Just 'cause the week will go fast, I'm listing out a few options by date/time. For instance, if you want to do a dance thing, Saturday is probably your best bet. Or next Thurs-Fri on your own.
Fri
SFO 11pm (what airline are you on?)
Maybe a quick Driving Tour and/or walk down to Marlena's for a night cap
Sat

Pacific Heights Mansions Walking tour (11am)

Telegraph Hill hike (1pm)
OAK 8:25pm JetBlue (that's awesome! I thought you weren't getting in until 11pm for some reason. I take back my earlier comment, haha.)

Pop Rocks

at DNA? ($7, 9-4am, the color is green, band at midnight, 375 11th St @Harrison)
Bonus - Look for us on their

webcam.

Art Patch Benefit at 12 Galaxies ($15)

Spike's Vampire Bar (burning man camp) Blood Drive at Porn Palace ($15/$20, 9-3am)

Club 6ix ($7/10, 60 6th St @Market/Mission)
Sun

Victorian SF Walking Tour
Mon / Tues (since you'll be right downtown for the conference

SoMa

Union Square
Wed
OAK 11:15am (get you there around 10:15am)
Thurs
I will be at the Rickshaw Stop Thursday night but you can do whatever you want.
Fri
I have to leave at 6am to catch my flight to Rome. Wish I could stay longer, but I can't keep the Pope waiting, haha.
Whenever

My Neighborhood (Hayes Valley), Civic Center, Alamo Square Park,

Deco Ghetto,

Japantown

Embarcadero

Tea Tasting at Aroma near

Clement

Marina, Chrissy field, Golden Gate Bridge,

Marin Headlands, Sausalito House boats

Golden Gate Park,

The Haight, Ocean Beach

Castro,

The Mission

Chinatown,

North Beach

Pacific Heights, Fillmore, Union Street

Nob Hill, Cable Car museum

Russian Hill

Amoeba Records

Monterey Bay Aquarium

Winchester Mystery House

Gay Bars
After Hours
Most places close at 2am, but there's always

The Endup and a few other

After Hours clubs. (Don't worry, you'll still be acclimated to East coast time anyway, haha.)
fun!
The first one and the third one both look pretty cool but why not go for all 3.