Had a great weekend. I took match.com girl to the Queen City roller derby and she thought it was really cool and I got major brownie points (by the way, nice performance, dragonlady7). Things went really well on the date, especially after she came back to my place and we had several beers. I don't know where this is going, but it sure is nice to be able to snuggle next to someone in the morning.
(uncutsaniflush, last night the text of my journal was not showing up and I didn't know why. I had thought that putting the word "Date" in the title might have been some specially reserved estrip word that was messing up the parsing of something or other, so I changed the title to some silly name like wangdangdoodle that I knew would never be a specially reserved word to test things, but forgot to change the title back. It turns out the problem was actually was the e plus colon plus dragonlady7 in the text that caused the entry not be appearing, which is why you don't see dragonlady7 in standard estrip username notation).
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05/20/2007 22:06 #39357
Great DateCategory: love
05/16/2007 22:41 #39311
Joyriding Down RichmondCategory: love
Talked with match.com girl again tonight via phone. She does have a cute voice and her laugh reminds me of the laugh that a really awesome ex-girlfriend from my Ithaca days had. One of those "that's so stupid but I'm going to laugh anyways" kind of laughs. She was open to the idea of seeing roller derby this saturday, so most likely we'll be going there saturday after dinner somewhere (I know that the knockouts aren't skating, but I wonder if (e:zobar) and (e:dragonlady7) will be there?) I have absolutely no idea where this thing with the girl is going. I must remember--no eggs in one basket, at least not until after I've made the flan (which reminds me, I really should literally make flan sometime soon). She does like whiskey and mythbusters, so she can't be all bad.
On a different note, it's kinda funny, living on Richmond. It's really like an urban jungle. Which is not to say that it isn't a nice place to live, but it resemebles the kind of jungle you see in the movies where everything is quiet at night and then all of a suddenly the random, loud howling of a monkey disturbs the tranquility. Except on Richmond, it usually isn't howler monkeys but emergency vehicles, esp. police cars; it'll be 4:00AM and all of a sudden I'll hear "whoop-beep-squalk-whoop-beep-whoop". Of course, tonight there are real live monkey's, howling and disturbing the peace and playing with their own feces, except these monkeys have blue fur with yellow streaks. In another month or two, one way or the other, my jungle will be back to the way I like it.
On a different note, it's kinda funny, living on Richmond. It's really like an urban jungle. Which is not to say that it isn't a nice place to live, but it resemebles the kind of jungle you see in the movies where everything is quiet at night and then all of a suddenly the random, loud howling of a monkey disturbs the tranquility. Except on Richmond, it usually isn't howler monkeys but emergency vehicles, esp. police cars; it'll be 4:00AM and all of a sudden I'll hear "whoop-beep-squalk-whoop-beep-whoop". Of course, tonight there are real live monkey's, howling and disturbing the peace and playing with their own feces, except these monkeys have blue fur with yellow streaks. In another month or two, one way or the other, my jungle will be back to the way I like it.
carolinian - 05/21/07 09:15
1994-1998, when I went to Ithaca College as a Television-Production major. I'd like to go back to the Nines again.
1994-1998, when I went to Ithaca College as a Television-Production major. I'd like to go back to the Nines again.
ingrid - 05/21/07 00:33
when did you live in Ithaca? I did too...I loved it there :)
when did you live in Ithaca? I did too...I loved it there :)
museumchick - 05/17/07 08:43
That's really awesome about the match.com girl. I hope you guys will have a good time at the roller derby.
That's really awesome about the match.com girl. I hope you guys will have a good time at the roller derby.
vincent - 05/17/07 02:32
Congrats on the recent sucessful momentum! If I ever get a bit of initiative I should re-open a match account!
Keep it up whatever you're doing.
Congrats on the recent sucessful momentum! If I ever get a bit of initiative I should re-open a match account!
Keep it up whatever you're doing.
05/16/2007 05:32 #39302
URN-8 DriveCategory: humor
While I can find many things funny, I rarely laugh very hard, and the few times I do it's usually at stuff other people don't find funny. I was researching stuff about usb flash drives when I came across this
I laughed at this for damn near two minutes. I think it was the imagery of the coffee table that did it.
I laughed at this for damn near two minutes. I think it was the imagery of the coffee table that did it.
05/13/2007 23:19 #39265
Fanciful IdeasCategory: art
It's finally on the market. My most favorite piece of art. It's actually going for a lot less than I thought it would.
If it wasn't for the fact that I've been searching for a cheap poster version for years, it probably wouldn't be my most favorite piece of art, though it might be a close second to Raphael's School of Athens.
Possible scenarios:
1. I somehow spend all the money I was going to spend buying a laptop on this piece of art. I laugh in the face of necessary professional expenses, (cue maniacal laughter) mu-ha-ha-ha-ha.
1a) #1, plus I find somewhere that scans ultra-high res versions of it and distribute it on the Internet via Bittorrent. Rare art that's in the public domain that might never receive attention due to poster companies not seeing a market for it should be made available to the public. Make up some bullshit story about "it's an investment and probably safer than mutual funds" to tell to friends and family who think that I've finally gone completely bonkers.
1b) #1a, but I don't have the facilities in my sweltering/freezing apartment to preserve it well, so I buy it and loan it to Albright knox where they can safely store it. I can always visit it to see the real thing.
1c) 1a for my own personal copy, but completely donate to Albright Knox, and find some way to write the $3000 off on my taxes, so I end up spending nothing as a net result and get an ultra-high quality scan for myself and anyone else who wants it.
2. Realize that at this point in my life, I'm really not professionally and financially accomplished enough yet to be buying expensive and rare works of art instead of buying things I need to buy to do my job well. End up being responsible and buying the laptop I need for work.
If it wasn't for the fact that I've been searching for a cheap poster version for years, it probably wouldn't be my most favorite piece of art, though it might be a close second to Raphael's School of Athens.
Possible scenarios:
1. I somehow spend all the money I was going to spend buying a laptop on this piece of art. I laugh in the face of necessary professional expenses, (cue maniacal laughter) mu-ha-ha-ha-ha.
1a) #1, plus I find somewhere that scans ultra-high res versions of it and distribute it on the Internet via Bittorrent. Rare art that's in the public domain that might never receive attention due to poster companies not seeing a market for it should be made available to the public. Make up some bullshit story about "it's an investment and probably safer than mutual funds" to tell to friends and family who think that I've finally gone completely bonkers.
1b) #1a, but I don't have the facilities in my sweltering/freezing apartment to preserve it well, so I buy it and loan it to Albright knox where they can safely store it. I can always visit it to see the real thing.
1c) 1a for my own personal copy, but completely donate to Albright Knox, and find some way to write the $3000 off on my taxes, so I end up spending nothing as a net result and get an ultra-high quality scan for myself and anyone else who wants it.
2. Realize that at this point in my life, I'm really not professionally and financially accomplished enough yet to be buying expensive and rare works of art instead of buying things I need to buy to do my job well. End up being responsible and buying the laptop I need for work.
lizabeth - 05/15/07 16:39
Oooh, but but but.... ART! Only $3000-some dollars!!! OMG, I'd totally have gone for the art. Donating it would be awesome, too.
I would offer, in all seriousness, to split the cost with you... but since I just had to put $1400 into my car, and just had to have her towed to the shop again today... :(
I promise I'll keep an eye out for a reproduction of that piece for you, tho'. :)
Oooh, but but but.... ART! Only $3000-some dollars!!! OMG, I'd totally have gone for the art. Donating it would be awesome, too.
I would offer, in all seriousness, to split the cost with you... but since I just had to put $1400 into my car, and just had to have her towed to the shop again today... :(
I promise I'll keep an eye out for a reproduction of that piece for you, tho'. :)
twisted - 05/13/07 23:34
Wow, one of my wall murals :::link::: (3rd one down) is a total take off of that print. Who knew?
Wow, one of my wall murals :::link::: (3rd one down) is a total take off of that print. Who knew?
05/08/2007 04:36 #39203
HeroesCategory: television
Last night's episode of Heroes was the most disturbing ever.
Not because of the main plotline itself, but the portrayal of Syler's mother and her relationship with Syler. It so uncannily parallels my own experiences with neurotic and overly-controlling jewish mothers who are out of touch with reality. To the point of being frightening.
The whole not-listening-to-you, telling-you-what-you-want, the lack of understanding of challenges required in obtaining a profession and the overestimating of the usefulness of barely useful or reliable professional contacts. The overwhelming feeling that their trying to "help" or "protect" is really more for their psychological benefit than that of their child and the reality they are doing a better job of hindering and making more vulnerable than helping or protecting. And then there's the violent (only verbally, in my case, thank heavens) reaction when they find out you aren't really who they were telling you who you were. And the sad feeling you experience of "why can't you just understand that I need to do what I need to do and accept that?" (the profession part, not the killing people part).
I've experienced that kind of stuff first-hand. And boy, does it suck.
Not because of the main plotline itself, but the portrayal of Syler's mother and her relationship with Syler. It so uncannily parallels my own experiences with neurotic and overly-controlling jewish mothers who are out of touch with reality. To the point of being frightening.
The whole not-listening-to-you, telling-you-what-you-want, the lack of understanding of challenges required in obtaining a profession and the overestimating of the usefulness of barely useful or reliable professional contacts. The overwhelming feeling that their trying to "help" or "protect" is really more for their psychological benefit than that of their child and the reality they are doing a better job of hindering and making more vulnerable than helping or protecting. And then there's the violent (only verbally, in my case, thank heavens) reaction when they find out you aren't really who they were telling you who you were. And the sad feeling you experience of "why can't you just understand that I need to do what I need to do and accept that?" (the profession part, not the killing people part).
I've experienced that kind of stuff first-hand. And boy, does it suck.
metalpeter - 05/08/07 16:58
Heroes is an awesome show i burned it on disk last night but haven't seen it yet. That being said don't feel that you are all alone in the Jewish Mother thing. I can't say all of them but a lot of Italian mothers are the same way. If I'm understanding you correctly another example of a show getting it correctly would be the Soprano's and what Tony went through with his mom. I guess once I watch that episode i will understand exactly what you are talking about.
Heroes is an awesome show i burned it on disk last night but haven't seen it yet. That being said don't feel that you are all alone in the Jewish Mother thing. I can't say all of them but a lot of Italian mothers are the same way. If I'm understanding you correctly another example of a show getting it correctly would be the Soprano's and what Tony went through with his mom. I guess once I watch that episode i will understand exactly what you are talking about.
museumchick - 05/08/07 15:36
I definitely can relate. I don't think my mom is like that, but I've met a lot of Jewish mothers who are. (I've met a lot of Jewish fathers who are, too).
I definitely can relate. I don't think my mom is like that, but I've met a lot of Jewish mothers who are. (I've met a lot of Jewish fathers who are, too).
carolinian - 05/08/07 09:20
True, it's universal, but they just nailed the cultural context so perfectly.
True, it's universal, but they just nailed the cultural context so perfectly.
leetee - 05/08/07 09:07
I dunno about the Jewish mom thing, but i did go to a public highschool with a large jewish population and i heard the same kinda thing amongst my friends there.
But i think that the problem is universal. My parents thought they knew who i should be and acted accordingly. The fact that it wasn't me didn't really factor in, or seem to register much.
Of course, knowing that there might be many others doesn't make it any less easier to deal with...
I dunno about the Jewish mom thing, but i did go to a public highschool with a large jewish population and i heard the same kinda thing amongst my friends there.
But i think that the problem is universal. My parents thought they knew who i should be and acted accordingly. The fact that it wasn't me didn't really factor in, or seem to register much.
Of course, knowing that there might be many others doesn't make it any less easier to deal with...
That's so great about you and the match girl. I hope it keeps going well:).
congrats, and good luck... No one should ever listen to my dating advice, ever, but I'd recommend just trying to relax and enjoy it and not overanalyze...
Well done!
golly (which is the new goshers) made much more sense when this journal consisted only of the subject line "Great Date"
Sometimes I can be such a putz. More serious, I'm glad that you two had a good time together.
Great Post!!