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05/01/2010 13:05 #51486

School board update
Buffalo news gives their endorsements for the school board candidate (almost exactly who art voice advises against):




04/30/2010 10:12 #51476

School Board Elections
Get out and vote on May 4th in the School Board election. Even if you don't have children, the success of our schools will impact the success of our city.

This election you're voting for school board representatives of your district. See the map at the bottom of this site to figure out your district:



A Buffalo News Article gives a short summary of all the candidates in the different districts:



At the bottom of an Artvoice article on illegal campaign practices is a list of all the candidates by district.



Buffalo Rising has been covering the north district candidates which covers a lot of North Buffalo and a lot of the Elmwood Village area.





The above article links to each of the candidates websites.

Some information from the Candidates night on Tuesday:



Happy Reading!
himay - 05/20/10 20:47
I know this is totally after the fact, but I just met Patricia Devis tonight (totally coincidental while meeting a potential roommate option). Odd how small a world we live in when stuff like this happens.

I now have a vested interest in what she's supporting, and am going to look into it. What a bizarre way to get more into local politics...
heidi - 05/01/10 16:26
What is the (e:Janelle) endorsement? Who cares about artvoice & buffalo news! :-) I will happily vote for whomever you recommend, Janelle, since you care, you have great ethics & politics, and you're very thoughtful about it. I'm in the central district. I still vote at my usual spot, right?
libertad - 05/01/10 09:12
Thanks so much Janelle for the helpful info. It turns out I am in the Central District and the incumbent is Mary Ruth Kapsiak who it appears wrote in all of her signatures herself? :::link:::

Anyways, not a lot of info to go by but I think I know that it won't be her that I am voting for. I'll try to get to the poll this Tuesday but it is probably the single worst day for me to have to go.
james - 04/30/10 10:49
Just my 2cents, if you have received a large glossy mailer from any candidate, they are being funded by Chris Jacobs: an heir to a large fortune whose political aspirations keep floundering, and now is trying to back the board with a rubber stamp that will make him Board president. Our schools are facing a massive budget shortfall and real leadership on these issues is what we need now, not pawns for some rich boy's political ambition.

04/23/2010 09:18 #51440

Five years down and 45 more to go
Seven and a half years ago, on a sunny August day, I cautiously met some guy from an online site on Temple's campus to grab a bite to eat.

Six years ago came a proposal on a beach in New Jersey while watching the sunrise.

Five years ago we said "I do" and made promises for forever followed by a fabulous and fun party.

Several adventures later, I wouldn't have done it any differently.

Happy Anniversary, Drew!
tinypliny - 04/23/10 22:24
Here's to 1000 more. :) (You could make it with Calorie Restriction apparently...)
james - 04/23/10 21:46
May you litter the streets with your love!

Wait, that didn't come out right.

Happy anniversary.
metalpeter - 04/23/10 18:24
Happy Anniversary
janelle - 04/23/10 13:21
He's required to stay alive and keep it together for at least 50 years of marriage... after that...enh...
heidi - 04/23/10 13:14
Congrats!

(Are you planning to divorce him in 45? Limited time contract? :-)
paul - 04/23/10 12:58
Happy Anniversary
matthew - 04/23/10 10:00
Happy anniversary! I think it might be Lauren & Fellys anniversary too.
mrmike - 04/23/10 09:34
Happy Anniversary

04/11/2010 09:03 #51369

First Vacation with the Kids
Highlights include:

Foster daughter at the zoo constantly asking where the animals were but never looking when we pointed them out.

Foster daughter always having to go poop when out in public and sharing that fact with a large audience of people.

Foster son puking on the steak dinner my father made after my father spent all night talking about how good the steaks were going to be and how expensive they were.

Foster son on the ride home pulling out his little friend and playing with it. I tried to explain that it was for private and not public, but I was laughing too hard and tears were rolling down my face. The husband had to turn around and handle that one.

Foster daughter kept calling the hand dryers in the bathroom hair dryers and kept asking to go outside "bear tracks" instead of bare foot.

Foster son sweetly pushing his sister on the swing. Then trying to push me. But miscalculated his distance from me and ended up being pushed over by me on my way back. He's a tough kid and he got off the ground with a smile. He definitely saw the humor.


ladycroft - 04/29/10 06:39
So I've always wondered with this. Are you allowed to take foster kids on vacation outside your state?

Happy Anniversary :)
mrmike - 04/23/10 09:35
Yeah, all that sounds familar, welcome to parenthood, not like it looks in the brochure.
paul - 04/11/10 21:16
It sounds so fun being parents ;)

04/01/2010 11:56 #51307

It's more than everything changes
when you have foster children. It's all the normal "everything changes" of having children. New people enter your life, new schedules to rotate around, and new rules to follow. But it's a little bit more with foster care.

The new people aren't just school teachers and day care workers. There are the foster children's social workers (so far the number of social workers is at 4 and counting) who in some respects have greater say over the children's lives than we do. And the family members who are all watching us parent a child that biologically speaking is "theirs" and not "ours". All the while we're trying to be charitable with our time; hospitable with our home; and stay on the same page as a good team player.

The new schedule isn't just school and day care, it's regularly scheduled family visitations. So far enjoyable, because it's the only small break we have from the children since we don't have approved babysitters yet.

And it's submitting not to just the usual rules and societal norms of rearing one's children, but also it's submitting to the regulations of the county who ultimately is the temporary guardian of the children.

No complaints here. I'm just musing over the differences between caring for your own children and caring for foster children. If we ever have our own children, I think it will seem so different and less restricting! How will I raise my own children without 4 social workers and permission from the county to take them on vacation (Janelle says in good humor)?




janelle - 04/01/10 18:08
(e:jenks) gave a very good description of foster care. Much better than I give. Lol.

If an opportunity arises to adopt, we may adopt. But we're not counting on being able to adopt through foster care.

Yes, lots of red tape, (e:jason). Personally, it's interesting to be on this side of the red tape because usually I'm the social service worker enforcing the red tape on families and clients and now it's the other way around. Interesting new perspective for me.
tinypliny - 04/01/10 18:02
Ah! Thanks for the clarification (e:jenks)!


How sad for the druggie infants. :(
jenks - 04/01/10 17:54
no no, there's a huge difference. (and Janelle and Drew, please correct me if (when) I'm wrong).

Adopted children are legally "yours". You are their parents, legally.

Foster children... it's almost more like an extended babysitting.
You are raising them since their 'real' home either doesn't exist anymore, or isn't a good environment for them. So foster parents step in to give these children in crisis a stable home, either until their 'real' home gets back under control and suitable for them, or until they are adopted (by other people).

Maybe foster parents adopt their foster kids sometimes- but I think usually people go into it knowing it's temporary- be that months, or years. My friend's mom has been a foster mom for several years now- usually to drug addicted babies that have been taken away from their mothers. She raises them usually for a year or two, until their mothers get clean, or they are adopted by others.
jason - 04/01/10 16:54
A bunch of red tape, apparently.
tinypliny - 04/01/10 16:12
I don't understand this concept. You adopted the kids, they are your's now, no? What is the difference between foster children and adopted children?