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03/27/2009 09:57 #48213

Random Fun
Category: randomo
Felly and I have been looking for a dog for her parents for a while now, mostly via craigslist. The other day we saw an ad for a free mini dachshund and now I have two in my house. Amazingly enough, right now, they are both sleeping and it is pure bliss. However, all of last night and most of this morning (since 8:30am when they woke me up) has been HumpFest 2009 in my living room. Sigh. I am not exactly sure what this is all about...if it is a power struggle or a confusion or simply male bonding. Who knows, but I have never seen red rockets quite like these. It's traumatizing really. Maybe later I will take some photos or video so you too can join in the fun. Tonight Felly is taking the new dog, "Lil Smokey," to her parents house in Lake George, so even though I will be alone tonight, at least I will have a chance to recuperate from HumpFest.


Kids doing crazy things



Animals doing crazy things


03/25/2009 11:24 #48195

Holy Goya! updated
Felly and I finally made it over to Price Rite last night and at this time, I don't think I can make a fair assessment of the place because it was still a mad house there. I can't really function when there are that many folks clammering over turkeys. Felly and I did manage to come out with a 3 dollar turkey and a giant ham, however. Dunno what we are gonna do with them, but they were crazy cheep. I understand now that it is similar to Aldis, which Felly and I frequent for various items, but is terribly far away. I wonder how long it will take for that place to calm down...or will it ever??

Also, I have to say that I have never in my life seen such a giant display of Goya products. All the labels were facing the right direction and the stacks were perfect. I was in awe.


In other news, I am an idiot. I now have a total of 6 weeks to complete my thesis. 6 weeks. I have had almost 4 months and I spent it doing who the hell knows what. Good grief. I am feeling confident about the work that I have already, but the whole putting all together into one thing and then DEFENDING it....jeez louise. Terrifying.


UPDATE
Just got a postcard in the mail about PriceRite from the UFCW

"A PriceRite supermarket is opening in our neighborhood. PriceRite calls itself an 'American Company' and says that the store and its parent company, Wakefern, have a 'commitment to community.' But PriceRite workers aren't so sure....
Workers at PriceRite stores say they've been harassed, threatened and even demoted when they tried to form a union...
Consider shopping Tops instead."

So there is a petition you can sign to allow PriceRite employees to join a union:


and their website

drew - 03/25/09 16:16
I knew it was too good to be true.

Of course, guercio's and weggies aren't union, either. I don't know about Aldi's but my guess is "no." Tops just doesn't measure up.
jason - 03/25/09 11:41
I know you'll do great. Now get to it!! =P

03/16/2009 09:42 #48066

Parade
I was quite surprised by the magnitude of this parade, I must say. I wasn't sure about the whole drinking in the streets thing, so I chose not to buy beer and bring it along with me. Course this later turned into me, (e:felly) and (e:heidi) having to purchase beer at a bar, and then a convenient store, but thats ok. The parade was gynormous and went on for some 3 plus hours I think. So here is some of it.

Why do these people always have to show up?
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These dudes were creeptastic.
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Please note the massive amounts of bouncing curls. This is also creeptastic.
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I love Irish wolfhounds!
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Broken down on the incline.
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I will spare you the massive amounts of Union pictures.


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Weiner Dogs!! Felly and I went home and joined this club!
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Haha...we walked right past the police with our beers in hand... fabulous. Later one of (e:heidi)'s friends asked if they were real cops! Hilarious. Apparently they are.
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And for those of you missed it, please check out my last post about good ideas for entertaining children that are free or cheap. Donkey!
metalpeter - 03/16/09 18:14
Nice Pictures glad everyone had a good time.

03/15/2009 10:39 #48058

Jonas Brothers and...Do you have kids?
I went to see the Jonas Brothers Special Event Concert whatever in 3D yesterday. Holy hell...15 bucks PER PERSON. One for me and one for my TEN YEAR OLD! Are you serious. I kept the glasses. Screw them.

In other news...I am desperately searching for FREE and or CHEAP places to take my kids...ie. places to hike, places to ummm...I dunno.
I am not good at this...I don't have kids. What do you do with them?

Looking particularly in Lackawanna, Hamburg, West Seneca area and Tonawanda. The suggestion box is now open...who knows, yours might be a winner!


Finally, Felly and I will be heading out to the parade today so we are looking forward to seeing folks!
lauren - 03/16/09 09:32
My bad. Yes...kids that are not my own but ones that I work with/for. I usually have about 3 or so hours with each child to entertain them and maybe teach them a thing or two.
carolinian - 03/15/09 20:00
Delaware park's always cheap and fun.
tinypliny - 03/15/09 17:38
It's all happening at the zoo.
drew - 03/15/09 13:32
I think she means TSS kids--right?
janelle - 03/15/09 11:48
You have kids?
metalpeter - 03/15/09 10:44
Cool Hope you two have a great time at the parade. I will be keeping my eyes open for (e:peeps) as well.

Not sure what I should say about the Jonas Brothers. I liked there one performance I saw or maybe I just liked the crazy comedy guy making fun of them and then joking about how he got one of there rings on maybe the MTV music awards some time back. I don't want to ask you what you thought of the most recent south park where they break on them pretty hard?

03/08/2009 13:55 #47987

Posty Post
I'm not quite sure why I'm posting right now...but hey, why not?

I guess I will go ahead and give ye olde college try at the post I've been thinking about posting. Post haste? Posty post.

The comments I received about Octo-mom were what I expected, to say the least. I believe it was (e:jason) who told me that my gut was telling me that I agreed with the comments, and the truth, he is right. And that is the subject that I want to deal with...

I believe that our "guts"..intuition, instinct, whathaveyou, are culturally and socially shaped and manipulated and that often enough, those values that inform our guts are products not of our own making, but reflect and in turn shape the culture that we live in. This is, on a side note, one of my issues with liberalism and individualism that this country was supposedly founded on. I could go off here on about identity politics and the like, but I will refrain.

Yes, my gut tells me that octo-mom is irresponsible. My gut also tells me that I should be afraid of poor neighborhoods were mostly people of color live because they have been labeled "ghettos," places of violence and poverty. My gut tells me to cringe when homeless people come up to me and ask if I cans or bottles or change. My gut tells me that the cranky woman behind the counter at wilson's farms is a rude bitch who needs to effin relax. My gut tells me that my girlfriend never notices that I scoop the kitty litter every day. My gut tells me to tell one of my client's mom that she is fat and lazy and needs to get up off the couch and clean her damn house. When I was young my gut told me that abortion was terrible, until I thought I was pregnant at 15.

So you see, my point is, that if we followed our guts and refused to step back from the situation, we wouldn't get anywhere.

Felly and I were driving home from...somewhere and decided to follow the map via the straightest route, which ended up taking us through a poor part of the city. I felt scared but then began to ask myself, why do I feel this way? What must it be like to live here, to grow up here? How does my skin color, the place where I grew up and now live shape my feelings about this place?

I once had a man come up to me carrying empty bottles who was obviously drunk. I was totally grossed out and wanted to get away from him, but then he said, in reference to Ralphie, " I always wanted a dog." How nice I thought, sarcastically, and then he continued, "I always wanted a dog and mother." Who knows what this guy went through to get there in front of my house carrying empty forty bottles. How lucky am I?

My example could go on, but I don't think they are necessary.

My point is that we have been conditioned to believe that what we "feel" in our guts is our own, is instinctual, natural, objective. But what we fail to remember is that we all come from somewhere. I grew up in a middle class home where my parents were and still are married. That home was in a 99% white, middle class farming community in "upstate" NY. New York is located on the eastern coast of the United States and all of these and more have brainwashed me in some way or another. The amount of possibilities of ways of looking at and living in this world are almost infinite and to think that something is absolute because our guts tell us that something is wrong will get us nowhere.

I guess here is the point where I should be prepared for backlash. I know I am often on here spouting what I think is right and wrong, what my values and morals are. I don't want to put out there that one shouldn't have values, because obviously I do, we all do in some way or another. I guess what I'm calling for is a more rounded, more obtuse approach to passing judgment and making claims of morality. I think that if we could all open up just a little bit more, to see the possibilities of why things are, how they came to be, what they may or may not mean, we might be able to move forward a bit.
tinypliny - 03/15/09 17:41
Did you know that humans are the only species in the whole of the animal kingdom who would get into a confined space with another of their species that they really, truly and instinctually fear?
jason - 03/10/09 00:25
Well, it certainly wasn't my intention to make you question yourself, although it's always healthy to do so. I just felt that in the Octo-mom case that, especially sticking to the facts, your gut was right.
dcoffee - 03/08/09 17:25
excellent stuff, I totally enjoyed reading that. Great examples too, puts things in perspective.
drew - 03/08/09 17:10
You are right--our guts are often wrong.

metalpeter - 03/08/09 15:58
Not really sure where to start to I will say this that you make some good points not that I really agree with them but I also don't really disagree with them either.

One of the best Bumper stickers I think I have ever seen said "don't believe everything you think". At first you don't think anything about it and you might even just think that the word think is the same as read. Then later you think that you should question your ideas and thoughts and morals. But it could even mean more to look at what you think and examine your own bullshit. It could also mean that when we do something we think it is right, but just really think about it. If someone wanted to they could think about what that means and really examine their life or just every day when you think about something try to see it from the other persons perspective. Or maybe it is just a stupid saying. That saying though seems to fit with your view though.

But here is why I kinda don't agree with what you are saying. Yes it is good to question what our gut is telling us. But the thing is our gut tells us something for a reason. I would say the reason is to protect us, but that might not be true but in some it is. Granted you can get attacked, robed, car broken into any place really. But I'm guessing the chances are much higher in a poor neighboorhood. I'm not picking on the poor and saying that steal and attack people. What I'm saying is that people who do that are more likely to live or stay in the bad parts of town.

On a side note being scared does you know good. In fact it is bad for you. Believe it or not some people can read it and it can make things worse. Believe me I know, and I'll leave it at that. What you should be is prepared and quick on your feet. I'm not saying if someone pulls a Knife you should know how kick them in a way that sends the hand with the knife into their own throat but that would be kinda cool. What I mean is that you need to know how to watch what is going on and how to be safe in places that maybe aren't. Like say you are at a food festival don't let those people give you those little papers, HA.


I think that there are many different cultures and some cultures in any city,state,county or country no matter on what level you look. Different cultures often hold different value systems. I'm not saying there values are any better or any worse. But what is important to remember as you say is not Judge people because of those differences. I don't judge them in a they are a sinner kind of way. I try not to Judge them. But that is so tough when you see things that make you want to Judge them.I wish I had a good example. I also think that you should know they Judge us also.

heidi - 03/08/09 15:42
Beautifully said, (e:Lauren). Thank you!