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(e:jenks,39076) reminded me of something I had thought up a few years back.
Pop psychologist Dr. John Gray wrote a book called "Men are from Mars, women are from Venus". I've found a more fitting analogy.
Women all tell you they want to date Luke Skywalker, when in fact the person they really want to hook up with Han Solo, though they usually end up dating Darth Vader.
And there you have it, 99% of all modern romance explained by Star Wars.
In other words, there's what women say and there's what women do/mean, and what women and what they do/mean are actually two very different kinds of beasts. I think that my life would have been so much easier if at the beginning of high school someone had told me that despite what all the girls were saying, being Luke Skywalker was an absolutely terrible idea.
Which one of those was Harrison Ford? Yeah, shows how much I know about StarWars, but I definately see what you mean. It wouldn't have made your life any easier growing up- i dont think because the sweetheart always wins in the end. DragonLady is right Girl AND Guys need to really know what they need instead of wanting what looks pretty.
You're so right, but don't forget that it turns both ways.
Guys say they want a fun girl, but they always pursue a hot flashy girl, when really, what they need is a nice girl with a decent sense of humor.
It's not that anyone's lying, but that they just really don't understand themselves, or see others clearly.
All that aside, your analogy is hilarious.
Vader is so much cooler then luke. But in the end he finaly becomes nice as he choses to die and gets rid of the emporer. Of course up to that point is so powefull and evil. But I do think that You make a good point that what someone says they want and what they really want are often are two differant things. Or maybe you are saying that what they go after isn't the same thing that they want. I'm not just attacking the girls here some of us guys goes after the wrong thing to. Not that I go clubing but the Thonged out Laguna Beach kinda girls on Chip. Strip are a great example of that. I'm not saying that they don't have substance but when going to the meat market that has no barring. Or maybe I just don't know what the fuck I'm talking about also.
it is never too late to turn to the darkside.