mind checking in on our kitties once to make sure they are still alive and haven't burned down the house, that would be awesome (although completely cool if you can't as well). either way, let us know.
haha! i dated a PK who's mom was exactly the stereotype PW you're talking about. guess it must be hard to break the mold!
Well, having your own pet computer programmer is a big responsibility. You have to feed it, take it for three walks a day, and give it plenty of love. Pet pastors are similar with the exception of making sure their robe is clean on Sundays.
Really? I always assumed Jim was a rather spiffy computer programmer due to your constant maintenance and upkeep.
What a mind boggling revelation!
Can we watch that Star Trek trailer again tonight? I haven't seen it this week yet...
I get the same thing. People are amazed that as a computer-programmer's husband I don't have to remind him to bathe, refill his mountain dew, or force a smile while watching a trailer for the latest Star Trek movie.... well, I do the last one.
Growing up as a non-christian in the bible belt, my envisioned stereotype of a pastor's wife's duties involved the wearing of large, gaudy, sombrero-like church hats.