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03/04/2008 11:10 #43549

I wonder...
How is it that "we" hear of some things and not others in the news? It is beyond my ability to understand the ways in which we are manipulated through basic access to information...for those who don't search it out on their own, which is many of us, are we not just submissive infants swallowing all they hold in front of our faces? This is not to de-emphasize the tragedy of Lawrence King's murder, but rather to question why we get to hear about his death and not the death of Simmie Williams Jr.? How many alleged hate crimes go unnoticed, unprinted, unrecognized while other are lifted up to level of idolization? Was Lawrence King more "innocent" that Simmie Williams Jr.? Could we idolize a street walker, a potential prostitute, someone who stepped out if his place? I am disgusted at this possibility...that somehow one person's death is more or less credible, legitimate than an anothers. How wonderful that people hear about the death of Lawrence King, that people understand the brutality of it all, but I know that there is more to it than that... if Lawrence King had worn is female clothes out into the streets, if he had been just a little bit older, if he had "hit on" some straight man, the list goes on and on about what can and can not be taken into the hearts of the american people.

Victim: Simmie Williams Jr., shot as he stood along Sistrunk Boulevard in Fort Lauderdale, died at Broward General Medical Center.


By Brian Haas and Sofia Santana | South Florida Sun-Sentinel
February 23, 2008
FORT LAUDERDALE - The shooting death of a gay teenage boy who was dressed in women's clothing is being investigated as a possible hate crime, while detectives try to determine whether he was targeted because of his sexual orientation.

Simmie Williams Jr., 17, was attacked on the 1000 block of Sistrunk Boulevard by two young men who wore dark clothing and might live in the neighborhood, police said. Williams, who was wearing a dress and was known in the area by his first name or as "Chris" or "Beyonce," was shot about 12:45 a.m. Friday and soon afterward died at Broward General Medical Center, police said.It's unclear what Williams was doing in the area, about four miles from his house, but police are investigating whether he was working as a prostitute, officials said.



Almost two weeks after the shocking death of Lawrence King in his California classroom, a gay black teen has been shot dead in South Florida. Police in Fort Lauderdale say 17-year-old Simmie Williams Jr. was dressed in women's clothing and his death is being investigated as a possible bias crime.

"We're looking into the possibility of a hate crime," Sgt. Kathy Collins with the Fort Lauderdale Police tells News 10. "There were some words exchanged prior to the shooting ... Witnesses said he was in a verbal argument with two men and then they heard several shots being fired and the men took off running."

Detectives say Williams was wearing a dress and at the corner of 10th Avenue and Sistrunk Boulevard at around 12:45 a.m. Friday. It is unclear what he was doing in the area. The vicinity is frequented by transgender prostitutes.

Williams' mother tells the Sun-Sentinnel she knew her son was openly gay, but, did not know her son wore women's clothes or what he did after dark. "I gave him $2 for the bus and he never came back," says Denise King, who lived with her son west of Fort Lauderdale. "He was a quiet person, kept to himself. He had a lot of friends. He wasn't a troubled child. He was a happy person."

The distraught mom also says her son "planned to get his GED":and then go to culinary school. "That's what he really wanted to do. That's all he talked about," says King. "He spent the whole day with me yesterday, played with his nephew and cooked dinner."

Although the Lawrence King murder is making national headlines and the community is pulling together, there probably will not be a stampede in Fort Lauderdale to apprehend the men who killed Simmie Williams. Authorities are historically slow to solve murders of black gay young menâ€"a la Rashawn Brazellâ€"and "being black, gay and dressing in women's clothing made Williams 'a minority within a minority within a minority,' says Grant Lynn Ford, dean of Sunshine Cathedral in Fort Lauderdale, a congregation that ministers to gays, lesbians and their families.


tiburon1724 - 03/17/08 10:41
I absolutely hate the media and don't watch the news and rarely will pick up the paper. The power the media has is incredible. For example, all this talk of a recession...I strongly feel that if the media didn't harp on it constantly, there would be no recession. The media only hastens and worsens it because people hear it and thus believe it. If the media instead reported on the positive side of things more, I bet there'd be a quicker turnaround! It becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.
metalpeter - 03/04/08 18:35
I will admit that I don't know how the process works. But I assume that there are people who decide what stories to cover and what ones not to. I think often they might decide why do to stories about the same thing this one sounds most interesting. I'm sure there is some bias involved also. That could even be who your readers are. If you think they are mostly rich white stright men then why cover a story about a gay black teen if no one would care. I think there are other factors to like is the source reliable and does it entertain and how much space is left in the paper. I think that is why it is good to have at least 2 Major papers in every city.
lauren - 03/04/08 13:25
For clarification: I am not expected news sources to be able to report on EVERYthing...the point how they pick and choose what does get covered... and how we can't expect that these are mere coincidences or inability to cover it all, but rather that this we are fed a carefully chosen few stories while others are INTENTIONALLY left out. and then to take into consideration WHY they are not included and see what that says about this country.
james - 03/04/08 12:20
And do you know what they fill those x minutes and y pages with?

"Area Dog Entertains Elderly at Nursing Home"
"Traffic Lights: Boon to Local Businesses?"
"Dickface Smith Middle School Students Collect Caned Food for the Dead"

People would be more outraged if they weren't caring so much about local bullshit. I can't watch a newscast or read a local paper without choking on bullshit.
joshua - 03/04/08 12:04
What Jason said - news organizations have limited resources and are expected to report globally. CNN isn't going to become the hate crime journal anytime soon. That doesn't mean that these organizations are callous, or that hate crimes aren't newsworthy. There are a lot of issues to worry about. Another consideration - as always, and I wish it weren't true, but if it isn't one topic that people perceive as being underreported then there will always be another topic somebody will complain about in the same regard. Americans are the world's most prolific complainers. The media are by no means perfect and deserve criticism but in this instance I am not prepared to lambast them.
jason - 03/04/08 11:33
The news companies have X minutes and Y pages to fit in as much information and advertising as they can muster. They cannot possibly fit in every outrage (I happen to think there are many such things). It would probably be more controversial and unacceptable if the alleged hate crimes were totally ignored.

A constructive solution, if a specific alleged hate crime needs to be brought to everyone's attention, is to take a full page Ad in the New York Times or some other purveyor of information.

03/03/2008 16:39 #43541

To vent
Category: randomo bitching
Ok. So...I woke up this morning and opened the door and I was SOO happy to feel the warmth, to not be able to see my breath, to notice that the snow is melllllllting and then. It all went wrong.

I decided to be productive and change the kitty litter so I emptied it out, cleaned it, shook out the bathroom carpets, swept the floor and went to put the new litter in to find that we had no litter! Shit shit shit, I had to get to the store before the kitties went poopoo in the empty litter box. Gross....so I shower super quick and get all ready to go and try to find my wallet....and then it hits me. I left my wallet in the glove box of felly's car and she is at work. So now I have an empty litter box and no wallet.

AND THEN

I realized I have NO GAS in my effin car. I can't even get to class. Shit shit shit. What to do? I thought I could take a check over to the bank to cash and then, oh yes, I have no ID. It's in my wallet. I tear apart the apt. trying to find my ever ellusive passport and of course, can't find the damn thing. So, now, no kitty litter, no wallet, no gas, no I.D. What the eff?

I emailed my prof, saving her from the gory details of my ridiculous day...and of course I have a paper due in her class so I send her a copy of that and sit down to a wonderful afternoon of HGTV. I honestly wanted to go to class today...beautiful days make me want to drive, to do something, to leave my apt and that enthusiasm was slapped right outta me after all this nonsense.

There is no point to this story...just me getting it all out. Tonight is floor class which makes me happy....and then 3 days of class and then SPRING BREAK...bye bye buffalo :)
james - 03/03/08 22:09
The great thing about a horrible day is that you have a whole other tomorrow to be horrible! Smile.
lilho - 03/03/08 21:42
if i was more diligent about posting about the goings-on of my life... more people would know, this sounds kinda like my life everyday. i think when things like this happen; why can't we have personal assistants? i'm on spring break next week too, but since i live in enternal spring break-land, i will just work more... and maybe enjoy some hiking. anyway, the whole point of this comment is, your post made me smile.
libertad - 03/03/08 19:02
Wow that sounds like a horrible day!

03/01/2008 00:00 #43514

Before I fergit...
Category: randomo
Margarita Assignment. Check.




Ahahahahahah. P.S. THESE are sooo funny. Why the hell do lesbians make ridiculous "music videos" of lesbian movies to cheesy lesbian music?!?!

this one is from that catholic school girl lesbian movie. in case you couldn't tell. ha.




metalpeter - 03/01/08 14:00
Is it wrong to say that the girl in the School Girls outfit is very hot. Is it even wronger to say she kinda reminds me of Avril Levine (not saying they are alike or anything).

02/28/2008 13:47 #43497

I blog, therefore I am lame
I don't like the word "blog". does anyone know where this word came from? I think of ridiculous things like yule logs, poo, and vomit when I here this word. And already it has become stigmatized. Bloggers. Lame. Not you guys of course! Perhaps we need to reclaim the word or come up with a new one? How long before a word becomes stigmatized before it can be reclaimed? I wonder...

Felly and I have decided that we are going to Florida in May. Florida. I have never been to Florida...I have been to many many states in this country of ours, but never Florida. for some people it is like, the vacation spot...but it never intrigued me quite like, Colorado for example or Tennessee. Of couse I am going on assumptions of old people and scantily clad hot women who will make me look bad... i might be into the everglades, but not florida. Ah well, perhaps I will be proven wrong...

Whats up with "spring semester"? whats so spring about it? and ditto for this whole "spring break" nonsense. There is snow on the ground, no freshly budding trees, no singing birds, no potentially warm days, no spring. I guess thats why people go to elsewhere for spring break...florida perhaps? ha.
fellyconnelly - 02/29/08 08:40
florida has never really interested me either but.... welll i guess....
joshua - 02/28/08 14:35
In those long forgotten, heady days of 2004 it was simply known as a weblog. People got lazy with the we part. Maybe because its usually an individual endeavor? Nah. Lazy! =D
mrmike - 02/28/08 14:28
Went to Miami for work a bunch of years ago. The work sucked but South Beach merited "Further research."

02/21/2008 20:50 #43422

Short But Sweet
Category: buffalo
I am really serious about this folks. Maybe it isn't everybody's thing, or you think that it won't be your thing, or that you will feel out of place or whatever, but, BATTLE AT BUFFALO is a very welcoming environment and it will blow your mind. Seriously. Granted, you might have to sit on the floor, your left leg may fall asleep and you might not realize it till you stand up and almost fall down, but otherwise, you will have a great time.

It starts around 7:30 on Saturday night. It costs $4. The Verve Dance studio is located on main street, between Allen and Virginia. There is a creepy door located to the left of the Hyatt Art supply store that will lead you upstairs. Just follow the music! It usually goes on till 1130 or so and I would say that the good stuff starts around 830pm.

I think that their myspace has all the exact info:


Also, just as a side note, I think that what these people are doing has a really positive impact on the community in a number ways. If you come, you are supporting breakdancing, cultural diversity, your community, and chances are you will directly benefit by being impressed, wowed, and amazed at the whole damn thing.

There. I rest my peace.
fellyconnelly - 02/22/08 09:41
yay battle at buffalo tomorrow! i'm so excited!
drew - 02/22/08 09:24
You make a good case. Maybe I will head out.