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03/19/2009 10:57 #48119

cowboys and arrows
Category: potpourri
So we have these Friday programs called "Friday Night Lights" which our CDAs conduct. It's meant to give residents something to do on the weekends on campus. Sometimes they are separated by gender, sometimes (as long as it's outdoors) they host a joint program.

This week's (and I'm of course on duty) is a 'cowboy' theme. Get this. Country music (Oh My Gag), BBQ, dressing up in 'cowboy' clothes (I'm still unsure what this is going to look like), and shooting bow and arrows!

I almost shit myself when I first saw the program proposal. I mean, first, what do bow and arrows have to do with cowboys? More importantly, I don't want to lose an eye! I asked a lot of questions about who will supervise, what type of arrow, etc. etc. I was informed there were appointed instructors and the arrows were blunt tipped wooden style. So I approved it on condition of a strict protocol for safety and if at ANY moment I see someone being a prick, I'm shutting it down.

Today I finally SEE the arrows. They are aluminium and pointy sharp as hell! What have I gotten myself into?

Wish me LOTS of luck!


tinypliny - 03/22/09 14:13
That doesn't sound safe at all. Good luck with it. Shut it down if you can.
metalpeter - 03/19/09 18:27
One of my Highlights at Canisius took place before I went there. They at the time was the only place that had the NYSP Program. If you don't know what that was it was a sports program and you singed up for different ones, doesn't mean you all ways got them. One of them was Archery, I wasn't very good. You might say what the hell does that have to do with this, yeah I should get to that. The way they set it up was with so many targets each target had a line and a quiver on the ground. The people shooting had people behind them. Once every single person (maybe 8 at a time) had shot all the arrows, then some would yell bows down then yell something like to get the arrows. Since all the arrows where shot then no one could get shot by mistake. You went and got the arrows and got any that might miss. I have seen set ups kinda the same place some where else where I didn't shoot. If it is set up right then it should be pretty safe but who knows. I'm guessing the Shooting arrows is like when kids play cowboys and Indians and no one ever wants to be the Indian (hey he losses and gets his land taken everyone wants to be the hero). Besides I'm sure it is safer then giving everyone guns, ha. I feel you on the country Music, but maybe they will play some of the good stuff (lee Ann Rimes, couple Garth Brooks tunes, Johny Cash, Shania Twain). I wish you luck it sounds like things might get a little crazy.

03/18/2009 08:21 #48098

save the date
Category: engaged
Promise, last blurb about engagement and wedding for a while! The date has been finalized.

Mark you calendars for Saturday, October 31st! Yes, it landed on Halloween and I didn't plan that AT ALL. But hey, when you project what would make you most happy, all the universe conspires to make it so!
metalpeter - 03/19/09 18:12
Thanks for info, when you have more details I look forward to hearing them as well.
ladycroft - 03/19/09 04:45
Not crazy questions Metalpeter, very good questions actually! To answer them: yes, we're talking about Oct. 31, 2009 - 7 months from now! No costumes at the wedding ceremony, but folks will be free to wear them for the reception :)
metalpeter - 03/18/09 18:14
Ok I know this sounds like a crazy question but it will be Followed by another crazy question. Some people plan things way out a head of time (years) so is that in 2009? My other question is (sorry I have to ask) Will we wear costumes to the Wedding or will the Costume Party be After the Reception, or will the reception be the costume party? I look forward to when you have them giving us more details. Oh yeah and Congratulations.
tinypliny - 03/18/09 10:58
Are we all invited? :) *nudge nudge*
jason - 03/18/09 09:58
Oh God. I know it's going to be a riot. I'm excited already!!!
rory - 03/18/09 09:57
Oh yes.

Just you WAIT to see what we have lined up. I'm incredibly excited about the whole thing!
jenks - 03/18/09 08:45
this is in the US, right?

03/16/2009 19:32 #48077

thank you!
Category: engaged
Thanks everyone for your congrats! We are super stoked about it! Rather than planning the wedding surrounding some grand idea I've had since childhood (because I don't have one), we're letting the circumstances play out and kind of determine the details.

Thus far, circumstance has told us it's going to be in the US, most likely in Buffalo. It has also told us it's either going to be October 30th or 31st.

Now I know what some of you are thinking. Yes, I love Halloween to bits but I seriously did not select these dates! But I can see having lots of fun with it, fo sho! Keep your calendars free!

I think we'll try to get to the states late summer to take care of 'in person' details. So, I'm sure we'll throw together a nice big bonfire experience and hope you'll all join us for a little engagement celebration :)

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Here's a pic shortly after he asked me. I look weird, but whatever, I was all kinds of crying and shaking and it's hard to take two person self-portraits. At least my long arms come in handy sometimes!

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This was our little 'celebration' at London Heathrow Airport while we were waiting for our flight back to Doha. Seriously, the Virgin Atlantic lounge is freaking amazing there!
leetee - 03/18/09 00:18
Yay! Congrats!!!!!!!!!!!!
theecarey - 03/17/09 18:34
I love Sapphire- naturally! sounds excellent. I have a feeling you would be just as pleased with a twist tie or rubberband ;)

Got your email- thanks for the awesome heads up :)

I'd love for the stars to align for a Halloween time celebration. It would be an awesome extension of the proposal and of course, you. Let's talk soon!

this is too crazy!
jenks - 03/17/09 17:00
ooooh! pretty. Not just a boring old diamond. :)
ladycroft - 03/17/09 06:20
Sorry, can't see the ring just yet as it's still being sized. I'm wearing a temporary. I can tell you what it is though: white gold with an emerald cut sapphire in the middle and a few little (I think they are called baguette?)diamonds that are inside the band on the sides.
libertad - 03/16/09 21:22
I am so happy for you ladycroft! Rory is such a great guy and you definitely deserve to have a great guy for the rest of your life. I hope that you two always are very happy together.
jenks - 03/16/09 20:03
congrats again!! (and--- is there a ring to show us?!)

03/14/2009 20:09 #48056

it's official!!!
Category: engaged
(e:Rory) and I are formally, officially, 100% engaged! We are so happy!

This is how it went down:

He asked me on Friday the 13th in an old graveyard next to the old church in Ingatestone (his hometown). He got down on one knee. I was so overwhelmed with emotion I could hardly speak.

A small group of teenage boys that had just gotten out of school were coming down the path behind us, saw him on bended knee, and started shouting various congratulatory remarks and woohoo's. They passed us as we hung in a tight embrace, savoring the moment.

As we left the graveyard we rounded a corner to the Co-Op and the same boys were standing outside. They lined themselves up by the door and as we walked in started humming/singing "Da dum de dum, da dum de dum". It was very cute.

We just wanted to share our joy with all of you!
boxerboi - 03/16/09 08:54
CONGRATULATIONS!!! That is so awesome. I am really happy for you :o)
jenks - 03/16/09 08:37
Congrats!
jbeatty - 03/15/09 13:32
Congratulations!!! How exciting for both of you.
tinypliny - 03/15/09 12:30
How charming! Thanks for sharing the story! :)
metalpeter - 03/15/09 10:05
Congrats. That is a pretty interesting way to get engaged I have to admit. Not to mention the entire thing with the boys sounds interesting also.
janelle - 03/15/09 07:57
Congrats!
carolinian - 03/15/09 01:39
Congratulations. And also, thank Rory for being the guineapig for graveyard proposals. I at one point considered this, but was worried that the girl in question would find the whole thing a little too creepy (I guess my fears were unfounded).
mrmike - 03/14/09 22:15
Absolutely Awesome!!
paul - 03/14/09 21:54
Congrats. I'm so happy for you.
terry - 03/14/09 21:52
Congratulations!
james - 03/14/09 20:42
That is pretty damn adorable.

Congrats!

03/09/2009 03:31 #47992

target made me smile today
Category: potpourri
Today has been joyful and taxing. We finally finished our 3rd full day of interviewing candidates. It has been great having the opportunity to interview folks for professional position. I've interviewed loads of student staff, but this is different. I guess it was also fun to sit on the other side of the table, knowing they are experiencing the same things I was a few years agao.

Once we were finished and tore down our booth, I took an adventurous little trip to Target. I did my homework online to figure out the bus route. It took about 40 minutes to get out there (only 20 to get back) and it was worth the journey. Of course, it didn't cost a dime to get out there, which is either odd or we did something wrong and cheated the system. I don't quite understand how the buses work here. I know it's free in a certain downtown zone, but we rode way the hell out into the burbs. No matter...I was able to pick up (e:Rory)'s requested jersey sheets and some more pumpkin candles, as well as a few other bits and bobs. I grabbed a few Easter eggs for an activity I'm doing and stocked up my favorite gum. Yay.

I've been having a hard time sorting out a change in my return flight because of the major time difference. So, I began to panic this evening. We found out when (e:Rory)'s grandfather's funeral is, and I am doing whatever I have to do to be there with my amazing future husband and his family.

I talked with my boss and supervisor about the situation and how it's very important to me to be there. They agreed. It means giving up another presentation (I see a trend in my professional development follies) but there is no question in my mind that I should be with (e:Rory) instead of in a room talking about sustainability. My supervisor has graciously agreed to step in for me and that means a lot to me. I am going to miss her when she leaves QF.

tinypliny - 03/15/09 12:31
Sustainability: :::link:::