It was such a great day at work yesterday... Instated busy but never felt stressed like I was gonna walk out of that bish... And I made a ton of money. Why can't that be everyday????
Now the real issue is I feel so unmotivated to find a other job even though it will slow down soon. I feel like I can't stand phx anymore but now I should stay to help my mom and watch her house while she travels.
I feel just like I did before I left blo and I'm just over it. What to do....
I suppose I should stick with the original plan of saving tons of money first. Perhaps I'm too picky about dating and I should just go with a basic... Ugh I just can't. But it would be so nice to meet someone who is emotionally stable, educated, and likes to be social... And is tall and attractive, duh. I'll be ready to reproduce one to two babies in a few years and if my man don't show up soon ima have to adopt an Asian or African baby. It has seriously been my dream for like 10 years to have a multicultural multi ethnocentric family... We are going to eat lots of different kinds of yummy food and have a family drum circle. Plus, we will all love hip hop music and Bob Marley.
I am really putting off getting ready for work because I worked almost 11 hrs yesterday and I'm tired and would rather go back to bed.
Maybe later I'll actually post something of substance... But my brain has turned to mush since graduation and all I do is think about nails and fashion and beauty products. I also like to think about working out and rarely ever follow through... This will change though. Singularity will happen in our lifetime... That was just a random check to see if people read this far- fools!!!!!
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Random Tuesday04/05/2013 01:06 #57466
Gossip girlThis is about me and work, not the show. Omg my work just gets better and worse everyday.
Like in, the tale of two cities, it's the best and worst of times!
People think I don't notice but I know everyone's crazy shiz and people just tell me stuff they shouldn't.
Today a customer grabbed my coworker between the legs and she liked it and sat on his lap while I uncomfortably sat rolling silverware just a few feet away. Then my coworker proceeded to pour a strong drink in front of my boss and mosey on down to the fire pit bar.
I have serious issues with this chick because she lets golfers say ad do whatever on the course when she works the beverage cart and then they come in for food and drinks expecting a show and a little slap and tickle. Um no, I can be flirty and cute but let's keep in classy.
Apparently this chick has been seen kissing the ass grabber guy... And apparently you don't get fired at my work for drinking on the job.
Bottoms up!
Like in, the tale of two cities, it's the best and worst of times!
People think I don't notice but I know everyone's crazy shiz and people just tell me stuff they shouldn't.
Today a customer grabbed my coworker between the legs and she liked it and sat on his lap while I uncomfortably sat rolling silverware just a few feet away. Then my coworker proceeded to pour a strong drink in front of my boss and mosey on down to the fire pit bar.
I have serious issues with this chick because she lets golfers say ad do whatever on the course when she works the beverage cart and then they come in for food and drinks expecting a show and a little slap and tickle. Um no, I can be flirty and cute but let's keep in classy.
Apparently this chick has been seen kissing the ass grabber guy... And apparently you don't get fired at my work for drinking on the job.
Bottoms up!
lilho - 04/17/13 12:53
i could drink everyday if i wanted, there's no cameras and no one cares really about anything anymore i feel. but, i do a good job sober and don't feel the need to be drinking at work, even though i like it when other people are drunk and tell me crazy stories. people offer me drinks all the time, but i always say no because it is unprofessional and work is work. drinking is definitely not allowed, but there is no one enforcing rules at my work so people just do whatever.
i could drink everyday if i wanted, there's no cameras and no one cares really about anything anymore i feel. but, i do a good job sober and don't feel the need to be drinking at work, even though i like it when other people are drunk and tell me crazy stories. people offer me drinks all the time, but i always say no because it is unprofessional and work is work. drinking is definitely not allowed, but there is no one enforcing rules at my work so people just do whatever.
Robert - 04/16/13 23:44
not in new york state. it's not legal, but lots of managers will look the other way if you have 1 or 2, and if you buy your bar tender a shot, mostly no one cares, but it's up to the employee to stay composed and not get fall-down drunk, because then it's an issue.
as a server, ive been offered glasses of wine from my tables but i've never accepted because of the type of place i work - they would never allow it. somewhere else, well... that could be a different story.
not in new york state. it's not legal, but lots of managers will look the other way if you have 1 or 2, and if you buy your bar tender a shot, mostly no one cares, but it's up to the employee to stay composed and not get fall-down drunk, because then it's an issue.
as a server, ive been offered glasses of wine from my tables but i've never accepted because of the type of place i work - they would never allow it. somewhere else, well... that could be a different story.
metalpeter - 04/16/13 16:23
I wonder if drinking on the job is allowed ? If money bags golfer buys you a drink can you turn it down really... I know some bars allow you to drink when you are on shift.... Crazy in any event.... Side note wish I drank during my job might make things a lot better......
I wonder if drinking on the job is allowed ? If money bags golfer buys you a drink can you turn it down really... I know some bars allow you to drink when you are on shift.... Crazy in any event.... Side note wish I drank during my job might make things a lot better......
Robert - 04/16/13 02:49
no way, (e:metalpeter), that bitch is totally drinking on the job. soooooo many people drink on the job in the food and beverage industry. most of the people i work with do, and in the past it was the same. i don't because i'm really bad at being sneaky and would just get caught.
if it isn't booze it's something else. lots of different substances fly through restaurants. people don't just develop stress-coping methods over night, and cooking for/serving people is a stressful thing for lots of people (not me, usually.) That being said, i emphasize "so many" and "lots" but i do not mean all. Just as many people get through the work day without a drop to drink or whichever vice you might name. but things like that are a lot easier to gain access to in the food and beverage industry - it's fast paced so a lot of things slip through the cracks while managers are running around being "busy".
(no judgment towards anyone reading this that does any of this - if you work with me, i don't care what you do on the job so long as you actually do your job. when people turn into big sloppy messes, then it's a problem.)
no way, (e:metalpeter), that bitch is totally drinking on the job. soooooo many people drink on the job in the food and beverage industry. most of the people i work with do, and in the past it was the same. i don't because i'm really bad at being sneaky and would just get caught.
if it isn't booze it's something else. lots of different substances fly through restaurants. people don't just develop stress-coping methods over night, and cooking for/serving people is a stressful thing for lots of people (not me, usually.) That being said, i emphasize "so many" and "lots" but i do not mean all. Just as many people get through the work day without a drop to drink or whichever vice you might name. but things like that are a lot easier to gain access to in the food and beverage industry - it's fast paced so a lot of things slip through the cracks while managers are running around being "busy".
(no judgment towards anyone reading this that does any of this - if you work with me, i don't care what you do on the job so long as you actually do your job. when people turn into big sloppy messes, then it's a problem.)
metalpeter - 04/14/13 14:51
As Someone who works hard at my job.... When I see people being lazy or doing what they want not what they are paid for it drives me up a wall... It is very stressful .... In terms of the customers they should understand that you aren't her and should treat you like you and not her! That being said though I'm sure she is drinking before hand :) and Having a lot of fun... Sure she gets lots in tips just hope she isn't doing anything that isn't legal cause that gets everyone in trouble not just her.... That takes me back to a pet peve of mine and I'll leave it at this.. The company pays you to do a Job you agree to do said job at said wage so the company not you (not you personally everyone at a job) comes first... Hopefully what she is doing doesn't cause anyone else any problems....
As Someone who works hard at my job.... When I see people being lazy or doing what they want not what they are paid for it drives me up a wall... It is very stressful .... In terms of the customers they should understand that you aren't her and should treat you like you and not her! That being said though I'm sure she is drinking before hand :) and Having a lot of fun... Sure she gets lots in tips just hope she isn't doing anything that isn't legal cause that gets everyone in trouble not just her.... That takes me back to a pet peve of mine and I'll leave it at this.. The company pays you to do a Job you agree to do said job at said wage so the company not you (not you personally everyone at a job) comes first... Hopefully what she is doing doesn't cause anyone else any problems....
Robert - 04/05/13 04:15
it's so frustrating watching people get away with nonsense at work when you are busy busting your ass.
i always get in trouble for things everyone does.
it's so frustrating watching people get away with nonsense at work when you are busy busting your ass.
i always get in trouble for things everyone does.
03/26/2013 10:07 #57424
popcorn sleepoverzooey has invited the fam and i to a popcorn sleepover... but only grams can sleep on a bed. no one else can go into zooey's room because we won't fit.
also, we are going to dance to music and stay up all night... baby raver?!
just sent out easter goodies for the babies and i got a lil something for mommy and daddy too. i now allocate at least $50 a month on these children. i love giving and receiving gifts and it's fun to be able to buy cute little girl's and baby stuff.
pretty excited about this week. gonna see an old friend i haven't seen in a long ass time and have some other fun stuff planned. i have thursday and friday offf and then work all weekend. normally i get upset about working holidaze but i'll be making the paperz and that always feels good.
words cannot express the amazingness of only having to work. i spent so many years working and going to school and spending tons on gas and go out to eat for most meals because of my hectic schedule. now i spend so little on gas and eat for free at work and rarely have to grocery shop. it's so much less stessful with only a job to worry about.
i've decided that i might stick with serving for a while... people keep quitting at work which is favorable for me because i can pick up all the extra shifts. on a good day, i can make more than i used to in a week at most of my other crap jobs.
when i do leave to search for the right career i have decided i would love to work for a company being an educator, i.e. teaching new policies and procedures or new programs. or, i would like to work for a company that produces educational materials and help develop products or sell for them. i know i can never work a job i am not completely committed to in some aspect.
for now, things have seemed to fall in my favor and it feels good! spring is seriously so beautiful here and i forget how lush and green the sonoran desert can be. i am however, so allergic to all of the damn wildflowers. it's so green right now, the mountains looks like they are covered in grass.
i'll post some photos this week when i hike.
also, we are going to dance to music and stay up all night... baby raver?!
just sent out easter goodies for the babies and i got a lil something for mommy and daddy too. i now allocate at least $50 a month on these children. i love giving and receiving gifts and it's fun to be able to buy cute little girl's and baby stuff.
pretty excited about this week. gonna see an old friend i haven't seen in a long ass time and have some other fun stuff planned. i have thursday and friday offf and then work all weekend. normally i get upset about working holidaze but i'll be making the paperz and that always feels good.
words cannot express the amazingness of only having to work. i spent so many years working and going to school and spending tons on gas and go out to eat for most meals because of my hectic schedule. now i spend so little on gas and eat for free at work and rarely have to grocery shop. it's so much less stessful with only a job to worry about.
i've decided that i might stick with serving for a while... people keep quitting at work which is favorable for me because i can pick up all the extra shifts. on a good day, i can make more than i used to in a week at most of my other crap jobs.
when i do leave to search for the right career i have decided i would love to work for a company being an educator, i.e. teaching new policies and procedures or new programs. or, i would like to work for a company that produces educational materials and help develop products or sell for them. i know i can never work a job i am not completely committed to in some aspect.
for now, things have seemed to fall in my favor and it feels good! spring is seriously so beautiful here and i forget how lush and green the sonoran desert can be. i am however, so allergic to all of the damn wildflowers. it's so green right now, the mountains looks like they are covered in grass.
i'll post some photos this week when i hike.
hodown - 03/26/13 20:26
Paul and Terry are also invited to the sleep over. Sarah and I were invited because we are beautiful and Zozo loves us. I can bring my high heels. Music and dancing all night. Popcorn but only if we stop at the store to get it first. Sounds like a 4 year old rager.
Paul and Terry are also invited to the sleep over. Sarah and I were invited because we are beautiful and Zozo loves us. I can bring my high heels. Music and dancing all night. Popcorn but only if we stop at the store to get it first. Sounds like a 4 year old rager.
lilho - 03/26/13 13:26
I love honey! That's a great idea even if it doesn't work!
I love honey! That's a great idea even if it doesn't work!
Robert - 03/26/13 11:00
if you regularly eat local raw (wildflower) honey, that can lessen your allergic reaction... if that helps, any? Paul reminded me of this just yesterday.
if you regularly eat local raw (wildflower) honey, that can lessen your allergic reaction... if that helps, any? Paul reminded me of this just yesterday.
03/23/2013 15:25 #57416
UpsettingInstagram is basically now just an extension of Facebook which really upsets me considering how much I loathe the FB.
What to do? I really should just make my profile private but I hate when other people do that becuz I love bein a creep.
Mostly I love the photos of anything fashion, nail, makeup related and various random photos as well as mostly any photos of Rihanna.
Dilemma!!!!
What to do? I really should just make my profile private but I hate when other people do that becuz I love bein a creep.
Mostly I love the photos of anything fashion, nail, makeup related and various random photos as well as mostly any photos of Rihanna.
Dilemma!!!!
03/18/2013 11:18 #57386
Lost on the Lost Dog TrailWent hiking yesterday on the "Lost Dog Trail", and lost our way at least 3 times. By the end of it we were by a school, had no water, and were very hungry! I never get lost hiking but trail had some many turns and not the best markers... We were going for a short hike and ended up being out there for 2.5 hrs. At least it was a lovely day and I burned those calories!
I was supposed to go to a spring training game yesterday but my friend had too much homework ad cancelled, so I had my nails done of course and met a friend for some food and drinks. There was this guy at the bar sitting next to us and he was pretty cute and flirting with us, however he was playing with his armpit hair which was odd and gross. His friend also proceeded to make several ignorant comments about small town life and I wanted to punch him.
Then I went home and ate a second dinner which was clearly a bad choice because I am still full and I have no choice but to workout now!
My mom(the wiz) has decided to take a travel job which means I am in charge of her house while she is gone. I don't have to pay rent which is awesome, because I now love to hoard and save monies. However, I am still scared of the dark and we get lots of crazy creatures out here. I will be the master I charge of all upkeep and will have to make sure the pool and landscaping are taken care of... I suppose it will be a good experience since I will likely own a home in the next 5 years...
I was supposed to go to a spring training game yesterday but my friend had too much homework ad cancelled, so I had my nails done of course and met a friend for some food and drinks. There was this guy at the bar sitting next to us and he was pretty cute and flirting with us, however he was playing with his armpit hair which was odd and gross. His friend also proceeded to make several ignorant comments about small town life and I wanted to punch him.
Then I went home and ate a second dinner which was clearly a bad choice because I am still full and I have no choice but to workout now!
My mom(the wiz) has decided to take a travel job which means I am in charge of her house while she is gone. I don't have to pay rent which is awesome, because I now love to hoard and save monies. However, I am still scared of the dark and we get lots of crazy creatures out here. I will be the master I charge of all upkeep and will have to make sure the pool and landscaping are taken care of... I suppose it will be a good experience since I will likely own a home in the next 5 years...
paul - 03/19/13 14:30
Glad you found your way back before the havalinas ate you.
Glad you found your way back before the havalinas ate you.
haha i was wondering about that ethnocentric part! I have no doubt with yo fabulous self that you will find a fabulous partner who will make gorgeous babies with you!
Ethnocentric?! Fuck you Siri.