Category: love
11/27/05 11:20 - 37ºF - ID#21111
The Ignorance of Love
The man I chose to fall in love with is not someone that I can be in love with. I know you can't choose who you fall for, but for so long this friend that I fell for was taken by someone that I consider to be a good friend. Well, she let him go, for whatever reason, and I cannot help but think that if she were to know even an ounce of my feelings for him, that we would cease to be friends. You don't just go and fall for someone's ex-fiance everyday, do you?
All I know is that I've never felt like this before. I've been in years long relationships that never even came close to the feelings I harbor for him.
Is it worth it?
I've been spending too much of my life lately trying to figure that out...
This is completely unrelated, but...
My puppy, Daphne :)
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Location: Buffalo, NY
Category: just because
10/12/05 09:21 - ID#21110
Fall makes me do all sorts of things
I love the fall. I love the weather. I love how even the leaves in south buffalo can manage to look beautiful. I love how not everyone is dressed like a skank anymore (although I do appreciate a woman's body as an art form, some stuff should be left to the imagination). I love that the kids in my neighborhood are not around between 8-3 and they aren't playing as much hockey in the streets. I love how almost all of the houses are decorated for halloween, and that it just smells cold in the morning (I'm praying that someone else knows what I mean). I especially love how on nights like tonight, you can curl up in a blanket on your couch with your dog and be totally relaxed. It's not too hot, not too cold, just that perfect kind of comfy.
I love comfy.
Sometimes it's too hard to find.
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Location: Buffalo, NY
Category: info
10/12/05 04:33 - ID#21109
introducing me
My name's Aldara but if you call me that I'll kill you. I go by Ali, and always have. I was born in Thessalonki, Greece but I'm not greek at all. I'm mainly Spanish, but my mother has a little bit of Irish and Moroccan in her. I lived in Greece until I was 7, and then in Morocco until I was 10. We moved to Virginia then, and to Buffalo when I was 16. I've been here ever since.
I can honestly say that I've out grown my friends from high school. I was in a sorority when I was in college, but I've out grown them to. I've just started my residency in Pediatric Surgery at ECMC, and I love doing weird things. Just ask if you need an explanation.
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Location: Buffalo, NY
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About your situation - you cannot help who you fall in love with, it's true. And there doubtlessly is a "code" we follow that states we cannot go after a friend's ex. Well, at least there is a guy code for that, not too sure about the womenfolk.
I would be lying if I said I haven't felt the same as you at some point. For what it's worth, friends last forever, men simply do not.