Before I get into my post just wanted to Mention the Bandits play friday night and I'm looking forward to seeing The Sabres on TV in the playoffs hope they win the cup. The Bandits will be in the playoffs starting next weekend and they have a game Saturday in Rochester.
So as some of you may have read
(e:imk2) wrote a post about what she wants called what I want. So I thought hey maybe I could write one two. But there are a couple things to get out of the way. In a way this post is bullshit. The reason being is that you can have this entire laundry list of things but what really matters is how the two people get along and how the relationship is. The thing is that all that takes over the preferences. So maybe I want someone who likes hockey but then i meet someone who isn't really into Hockey she just thinks the guys are hot gets turned on then blow me and go to bed that would be perfect, so I admit the post kinda makes no sense. Yeah I have a weakness for blonds but some girls look better with brown hair but I just had to give full disclosure On what I was saying. Oh yeah I may use some
(e:peeps) as examples hopefully only good ones not sure how this will come out.
First of all a good sense of humor is very important. People who are wound tight or easily offended are really no fun. You have to watch what you say so what is the point. I don't mean that you have to laugh till you piss yourself watching a comedy, but at least be a little lose.
In terms of going out the lady has to like going out to movies, concerts or even sports. That doesn't mean that we have to go to everything togather she should be able to go out and do stuff on her own to. But she also can't be one of those people who has to go out every night. I guess if she can go by herself or with friends that is ok but not if she expects me there. If she is willing to go on a trip somewhere that is a nice added bonus.
In terms of sports I would prefer that she likes them. At the very least she must understand that I'm Into them and that is an important time for me. Preferably she is into them also and hopefully we are into the same ones.
If we like the same music it doesn't really matter. But when we go out it will wind up mattering. Cause if she is a club dance girl and I'm into Rock and there is no in between then we will never see each other. I like rock, metal, Pop, but for me it is more about the band and there sound then the Genre they are in. It would be cool to find a chick who likes Coldplay, Metallica, Rammstein, Billy Joel, Hatebreed, Evenesssance, Rob Zombie, Sum 41, Blink 182 and other bands.
In terms of chick flicks most of them are god awful and most of them I can't stand but a few are funny. I would just be happy if the girl just went to see them with the girl friends and leave me out of. But she has to be able to get into a good stupid Naked Gun, American Pie, or even Not another teen movie kind of movie. The exception to that is if she is into anime or action movies then we are good. If she is into both then we are golden and if she hates chick flicks and wants to see an action movie then go to a Bandits game, it is time to go buy an awesome looking ring with her name inscribed in Klingon.
I like good talkers who can hold a conversation with out being bitchy. It is nice to be around someone who is happy and cheery. But the key is they really have to be this way and not putting on an act. They also have to be able to let me know when something is wrong or they disagree. Sometimes those types of people won't do that and they should.
I know I shouldn't talk about looks but i will a little bit. Looks wise all you need is someone who you find hot or at least not repugnant. But often looks is what gets you to notice people. So here I will use a few peeps as examples. Eyes at first you don't notice and a lot of times you don't notice them and looking at them to long can drive you crazy. That being said alluring eyes and eyes that look mystyrious like
(e:theecarey) are very nice. I wish I knew how to say that better. Sorry to stereo type here but those long and thing looking Asian and egyption (i believe) eyes are also amazing. Hair color and Body type really depends on the person and how they look. As long as they aren't so big that is a turn off or so thing that you can see ribs from 20 feet away. I prefer someone in the middle, height I could care less. Boobs I have never seen a pair I didn't like. I know this sounds strange but sometime shape is more important then size. Butt as long as it looks nice in pants that is fine. Skin Color isn't much of a factor really. Some pale white girls are very hot and some dark girls are hot. That being said recently I have been liking the dark whites or latin skin tone. For example the skin tone of say
(e:lilho) ,
(e:ingrid) (if memory serve me right)
(e:beast). That light brown kinda dark white color.
In terms of sex (if any one is still reading) I want a lady who knows what she is doing but doesn't come off as sluty, what ever that means. Where the sex is about fun and not an obligation, where we can try new things and old things and be free and not worry if we mention something the other isn't into it doesn't get all weird. Hey if she wants to bring in a cute friend we can try it and see. Not that Um no, I don't think so attitude. That is kinda the same type of person I would like to be with the person who is open minded but may not agree about something but we are still able to get along.
Oh yeah I knew I forgot to mention another thing there are a few
(e:peeps) like
(e:ladycroft) and
(e:Imk2) (and others who I can't think of right now). I think tats and piercings are a nice added bonus and can be very hot. It also says that they are willing to go through pain and sacrafice for something and that is a good quality.
Now that I have vented I feel a little better. If you have read this far I really don't want that much, do I ? Yeah I know I want way to much. In case I wasn't clear: I just want someone who I click with or have that spark with that I can Watch 24 with and go out with to a movie, concert or a sports event and we will have a great time. And if we can have great sex to and get along then that would be perfect.
I sooo wanted to see that show. Leave it to me to be an idiot and forget that it was happening.