my sis might not make it back to nyc for a while more, was supposed to flight out tomorrow, but everything is still so backed up. i should make use of this time and put her to work.
she's sitting here typing very loudly, i think she is taking out her aggression on the laptop, but what we really need is some yard work done.
off to the mall and to see narnia... later peaches.
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12/29/2010 10:29 #53348
trapped in az12/24/2010 10:26 #53328
i am a hoarderApparently my room had taken on a life of its own. (E:hodown) has been insisting I downsize and get rid of stuff. Threw out a bunch of makeup the other day and yesterday 12 bags of "stuff" was hauled out of my bedroom.
The "stuff" included:
Every kind of clothing possible
Shoes
Jewelry mostly broken
At least three pairs of sunglasses
A plastic Barbie tiara
At least one fully empty box
Pullups... Wtf? I work with special needs kids... Somehow ended up with their pullups, unused FYI
Many many books
4 bags of trash, 8 bags to goodwill.
How did I accumulate all of this? I had at least 20 pairs of jeans and 20 black tees. I was forced to get rid of quite a bit, but its Xmas and I'm ready to collect and refill my collection of "stuff". Jk... I am over my hoarding ways and shall continue to downsize and simplify my life.
Pics to come...
Merry (e:strip)mas. Hearts.
The "stuff" included:
Every kind of clothing possible
Shoes
Jewelry mostly broken
At least three pairs of sunglasses
A plastic Barbie tiara
At least one fully empty box
Pullups... Wtf? I work with special needs kids... Somehow ended up with their pullups, unused FYI
Many many books
4 bags of trash, 8 bags to goodwill.
How did I accumulate all of this? I had at least 20 pairs of jeans and 20 black tees. I was forced to get rid of quite a bit, but its Xmas and I'm ready to collect and refill my collection of "stuff". Jk... I am over my hoarding ways and shall continue to downsize and simplify my life.
Pics to come...
Merry (e:strip)mas. Hearts.
12/20/2010 12:23 #53306
woohoo!(e:hodown) arrives today! Gotta clean up the house and get fresh!
I really can't wait to just chill with her this week. I feel like its just what I need. My brother and sister and niece and mom are my life... Wish we could all be together, but I will make the best of it.
I want to save up for a big family vaca soon... Maybe a beach house rental!
We are having aunts and uncles over and doing a spa day and eating tons of lobster and Mexican food!!!!
What is everyone else doing?
I really can't wait to just chill with her this week. I feel like its just what I need. My brother and sister and niece and mom are my life... Wish we could all be together, but I will make the best of it.
I want to save up for a big family vaca soon... Maybe a beach house rental!
We are having aunts and uncles over and doing a spa day and eating tons of lobster and Mexican food!!!!
What is everyone else doing?
tinypliny - 12/20/10 22:18
What all do you do on a spa day?
What all do you do on a spa day?
12/18/2010 16:25 #53298
on breakups and heartbreakI noticed (e:hodown)'s post about her breakup and wanted to put my thoughts out there.
I think certain breakups we never actually get over, but more learn to accept the reasons it ended and learn why it didn't work.
Ill always care about some people I dated and even love them in a way, but there comes a point when I realize it wasn't meant to be and I'm ok with that. I can look back and laugh at how upset I was or how I thought I'd never date again or feel happy.
Even now, there's someone I recently dated who I will always have feelings for but there's nothing I can change about the situation... So for now I think pleasantly about the times we had and hope that person is doing well.
As for the crappy breakups that leave you feeling used and worthless, it is true this other person is probably not doing as well as you think. I am a strong believer in karma and making the right decisions and people who treat other fairly are rewarded. My advice for next time is to evaluate the relationship more in the future... Do you want the same things? If not, life is too short to settle so move on.
Dating sucks, especially in the digital age. Americans want too much too soon and nothing is ever good enough. So, I'd like to think if I spend my time doing what is good for me, and things I enjoy... I will eventually meet my penguin and sail off into the sunset. If this doesn't happen, I think I can suck it up and be ok having amazing friends and family...
They also say it takes half as long as you dated to get over a lover... Wait 6 months and spent this time being completely selfish and freeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!
Also, go to Vegas- it is the quintessential single place for being carefree and remembering why it can be truly awesome to be a single lady!
I think certain breakups we never actually get over, but more learn to accept the reasons it ended and learn why it didn't work.
Ill always care about some people I dated and even love them in a way, but there comes a point when I realize it wasn't meant to be and I'm ok with that. I can look back and laugh at how upset I was or how I thought I'd never date again or feel happy.
Even now, there's someone I recently dated who I will always have feelings for but there's nothing I can change about the situation... So for now I think pleasantly about the times we had and hope that person is doing well.
As for the crappy breakups that leave you feeling used and worthless, it is true this other person is probably not doing as well as you think. I am a strong believer in karma and making the right decisions and people who treat other fairly are rewarded. My advice for next time is to evaluate the relationship more in the future... Do you want the same things? If not, life is too short to settle so move on.
Dating sucks, especially in the digital age. Americans want too much too soon and nothing is ever good enough. So, I'd like to think if I spend my time doing what is good for me, and things I enjoy... I will eventually meet my penguin and sail off into the sunset. If this doesn't happen, I think I can suck it up and be ok having amazing friends and family...
They also say it takes half as long as you dated to get over a lover... Wait 6 months and spent this time being completely selfish and freeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!
Also, go to Vegas- it is the quintessential single place for being carefree and remembering why it can be truly awesome to be a single lady!
Seriously, I can't believe that I now own 5 pair of over 2.5" heels from last year's 0 and can dance in some of them! (I am planning to paste suede on some of their soles to make spinning easier...)
Wooohoo GO MINIMALISM! (not counting the enormous number of shoes and trousers and whatnots I seem to be hypocritically accumulating...)
Sorry Clothes alone isn't hoarding.... The Fact is that (more true with women then men) that people go up and down in weight and how thin or non thin they are and boobs change size and shape some in large amounts of weight lose gain and so do ass and the form people take so clothes are good to hold onto. That being said hopefully a lot stuff goes to people who need it..........
NOOO DON'T LEAVE THE HOARDING CLUB!!! It is the coolest club in town, and HOW could you get rid of a plastic barbara tiara. It seems highly useful and necessary.