I had a wonderful time at the party yesterday. Thanks
(e:Paul),
(e:Matthew) and
(e:Terry) for hosting it! It was a very fun way to start a new year. Yes, I missed the ball drop and on hindsight, it was for a very fashionably late reason - I was "building" a proper and fitting thanks to
(e:mike) for his really thoughful handmade card. I think it was completely worth missing the ball drop for. :)
I got to meet and talk to a number of familiar
(e:peeps) I have only known virtually.
(e:leetee),
(e:theli),
(e:Maureen),
(e:iriesara),
(e:ladycroft), Rory (not an official
(e:) yet!) and
(e:lilho), I was delighted to meet you all! Hope to see you all sometime soon - hopefully before this year flies by. I also loved meeting and "gracing-the-staircase" with Malibu! You are awesomely gorgeous and the best part is, I think you know it. :^D
I was thinking back to something
(e:iriesara) said to me yesterday night. I think you were right in saying that there is always time for a nookie, but what if there is no inclination at all? What if, its not just a (really quite non-existent) excuse for lack of time but a total lack of interest in virtually all "available" people I meet? After all, we do know pretty well my rather unhealthy obsession with 70s moustaches and how rare they usually are. ;-) Somehow, I think "nookies" stopped being a priority for me after I turned 22. Associated and complete disinterest in boyfriends followed soon after. It might be hard to comprehend but I really love my uncomplicated, lazy, easy and unfettered single life. I have no one to be guilty for, no one to please, no one to be worried about, no one to fret about, no wasted mindspace of annoyance and no drama. Things are incredibily straightforward and I have no regrets. So don't feel sad for me because I really love it -- nookie-absence and all.
(e:terry), I just emailed
(e:paul). I am including
(e:paul) as an immediate poking associate. Please follow-up if you are interested. Time is fast running out and deadlines are closing as I write this. It's time to make a decision and very soon.
(e:theli), I had fun thinking about the way we communicate and I think you had some excellent points about the evolution of communication. It is surely possible that at some point in the future, the most efficient forms of communication may not necessarily be the ones that immediately stand out as tomes of erudition and deliberation. I was just being reactionary and defending emails against cellphones - mainly because I hate toting a cellphone around.
(e:james), we need some more ghoul talk around here! This is all getting a bit too animated and alive for comfort. Dissenters need to be punished. :)
It's more of a self-hate for lack of goal-achievement (under authority-expectations) than anything else, unfortunately. :(
wait a minute??? when did you develop hate like emotions? i didn't think that was possible? i don't believe it.
The first (cook more interesting stuff) and second (write more thoughts out for better resolution - more general writing) are in the last two posts. :)
Hey (e:tinypliny) I admit I'm a little bit confused, your journal says more Resolutions..... But where are the first ones? My second part of that question is why do you start at #3? On a side note I wonder how long #3 will last my guess is about a week but I could be wrong, HA. I wish you luck with them.
Yay, indifference!
My New Years resolution is to desist from smoking cigars. I only do it a couple of times a year. Usually with (e:Drew) or my father (who purchases high quality cigars). This NYE I had one with my dad and pretty much from the first puff I felt the sinus infection setting in.
No fair.