Ok, I know this is small, mean, and petty of me... but I just got the alumni magazine from my high school, and looking through it, there were pictures of two obnoxious people from the grade below mine who got so fat I did not recognize them, and one guy from my grade who was really mean to my friends and me for years who got fat AND married an ugly woman AND had an ugly baby.
That just made my day. :D
Plus, there were pics of two chubby girls who had slimmed down and looked great. Cheers for them!
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04/21/2008 23:00 #44093
blissCategory: schadenfreude
04/21/2008 17:14 #44086
Dear JbeattyCategory: coercion
You better play a move in our Scrabble game on Facebook soon, or I am so going to force a win.
Just sayin'.
Love,
your sister-in-law
Just sayin'.
Love,
your sister-in-law
jbeatty - 04/21/08 17:27
Sorry scrabble has been the last thing on my mind lately. I will move right now.
Sorry scrabble has been the last thing on my mind lately. I will move right now.
04/16/2008 15:34 #44030
Facebook etiquetteCategory: teh intarweb
I know I have better things to do with my time than to worry about this, but what does one do when someone one really does not like adds one as a friend on Facebook? I mean, I have had people I did not know all that well and was not particularly friendly with add me - but this is the first time I've had someone with whom I was openly hostile add me as a friend.
Seriously, what would motivate this person to want to be back in touch with me, when he was such an asshole to me for so many years? Why would he think I'd want to be back in touch with him?
Seriously, what would motivate this person to want to be back in touch with me, when he was such an asshole to me for so many years? Why would he think I'd want to be back in touch with him?
jenks - 04/16/08 19:22
deny the add.
I refuse to add anyone I don't know. And wouldn't add someone I dislike, either.
I also ignore all app/survey/quiz/etc requests. (so no offense friends- nothing personal.) But it's stupid that you have to add the dumb application to your page just to find out the answers to silly quizzes. No thanks.
here's a more complex facebook etiquette question- what does one do when one's boyfriend changes his 'status' to single, and his 'looking for' to 'relationship', and when called out says "oops sorry i was drunk and vindictive, didn't mean it, sorry"- but then doesn't change it back?
Makes me wanna change my own. Maybe that's the modern way of breaking up?
deny the add.
I refuse to add anyone I don't know. And wouldn't add someone I dislike, either.
I also ignore all app/survey/quiz/etc requests. (so no offense friends- nothing personal.) But it's stupid that you have to add the dumb application to your page just to find out the answers to silly quizzes. No thanks.
here's a more complex facebook etiquette question- what does one do when one's boyfriend changes his 'status' to single, and his 'looking for' to 'relationship', and when called out says "oops sorry i was drunk and vindictive, didn't mean it, sorry"- but then doesn't change it back?
Makes me wanna change my own. Maybe that's the modern way of breaking up?
ajay - 04/16/08 19:20
I accept on 'friend' requests from hot chicks, and ignore all others (no offense, guys! :D ).
Just ignore him.
I accept on 'friend' requests from hot chicks, and ignore all others (no offense, guys! :D ).
Just ignore him.
james - 04/16/08 15:54
They could be holding out an olive branch.
They could be looking for an easy way to unload some guilt for a past transgression perhaps?
But you are under no obligation to add them. Zombie Emily Post agrees.
They could be holding out an olive branch.
They could be looking for an easy way to unload some guilt for a past transgression perhaps?
But you are under no obligation to add them. Zombie Emily Post agrees.
04/11/2008 18:38 #43983
long time, no post...Category: miscellany
So. Been a while since I posted here. Things have been pretty busy. I really feel like my life is just starting to get back on track after several months of disruption.
Anyway, for those of you who care, things are ok. My roller derby league had its first public bouts this past weekend. We won our first two bouts and apparently scared the other teams so much that they forfeited the next two.* We had to scrimmage amongst ourselves to fill the rest of the time. It was a bizarre occurrence. I do hope our next interleague bouts go more smoothly.
In fake hockey news, I came in 5th in my fantasy hockey league this year. I was really hoping for 3rd. I blame Miikka Kiprusoff. (e:jbeatty) was fighting for dead last, last time I looked, and (e:john) came in first. I'm already strategizing for next year...
In real hockey news, I'm pretty excited that Jacques Martin has been fired as the Panthers' coach: I know I said a long time ago that I hate the Panthers, but since they're my home team now and I see them play all the time, they've won me over a bit. That David Booth kid is really awesome, and if they can nab a few more players like him, and trim some of the players that suck, the Panthers can be a decent team. They just need to stop being okay with losing. I can't tell you how many times I've seen them play, and it's just been like they either gave up halfway through, or weren't that into it to begin with. Or like, half of them would be playing their hearts out, and the other half would be like, "eh, whatever." With any luck, a new coach will help with this attitude problem.
I only kinda care about the playoffs. Like, none of my teams are in this year, so it's sort of like, eh, ok. It'll be interesting to see who gets to the final, but until then, I've got other things to occupy my time. Side note: does anybody else read (e:anne) 's hockey blog? It makes me giggle a lot.
So some of you saw Kimya Dawson recently? She was here a couple weeks ago. Here are a couple pics for you:
Her show was a benefit for this organization in Miami: It was in a boat house, which was open on one side, on one of the coldest and windiest nights I've experienced since moving here. It was only about 50-some degrees, but with wind chill, and no jacket or sweatshirt or anything? That feels pretty damn cold. I thought the show was going to be in an enclosed space, otherwise I never would have forgotten to bring a sweatshirt and not thought it would be a big deal.
I picked up the mix CD of old ska/rocksteady that Angelo Spencer (Kimya's baby-daddy) was selling at the merch table. Aside from the crappiness of the burned CD (and it is the CD itself skipping, not the record that was transferred to CD), I love it - the music is great!
Well. I guess that's all I've got to say for now. I'll try to swing by here more often, now that things have settled down a bit in my life.
Anyway, for those of you who care, things are ok. My roller derby league had its first public bouts this past weekend. We won our first two bouts and apparently scared the other teams so much that they forfeited the next two.* We had to scrimmage amongst ourselves to fill the rest of the time. It was a bizarre occurrence. I do hope our next interleague bouts go more smoothly.
- Please note, when I say "we," I merely mean that I am on the team - coach did not put me in at all during the first two bouts, so I never got to skate against anyone that was not in my league.
In fake hockey news, I came in 5th in my fantasy hockey league this year. I was really hoping for 3rd. I blame Miikka Kiprusoff. (e:jbeatty) was fighting for dead last, last time I looked, and (e:john) came in first. I'm already strategizing for next year...
In real hockey news, I'm pretty excited that Jacques Martin has been fired as the Panthers' coach: I know I said a long time ago that I hate the Panthers, but since they're my home team now and I see them play all the time, they've won me over a bit. That David Booth kid is really awesome, and if they can nab a few more players like him, and trim some of the players that suck, the Panthers can be a decent team. They just need to stop being okay with losing. I can't tell you how many times I've seen them play, and it's just been like they either gave up halfway through, or weren't that into it to begin with. Or like, half of them would be playing their hearts out, and the other half would be like, "eh, whatever." With any luck, a new coach will help with this attitude problem.
I only kinda care about the playoffs. Like, none of my teams are in this year, so it's sort of like, eh, ok. It'll be interesting to see who gets to the final, but until then, I've got other things to occupy my time. Side note: does anybody else read (e:anne) 's hockey blog? It makes me giggle a lot.
So some of you saw Kimya Dawson recently? She was here a couple weeks ago. Here are a couple pics for you:
Her show was a benefit for this organization in Miami: It was in a boat house, which was open on one side, on one of the coldest and windiest nights I've experienced since moving here. It was only about 50-some degrees, but with wind chill, and no jacket or sweatshirt or anything? That feels pretty damn cold. I thought the show was going to be in an enclosed space, otherwise I never would have forgotten to bring a sweatshirt and not thought it would be a big deal.
I picked up the mix CD of old ska/rocksteady that Angelo Spencer (Kimya's baby-daddy) was selling at the merch table. Aside from the crappiness of the burned CD (and it is the CD itself skipping, not the record that was transferred to CD), I love it - the music is great!
Well. I guess that's all I've got to say for now. I'll try to swing by here more often, now that things have settled down a bit in my life.
dragonlady7 - 04/15/08 19:40
Heh, our league has only ever scrimmaged among ourselves-- but we take it pretty damn seriously at this point. We have a league trophy and everything.
But then, I hear Florida has like four hundred derby leagues, so you probably have a few more options than we do... :::link:::
Our team this year has a roster of 20 and we can only skate 14 in each bout, so it's really rough on our bench manager, whose job it is to tell us who's sitting out. (We actually had to skate short our last bout-- six girls sitting in the audience watching, and then we had a blocker go out in the first period with a dislocated patella. Very disappointing, but at least she'd been able to skate in a previous bout, so she didn't miss her only chance.)
We're trying to make sure everyone gets to skate this season-- I bowed out of one bout with my fucked-up knees (which are much better now, hurray), but we really don't want to let unprepared girls skate, or bench really good dedicated players in favor of someone whose "turn" it is. So far there's only one girl left who hasn't been played yet, and she's just had a run of injuries, poor health, and terrible luck: I hope she can get squared away by May 31st, because that's our last bout of the season.
Fortunately the rest of us have felt it to be a healthy competitive motivation-- I know I've improved a great deal simply because unlike last season, we weren't short so I wasn't the last resort. Just knowing that my hard work mattered, and that I had been chosen instead of resorted to, really has made a big difference to me.
Heh, our league has only ever scrimmaged among ourselves-- but we take it pretty damn seriously at this point. We have a league trophy and everything.
But then, I hear Florida has like four hundred derby leagues, so you probably have a few more options than we do... :::link:::
Our team this year has a roster of 20 and we can only skate 14 in each bout, so it's really rough on our bench manager, whose job it is to tell us who's sitting out. (We actually had to skate short our last bout-- six girls sitting in the audience watching, and then we had a blocker go out in the first period with a dislocated patella. Very disappointing, but at least she'd been able to skate in a previous bout, so she didn't miss her only chance.)
We're trying to make sure everyone gets to skate this season-- I bowed out of one bout with my fucked-up knees (which are much better now, hurray), but we really don't want to let unprepared girls skate, or bench really good dedicated players in favor of someone whose "turn" it is. So far there's only one girl left who hasn't been played yet, and she's just had a run of injuries, poor health, and terrible luck: I hope she can get squared away by May 31st, because that's our last bout of the season.
Fortunately the rest of us have felt it to be a healthy competitive motivation-- I know I've improved a great deal simply because unlike last season, we weren't short so I wasn't the last resort. Just knowing that my hard work mattered, and that I had been chosen instead of resorted to, really has made a big difference to me.
lizabeth - 04/14/08 00:04
Thanks for the welcome back! :)
And yeah, I love Kimya Dawson's songs a lot, but I would not describe her show as "fun" - not that I regret going to see her, but now that I've done it, I don't feel the need to do it ever again. That could just be because I was so cold during the show that I couldn't wait for it to end.
Honestly, of course I'd go see her again if she played wherever I was, if for no other reason than to support her and her adorable child and her charmingly French baby-daddy. But I'd know what I was in for. I'd bring my knitting or something.
Thanks for the welcome back! :)
And yeah, I love Kimya Dawson's songs a lot, but I would not describe her show as "fun" - not that I regret going to see her, but now that I've done it, I don't feel the need to do it ever again. That could just be because I was so cold during the show that I couldn't wait for it to end.
Honestly, of course I'd go see her again if she played wherever I was, if for no other reason than to support her and her adorable child and her charmingly French baby-daddy. But I'd know what I was in for. I'd bring my knitting or something.
museumchick - 04/12/08 20:17
It's really nice having a post from you on here. I haven't heard a lot of Kimya Dawson, but from what I have heard, I think I kind of like. She definitely sounds like she might a fun live singer.
It's really nice having a post from you on here. I haven't heard a lot of Kimya Dawson, but from what I have heard, I think I kind of like. She definitely sounds like she might a fun live singer.
11/22/2007 14:32 #42237
T-giving in the B'loCategory: miscellany
Hey peeps, happy Thanksgiving from Casa de (e:jbeatty)! I think this may be the first estrip post I've actually made from Buffalo.
As some of you have already heard, my mom had a stroke recently, so I was home in VA until yesterday. Mom is expected to make a full recovery, though, since she got to a hospital right away, and the stroke doesn't seem to have affected her mentally much, if at all. She still has limited movement on her left side, but she's improving a lot every day. There's not much I can do for her while she is still in her inpatient rehab program, so we've continued on our planned T-giving trip to visit jbeatty in this fine city (I'll be heading back to FL on Sunday, then back to VA in a week or so).
We are eating and drinking ourselves into a food coma. I think (e:john) is in charge of blogging all the food porn pics we're taking today. He's planning on starting that in a minute, I think, so keep an eye on his blog.
Well. It was snowing a minute ago, and I was so excited. John was telling everyone in FL that we were going to visit the snow for Thanksgiving, and there is entirely not enough snow here yet. I know it's supposed to snow a lot tomorrow, tho', but we are driving to Syracuse then, so I hope the Thruway doesn't get too bad.
Ok, jbeatty wants his laptop back, so I have to go. Have a great Thanksgiving, everyone!
As some of you have already heard, my mom had a stroke recently, so I was home in VA until yesterday. Mom is expected to make a full recovery, though, since she got to a hospital right away, and the stroke doesn't seem to have affected her mentally much, if at all. She still has limited movement on her left side, but she's improving a lot every day. There's not much I can do for her while she is still in her inpatient rehab program, so we've continued on our planned T-giving trip to visit jbeatty in this fine city (I'll be heading back to FL on Sunday, then back to VA in a week or so).
We are eating and drinking ourselves into a food coma. I think (e:john) is in charge of blogging all the food porn pics we're taking today. He's planning on starting that in a minute, I think, so keep an eye on his blog.
Well. It was snowing a minute ago, and I was so excited. John was telling everyone in FL that we were going to visit the snow for Thanksgiving, and there is entirely not enough snow here yet. I know it's supposed to snow a lot tomorrow, tho', but we are driving to Syracuse then, so I hope the Thruway doesn't get too bad.
Ok, jbeatty wants his laptop back, so I have to go. Have a great Thanksgiving, everyone!
not small, mean or petty at all!