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07/24/2011 11:08 #54774

We Are all Voyeurs ?
Category: philosophy
I'm going to have to Articles to share and then have stuff to write after that about why I think everyone is a voyeur in some way. Now I'm not saying that we all want to watch those pretty girls through the blinds but.......

Buffalo News Story about The Falls and Gay Marriage ..


Updated: July 24, 2011, 9:00 AM

NIAGARA FALLS -- At the very moment the state extended the right to marry to same-sex couples, Kitty Lambert and Cheryle Rudd -- surrounded by hundreds of friends and well-wishers in a historic ceremony against the backdrop of the rainbow-lit Falls -- said, "I do."

In doing so, the Buffalo couple claim to be the first gay New Yorkers to legally wed.

And with that groundbreaking celebration, many wedding planners and tourism officials in Niagara Falls are envisioning a new booming business.

They want to turn the down-and-out city back into the Wedding and Honeymoon Capital it once was.

"For all people," said John Percy, president and chief executive of the Niagara Tourism & Convention Corp. "Not just gay. People have been saying, 'You're going to be the great wedding destination.' We can be for all people."

Percy is keenly aware of the Falls' potential to be a "top gay-wedding destination."

Others agree.

"I just think it's a brilliant way of kind of rebranding Niagara Falls again as a honeymoon destination," said Michael DiCamillo of DiCamillo Bakery, which makes wedding cakes. "It's gotten lost in neglect; it's gotten lost in casinos and other things."

The city became a hub of activity for same-sex couples as anticipation grew for the Marriage Equality Act, which Gov. Andrew M. Cuomo signed into law a month ago.

Lambert and Rudd timed their well-publicized wedding to begin as soon as the law went into effect at 12:01 this morning, but they aren't the only couples who are eager to wed.

Percy's agency has spearheaded planning for a group same-sex wedding at 10 a.m. Monday, when more than 40 gay and lesbian couples plan to tie the knot in a joint ceremony on a bluff overlooking the American and Bridal Veil falls.

It's expected to be the first ceremony of its kind in the state. Another is planned for noon Tuesday in Bethpage State Park on Long Island.

Dozens more same-sex weddings are believed to be in the works, with church secretaries and private wedding chapel planners in the Falls fielding dozens of calls in recent weeks from gay couples who want to get hitched.

Thirty-four same-sex couples had applied for marriage licenses as of Friday, according to Falls City Clerk Carol A. Antonucci.

Antonucci's office made arrangements to be open at 6 a.m. today to accommodate couples seeking licenses, which usually require a 24-hour waiting period, so that they can get married Monday morning in the group ceremony.

Other town and village clerks throughout the state also plan to be open today to issue licenses.

Buffalo City Clerk Gerald Chwalinski reported he had received 10 inquiries for licenses as of Friday.

Also, two judges in the Falls and two in Buffalo have agreed to consider waiving the 24-hour waiting rule between the time a marriage license is issued and a wedding may take place.

Among those who just couldn't wait to get married were Lambert and Rudd, who had their waiting rule waived by a State Supreme Court justice.

The couple began receiving guests early Saturday evening for two ceremonies: one religious, scheduled for

11 p.m., and the other civil, at 12:01 a.m. today.

The religious ceremony was to be overseen by clergy from three different faiths -- Baptist, Jewish and Episcopalian -- to highlight the various denominations that supported gay-marriage rights.

"At this exact moment in time, New Yorkers still stand without any protection," Lambert told reporters on Goat Island before the ceremonies. "But when that bell tolls for us at midnight tonight, and a new day dawns, literally a new day will dawn in New York."

As a wedding gift to the couple, Niagara Falls Mayor Paul A. Dyster, who was to oversee the civil ceremony, personally paid for the Falls to be lit after midnight with the colors of the rainbow.

The event, open to the public, was expected to draw hundreds, and most guests were dressed for a typical outdoor summer wedding.

A small group of reporters was on hand, and elected officials who support same-sex marriage were expected to arrive later in the evening. No protesters were seen as of 8:30 p.m.

Tourism officials are hoping Lambert and Rudd's nuptials are just the beginning of a rebirth for Niagara Falls.

Countless people in Western New York, across the country and even the world have parents or grandparents who got married or honeymooned in Niagara Falls.

No public relations campaign in the world could generate that kind of branding to a tourist destination, Percy said.

"We take that for granted," Percy said. "It has developed and been with us for 150 years. ... We need to build and strengthen that brand over the next five to 10 years."

Percy says he believes the Falls is already well-situated to attract gay couples for weddings and honeymoons.

"We're surrounded by rainbows," Percy said. "[We have] Rainbow Boulevard, the Rainbow Bridge. On the gay wedding side, we really have to play off of that."

Others see the opportunity, too.

The Empire State Development Corp. has added a new element to its "I Love New York" tourism slogan. The signature red heart has, in the words of officials, "gone rainbow."

Pastors of local churches, as well as nondenominational groups, say they already have noticed an uptick in wedding requests, and two pastors have already booked same-sex weddings into the fall.

Sally Fedell, president of the Falls Wedding Chapel, received the first call for such a wedding from two women at 9 a.m. the day after the law was passed.

"They were almost giggling over the phone," said Fedell, who already has booked 10 weddings, many for out-of-state couples. "They were just so excited and happy that they could finally get married."

Five weddings have been scheduled for First Congregational United Church of Christ in the city's northern section, and Pastor Marna Pritchard said she has detected a new acceptance of gay and lesbian couples in the community.

"I'm seeing an increase of desire to know how to interact with folks who are in the gay and lesbian community and not be offensive," Pritchard said. "And that's a huge step."

Acceptance is essential to any long-term tourism opportunities that might grow out of the new law, Percy said, noting that his tourism agency also will recommend acceptance training for future vendors at gay and lesbian weddings.

Not all in the region see the law's passage as a benefit.

A protest is scheduled for 3 p.m. today at Buffalo City Hall, and one Falls same-sex marriage activist reported receiving hate mail but said the response has been generally positive.

A Niagara Falls pastor plans a protest rally 10 a.m. Monday on Goat Island.

But any worries Percy had were "diminished greatly" as vendors volunteered their services at the group wedding.

Nearly a dozen local vendors have volunteered to provide free flowers, photography, beverages, staging, tables, music and tents for the group wedding, he said.

Two decorative wedding cakes will be crafted by the pastry chefs at DiCamillo Bakery and adorned with a special touch -- figurines of two brides to top one cake, and two grooms to top the other.

More dollars, more tourism and a growing acceptance of gays all added to the anticipation for this weekend, said Rick Crogan, who plans to marry his partner this evening at the brink of the American Falls.

But he envisions even more for the Falls in the future.

Crogan, president of the Main Street Business & Professional Association, has touted the area west of Main Street -- or "WoMa" -- as an emerging arts and cultural district that he said would be "hip, trendy, the place to be [and] new and cutting edge."

Development of that area, faded since many of the city's department stores closed or moved, has centered around events that have included the Main Street Music & Art Festival in June and a recent garden walk.

In addition, a vacant Main Street storefront soon will be converted into an art gallery, and Crogan helped secure funds for a farmers market set to debut next month.

"Gay people are so used to going into underdeveloped areas and redeveloping them, and they're going to see the potential of Niagara Falls," Crogan said.

Many of the gay couples flocking to the Falls have been together for years, Crogan said, and are in general a stable, professional group with money to invest.

"It's not just gonna be Niagara Falls," he predicted. "It'll be the whole community, Western New York, that will see a positive on it."

News Staff Reporter Kevin J. Bargnes contributed to this report.
cspecht@buffnews.com


I put that in a box instead of " because reading this and the next one are not that important in terms of this blog they are what got me to think about this blog.... If you are reading this hopefully it will make sense.......

Now with this one there is a nice video you can watch on the site of the Buffalo News....


Updated: July 24, 2011, 8:43 AM

NIAGARA FALLS — New York State ushered in same-sex marriage at 12:01 a.m. with the wedding of a Buffalo couple, punctuating the end of a long fight for gay-rights activists.

Kitty Lambert and Cheryle Rudd were wed in Niagara Falls just after midnight.

"By the power vested in me by the laws of the State of New York, I now pronounce you legally married," said Niagara Falls Mayor Paul Dyster, who performed the ceremony, with the Bridal Veil Falls thundering behind him.

After exchanging rings and sending out wishes to 44 states that don't recognize same-sex marriage, the couple danced in the grass near the falls.

Hundreds began gathering on Goat Island earlier in the night, waiting for the two to become among the first gay couples to legally marry in New York State following this morning’s enactment of the Marriage Equality Act.

"We’re so proud of everybody who crawled up this hill with us," a teary-eyed Lambert, 54, said in an interview Saturday evening. "This wasn’t done with just the two of us. Every single person here played a part in getting this law passed.”

Rudd wore a white tuxedo and Lambert wore an aqua blue dress — and both brides made the outfits themselves, at their kitchen table, the same place they started OUTspoken for Equality, the Buffalo-based advocacy group that fights for gay rights.

That fight has been difficult on a personal level for Lambert and Rudd, who have been together for 12 years. Rudd has battled cervical and thyroid cancer, and Lambert has suffered three heart attacks. Each time one was in the hospital, the other struggled through red tape that failed to recognize their relationship.

"By law, because I had my last heart attack in Arizona, if I had died, they wouldn’t have notified her, they couldn’t have notified her," Lambert said. "And those are critical issues, those are critical things that people have to consider."

The couple began receiving guests Saturday evening for two ceremonies. The first was religious and began shortly before 11 p.m.

As a way of showing the different faiths that have actively supported same-sex marriage, clergy from three different faiths oversaw it: Baptist, Jewish and Episcopalian.

It featured a Celtic “hand fasting” ceremony and was capped by the couple dancing to Lady Gaga’s “The Edge of Glory,” after Lambert declared to the crowd “I need Gaga!”

"At this exact moment in time, New Yorkers still stand without any protection,” Lambert told reporters as the sun came down Saturday on Goat Island. "But when that bell tolls with us at midnight tonight, and a new day dawns, literally a new day will dawn in New York. In not just the physical sense, but in that grand romantic sense that things are changing and life is good.”

At the religious ceremony, following a brief reading from Genesis, former Assemblyman Sam Hoyt, D-Buffalo, gave an impromptu address to a loud, cheering crowd. Hoyt was one of the main sponsors of the act, and pointed to Lambert’s “passion and enthusiasm and dedication” as one of the driving forces behind his actions.

“About seven years ago, I met this incredible dynamo named Kitty Lambert. And she, in a lot of ways, changed my life,” said Hoyt, who resigned from the Assembly three weeks ago to take a position in Gov. Andrew M. Cuomo’s administration. “She and Cheryle and a few hours got me focused on the importance of marriage equality, on equal rights for all people.”

As a wedding present to the couple, Dyster personally paid for the falls to be lit the colors of the rainbow past midnight, and presented them with a framed photograph of the falls lit up with those colors.

The event was open to the public and the media. No protesters were seen, something one park ranger said was unexpected but welcome.

Lambert said she and her wife will continue to fight for their rights on a federal level, and encouraged gays, lesbians and LGBT allies in other states to continue forward with her.

“Organize. Speak out. Don’t take ‘no’ for an answer. Don’t go away. Don’t be disheartened. Don’t buy into the nonsense. Organize, organize, organize,” she said. “The arc of history bends in the direction of equality, it always has, and this will change.”
kbargnes@buffnews.com and jpopiolkowski@buffnews.com

So Even though New York state isn't the first state to Legalize same sex Marriage All this stuff in the falls still seems like a big moment in history.... Not only for the state but also for the people getting married ...

So my next thought was that I'm sure there will be lots of pictures and videos and having a great time and it will be on the news.... But is anyone going to film stuff for a documentary .... If so how many.... Or maybe it is to quick and those will be coming up... Would someone maybe do a series about people who come to the falls to get Married and leave all their friends and family behind to move to NYS or City and about the culture shock of from where they lived.... Will people move and will it create a new gay community? Will people film it.... Did it happen in any other of the states?

Of course one can't answer these questions until it happens. I know there is a big small or short film community in Buffalo that I know nothing about so maybe there are a bunch of movies I just wouldn't know of them.....

So if anyone is reading this by now I'm sure they are like "Dude where is the Girl licking someone action you are seeing through binoculars " well it isn't that juicy but maybe if I can find the add On youtube I'll ad it here at the end.....

At work someone not even sure how they work it out brings in a paper but even if they didn't I think I would still read stuff online... I think that reading the news is not just about seeing what is going on in the world it is about seeing what someone else did and they don't see you so why is that any different then being up in a tree or finding a web site that has city webcams..... There used to be one on elmwood and you could watch what went on at Half & Half as an option......

In Terms of places like myspace, Fubar, twitter, google+, Facebook and I'm sure some others there are various things you can do... I think some people join just to play Zombie Pets and some places like okcupid it is all about taking those tests.... But the real reason people join is to live other peoples lives or to see them from behind that tree....... Now not the only reason but I think it is at the core of why those places work.... I think this is true if it is just an update on new hair color or like here where you write an entire blog about something but the blog is a stronger case of this....

Now I know Reality shows get a bad rap... Lets face it does the camera effect things yeah it must.... It isn't like they are hidden.... Does the packs they have to wear yeah the must.... Are they only allowed to go and do certain that change how they act.... Yes ... On MTV there is no TV one reason for that is they don't want people sitting down watching it all day but then also any show that was watched or talked about they would have to get the rights to besides the show that is new would be old by the time everything is taped and aired they could even be a season of some shows maybe 2.... The Point isn't about how real or unreal they are as the viewer we watch yeah some times for the wrecks and drama but also to see how someone lives that isn't us... There is lots of Reality TV I have never seen like the contest ones but a lot of it is very very griping.... You start to feel like you know these people it has happened in the past with me and it is kinda scary......

At some point though Entertainment isn't about us it is about getting into that story. Now TV and violent movies get a bad rap.... Yes watching things blow up is cool.... Watching sports is fun... But the best TV is stuff with action and a good story line (True Blood, Sopranos, Sons Of Anarchy, House, Bones, and Heroes come to mind quickly)... Now you can't live the life of a witch or a vampire but you can live through the story lines.... Now many people get on a soap box and claim how bad tv is how books are the savior... Yes books are good cause reading is important and they help with vocabulary and you visualize stuff and most people don't eat a pizza a bag of chips and a bottle of coke.... But in terms of why people read them it is the same thing. For some books it is a way to escape and be some place else... but for some it is a story line of someone other life some other person... Not saying this is true for all books just like it isn't true of all movies , Documentaries/Reality shows.... But for many of them it is being a Voyeur and there is nothing wrong with that......

Comments please..... Again I assume people read this?

The Phone ad


Guess I should post the Follow up ad as well..... I just wanted to ad I wish I had stuff to talk about like this every day......



On a side not I never prof read blogs I know kinda what I'm going to say so hopefully this made some sense... That doesn't mean you would agree with it though......

07/23/2011 17:16 #54771

Captain America 3D
Category: movies
So Saw Captain America today and I liked it.... Can't really say why to much with out giving any thing away but there is action with a lot of story but the action is good.... But really I think this is true of all comic books that is why they work is from the story... They in this one set up The Avengers and Even have a part of the movie after the credits.... Now in terms of 3D not sure how much there really was... I haven't seen really any of the old Captain America movies so I have nothing to compare it to.....

One Preview I have to say kinda Shocked me...... There is another Spiderman movie coming out... It looks like it doesn't have any of the actors from the other series and there is no Venom or Carnage it is the retelling of an old story and then I saw the the tittle "The Amazing Spiderman" Not sure how much that story is different then the Spiderman comics but they where two different books so........

07/17/2011 10:34 #54715

Buffalo & Italian Fest 2011
Category: photos
So went to the Italian Festival Yesterday for a bit.... I do like the heat but my Irish skin doesn't like the sun.... But my eyes do like the Tan White girls. That being said though it does seem like a lot of things that feel good aren't good for you...Somehow someone needs to figure out how to change that...... In any event Pictures from around Buffalo.... A few pictures of Forest Lawn are taken from the bus so......

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So I should explain that now they have a beer tent.... The stage is covered and they have seats and a little dance floor... and then out side of that they have where you can buy beer.... I thought about it but said nah but that being said I'm sure a Lynchberg Lemonade would be pretty good...

07/10/2011 16:52 #54674

Taste Day 2 2011
Category: photos
So went back for some more today.... Let see if I can remember what I had......

Fat Bob's Texas chili was good......

Papaya had these rib things that where pretty good....

Again Lipton thanks for the free drinks tasty as all ways.......

Tops had free granola of some kind that was good......

Went to the place with the pretty Farmers Daughters and got wings that where good....

That new ice cream place had the small size of cake and eat it to.... Wish I could have got a picture of all the steam that comes off of the ice cream when they open it... It is pretty cool......

The Boneless wings I got where good as well.....

Yes some pictures are before I got to the taste.... After the taste had to Maragitas one frozen and one non man did they taste good........

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Left out that hog Wing and then at BW's I had forget what it was called some kind of chicken pie thing.....
metalpeter - 07/10/11 18:50
Sounds like you had a good time well except for the getting cut part.... Did you pass along my Alt show girls website address to her..... Only kidding....Glad you had a good time....
tinypliny - 07/10/11 18:14
Oooh, the casino girl with the outlandish bird costume was there today and I said hi. ;-)
tinypliny - 07/10/11 18:13
I went today and had two free glasses of coffee (blueberry and nantucket), grass-fed cow's organic milk, some granola cereal, flavoured nuts, flavoured olive oil, some energy jelly beans, lipton blue-berry flavoured chai, lipton mango passionfruit tea - all for free. Hee hee. I spent all my tickets on flavoured almonds and walnuts and then realized that I didn't want anything else. I then saw some crazy egg separation competition and wondered at the insanity of it all... I think they threw all the used up yolks and whites away after the competition. Such a massive waste when people are starving in Africa.

Getting a box of bandages from tops pharmacy tent proved very useful. I sliced open my finger cutting papaya just now.

07/09/2011 17:15 #54673

Day 1? Taste of Buffalo
Category: photos
The Question mark is cause I may go on Sunday we shall see maybe for a bit......

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So lets see the food I had.....
Free samples of that pork steak was like ham but Liked it...

Lipton had tea and then next door kinda they had some kind of mixed drink and where playing dance music it was great..

Danny's Chicken Wing Soup.....

Before Some new place someone's name Parmisen Wings

Tandori had Chicken Curry with rice

The Ice cream place I got Give me Smores

Red Osier was that steak sunday another place has one that is like that but bbq but didn't get it since not a fan of beans....

Oh yeah two Drinks Barcadi Raz and Jack Daniels Lynch-berg lemonade... The thing that is odd about those lemonades is that every company that makes one tastes different... My favorite so far is Mike's out of glass but this one was still pretty good.....

I didn't see any real info on the Morton spurlock movie I want to go see that......

metalpeter - 07/09/11 20:12
Well when taking photos she was at the beginning each time so....

She is the type of girl to try that infused whip cream on well a lot of people could be.....
tinypliny - 07/09/11 19:25
LOL, you are obsessed with that Casino girl. That is quite a costume. :)
metalpeter - 07/09/11 19:12
Couple of things I should add
1. I think that car some of you may have seen before it sure looks like the one they where painting at Allentown West
2. My pictures never are in order.... I think it has something to do with when using chrome you can drag them quicker then they upload but not sure why they don't upload in order but not a big deal really....
3. Like the Fallsview Casino stuff wonder if she will be there on Sunday.... You can't really tell in my photos but they also have a guy in a full Tux and two Ladies at sometimes in lovely black gowns......
4. Some things don't translate in pictures like how the food tastes and the hotness of the people whom ever you are into...
metalpeter - 07/09/11 19:08
well think it ends at 9pm ....Hope you get into something fun... There is also this Echo Art fair at the central terminal but once I saw it was there I ruled it out.... I don't know how to get there safely ..... Yes going home from work I can see it but I don't think a walk through that part of town to catch that bus would be safe..... Maybe you will get something on Sunday.....
tinypliny - 07/09/11 18:46
heh thanks for the virtual stroll (e:metalpeter). It was fun touring the taste of buffalo through your pics. Yeah, I don't think I need to move my lazy self to go there now. You are the best. Let's see, since 11 AM I have had a ceramic-stove-top roasted corn with lime and super-hot garlic and chillie paste, a quinoa salad with crisp red onions, heirloom tomatoes, coriander, blueberries, almonds, cucumbers and cranberries, 10 million cups of 5 different teas, biscoff cookies, one dry pint of just blueberries, one lb of strawberries, 1/2 a massive sweet papaya, a ripe and juicy mexican mango... planning dinner now. :)