Today's daily lesson is for healing, guidance by Spirit and thanks to God! I've enjoyed the second consecutive day beginning my morning with Bijan's effortless prosperity daily lessons. I had to quell the chatter of my ego somewhat, especially after a mildly restless night. I was expecting a phone call from my employer for the call to action as snow showers persisted throughout the evening. I even kept the phone at my side in bed, a not so pleasant companion. I really wanted a full night's sleep and was delighted that the phone never did ring. However, my ego started telling me things like maybe I got fired and that I should be out working. As I sat in my soul chair contemplating the daily lesson I thanked my ego for sharing, as Bijan taught us to do, and continued to experience the peace and joy of the moment.

There is enough snow on hard surfaces to warrant a clean-up, but nothing that approaches hazardous or even inconvenient conditions for the commuter. I do feel a sense of lingering obligation to provide the snowplow service for my customers. But this is from above the line as I consider the joy it brings from a job well done, not to mention the satisfaction for the client. I fully anticipate that we will be out this evening clearing the light fluffy build-up, at least for our commercial accounts if not residential. Rich has sent us out for less, hence my mild shock that I have not yet heard from him. I suppose it is worthy of miracle status that I was able to enjoy a much needed full night's slumber. In fact, everything falls into "miracle" category when you think about it. It's a miracle to breath, to feel, taste, smell, hear and see. It's a miracle to move the bowels, to smile, to laugh, to cry and to have thoughts. Life is one continues stream of miracles, if only we awaken to its grandeur and beauty.

And so to be guided by Spirit is to remain fully immersed in the present moment. There is nothing so holy as living in the present. I considered during my meditation on the daily lesson where I might go from here were I indeed to actually lose my job. I felt a brief wave of anxiety pour over me followed by complete peace. I do not know where I'd go, but I trust that I would be guided to the next open door if one were to close behind me. I thought back to many years ago when I used to take hikes on a regular basis. I remember wandering in the woods, sometimes aimlessly with no particular destination or outcome in mind. I was never afraid of getting lost or disoriented. There were times of uncertainty, but I just kept moving along and sooner or later I always found my way. I recall specifically a time when my brother and I were hiking in Zoar Valley. Along the trail we encountered a nudist colony enjoying a warm summer afternoon by the riverside. We were uncomfortable at the prospect of our fellow citizens, all of them male and some holding hands. We continued on our way and came to the end of the trail. We had two choices, either turn around and pass by the nudist colony or trudge uphill off the beaten path. We of course listened to our homophobic egos, chose the latter and wound up lost for hours. But we never panicked, despite the expansive sprawl of the 3,000 plus acre forest. We ended up on a road and paid a visit to a home. The woman gladly directed us down the road as we were less than a mile from our vehicle. Even when we listen to our ego we can always tune it out, go above the line and find guidance from Spirit.

It is only a matter of time before I take complete charge of my life and fire my boss. For now I give thanks for all the gifts it brings, not the least of which a steady paycheck with which to pay the bills and bestow blessings upon loved ones. In a couple hours I will be meeting up with friends and treat them to lunch. It brings me such joy to do so. I just updated my list of things-to-do with "taxes" written in large capital letters. I trust that everything will be completed in a timel fashion in way that brings peace and joy. Computing my income tax refund has always been an effortless process for me. I am feeling some resistance this year as for the first time I have income to report that has yet to have taxes deducted, vis 1099 form. I kept an extensive file of my expenses with receipts and hope that I can write off most, if not all of the figure. But I'm really not sure exactly how to proceed as this is new for me. I put it out there that whatever the result it will be completed effortlessly. So whether that means finding the joy in tallying all my business-related expenses and entering the data into an on-line tax service, or perhaps that I attract an accountant who will accomplish the task for a fair trade in return, is incidental. I proceed guided by Spirit today and offer thanks to God!

One Love
Sean

Did you know, SEAN, that the average person looks 793.7% more attractive when they smile? Not to mention healthier, wiser, slimmer, richer, and cooler.

They do.
And smiles "become things" too -
The Universe

January 29, 2007
Pushing Your Limits
Libra Daily Horoscope

A rush of energy can inspire you to challenge yourself today, prompting you to participate in activities that test your stamina, strength, or intelligence. You may discover upon entering into such battles of skill, sport, and wit that you are invigorated by the difficulties inherent in competition-whether you are pitting yourself against a rival or against yourself. Should these pursuits require you to broaden your horizons through practice or education, you will likely eagerly explore new worlds of experience. Your efforts can introduce you to aspects of your talents and skills that you never knew existed, and the resultant revelations can persuade you to continue to pursue achievement in unfamiliar quarters. Today may be the day you realize that your potential is greater than you had ever dreamed possible.

We discover that our individual limitations reach far beyond the boundaries we had previously assigned to ourselves when we immerse ourselves vigorously in the activities that energize and excite us. It is when we participate in pursuits we enjoy that we are most willing to extend ourselves physically, emotionally, and intellectually. Because we have little fear of failure-as we recognize that mistakes and mishaps are natural aspects of individual growth-we dedicate our bodies, minds, and souls to the challenges before us. We feel good knowing that we are reaching past the borders of our comfort zones with some degree of success, and are thus encouraged to continue our explorations. You will feel strong and accomplished today as you push yourself past the arbitrary limits that once held sway over your conduct.

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I am so much joy and gratitude this morning. I am doing excellent! The title of this blog post was inspired by a truncated message on the back of a bus as I gazed out the window from the classroom at yesterday's "Clearing to Manifest for 2007" seminar in Niagara Falls. I was like, "Hmm, now that's an exciting oracle!" Indeed, the 2 day seminar with Bijan served its purpose enabling me to clear negative belief systems and thus raise my vibration. I really am beginning to know what it means to be high on life! I could feel my shoulder ache all day yesterday and at one point there was a burning sensation. I affirmed that it was simply healing as I released whatever belief I had been carrying that caused the injury in the first place. This morning there is no pain or even the slightest discomfort. I also thank Tara for a most gratifying massage, which really set the tone for the ensuing 36 hours of peace and joy!

It was so powerful to sit and laugh for hours while Bijan fielded questions from the group of about 60 people. He shared many anecdotes which served to buttress the focus of his teachings on effortless health, prosperity and relationships. The man has an incredible sense of humor, which is really an excellent tool for assisting people in opening up to release the negative belief systems that keep them from truly enjoying the gift of life. It's not so much the information mind you, rather it is the feeling or vibration that he sustains. As he calls it "above the line." Remaining in such a space of peace and joy invariably empowers others to slough off layers of karmic non-sense and naturally ascend into higher states of consciousness. The ego has a way of keeping us "below the line" if we give our power away to it. 2007 is the year like no other whereby energies are coming to the planet assisting us in moving above the line once and for all. It will be extremely uncomfortable for those who resist this change, for it is unfamiliar. The death knell has been rung for the ego. It's time to let go and let the Higher Self, the Truth shall set us free!

On lunch break my five lovely companions and I migrated down the road in search of sustenance. We were of one mind on an Indian buffet, but turned out it was closed. We wandered about only to come across two more restaurants not yet open for business. I was getting aggravated as I noticed my energy dipping below the line; however, my cohorts did their part to keep the positive vibes flowing shouting out gratitude as we scurried hither and tither. Shivering from the icy breeze we made way for the Casino seeking a trip to the Grand Buffet. Instead we opted for the food court taking up a seat in the impressive glass and steel structure with the thundering Falls just a few hundred yards away. I scarfed down a couple slices of pizza to appease a voracious appetite while the girls enjoyed various fast food selections. We thought we might be late as the lunch hour had quickly lapsed, but when we returned the room had been perhaps half full as others straggled back to settle in for the afternoon stretch run.

We began the afternoon dancing to Bijan's hip hop recording, "It's Mine!" It was somewhat goofy, but most everyone loosened up and shook their booty singing along as good vibes prevailed. Bijan lead us in a couple of meditations in between more Q&A, including a very beautiful guided meditation with his voice playing the role of God answering questions from the voice of a child. It was sufficient to bring tears to my friend Beth's eyes and I definitely felt myself open even more in the heart chakra. It's such a powerful healing that people have to be already rather open to receive. Bijan noted how everyone in attendance is very much at the forefront of the emerging consciousness, i.e. "above the line." Perhaps in a few years his seminars will be conducted with hundreds if not thousands in attendance as more humans open to their true nature as "fingers of God." We are magnificent and powerful beyond our wildest imaginings, if only we can open up and let go of many lifetimes' burden.

The highlight of the weekend occured for me following the seminar when I spoke with Bijan. I thanked him for his wonderful teaching and inquired if he'd be willing to conduct a seminar in Buffalo the next time he is in our corner of the Universe. He responded with enthusiasm indicating that he actually flies into Buffalo when he comes out this way and would be happy to offer an evening session. I'd like to host it at the The Hall at Asbury Church where Ani Difranco converted a crumbling old Presbyterian monolith into a divine center for creative arts. We'll see how it all flows between now and then, but I'm excited to know that he will indeed include Buffalo on his itinerary toward the end of April. The first weeked of May he will be conducting a 3 day event in Toronto which I hope to attend as well. In my opinion, you can never get too much of such an inspiring, life-transforming message and presence. Who knows, maybe one day I'll be conducting similar events?

Tara purchased a 2 for 1 deal for the Toronto seminar and I expressed interest in the extra ticket. Beth debated on doing the same and chose not to make the investment for now while Carey put it out there that she would like to participate, although she's not presently in a position to secure her pass. It would be nice to go up again with a group, split the cost of travel and lodging, but moreso to enjoy one another's company. On the drive home I asked the others if they wanted to grab a bite to eat and we agreed upon a return trip to the Falafel bar where had enjoyed dinner Friday before the start of the seminar. As we drove around looking for a parking space along the bustling Elmwood Strip Laura called and asked if we wanted to meet up with she and Taina at India Gate. So we made our way yonder to satisfy an earlier urge and unite the crew for a most appropriate meal to close out the weekend's festivities. Following dinner Beth and I dropped by the Chocolate Bar to wish a friend happy birthday, but he was no where to be found. I bought a dark chocolate bar as we headed out only to bump into David who had seen us walking by the adjacent restaurant where he and friends were finishing up dinner. So we said hello, exchanged hugs and well-wishes before departing. Upon arriving home I said good night to Beth and proceeded to pass out in my soul chair in contemplation of all that had been. I slept very sound last night with some vivid dreams including an appearance by the gorgeous waitress at the India Gate. Hmm, maybe I should ask her out?

Today is a quiet day of rest and reflection. I have plans later for practice with a singing group up on the reservation. It will be the final of three meetings to rehearse several sweat lodge favorites before we begin recording to produce a copy with intentions to market. Following rehearsal I have plans to meet up with my parents, sister, her husband and my brother for dinner. I'm going to bring an old-fashioned style sourdough pizza to go with the chicken Ceasar salad my mother is preparing. It will be a delightful gathering over a delicious meal. Gathering with loved ones brings me such joy. And if there's a guiding intention for my life, that which brings me joy will suffice. Blogging brings me joy, as does singing, meditation, landscaping, travel, love-making and so much more. Now, what shall I do next that brings me joy? Hmm....

One Love
Sean
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January 28, 2007
Discovering Your Worth
Libra Daily Horoscope

Opportunities to share your abundance with others will likely be plentiful today. Even if you usually spend little time engaging in charitable pursuits, you may find yourself endeavoring to make yourself useful in the lives of people in need. A sense that your existence is gaining new significance with every good deed can inspire you to help more people, or to devote more of your time to philanthropy. As upbeat as you feel, you may derive an even greater sense of pleasure from the warm gestures of gratitude offered to you by those who receive your aid. Today may be the day that making a difference becomes a top priority in your life.

We naturally feel most worthy when we are engaged in activities that enable us to make a positive difference in the lives of others. The simple fact that there are people who depend on us lifts our spirits and demonstrates that we have an intrinsic value that spans beyond our own affairs. Consequently, our self-esteem skyrockets as we observe the impact our actions and choices have on those who benefit from our willingness to help our sisters and brothers in humanity achieve prosperity. Few pleasures affect us more deeply than that which we experience while selflessly serving others. We not only feel the sublime joy of giving, but also are inspired to continue applying our efforts to the cause of promoting widespread wellbeing. You will feel a wonderful sense of satisfaction today when you devote your time and energy to helping others.

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A stack of corn flapjacks smothered in blueberry compote and whip cream at the IHOP has me satiated and plenty grounded. I've in mind the name for a philanthropic venture with similar letters to form the acronym IHP- Insitute for Human Potential. Who knows, maybe the IHOP would sponsor the IHP and serve pancakes in the cafeteria? Dare to dream and then dream bigger!

The chicken souvlaki I ate for dinner with my parents last night never was amazing. I don't know what it was, but it was like orgasmic. My mother is a wonderful cook, but it had to be more than just the flavorings. She must have put some real loving vibes into that food. It was just what I needed and I thanked her for a truly satisfying meal. After dinner I made my way over to my sister's place to take in the NHL All-Star game. I called her on the drive over to see if she would like a cup of Tim Horton's coffee, to which she eagerly accepted the offer. When I arrived she was sitting in the living room with her cat Johnny on her lap gently caressing him. I took up a seat on the sofa across from her and enjoyed a visit over coffee. We played with the pets, her miniature schnauzer Dude and the cat. It was the first time that I can recall spending "quality time" with my sister in years.

At dinner with my parents I learned for the first time that she was nearly victimized while on a vacation with her now husband Gary. She had become angry at him and walked out of a bar in Miami only to be surrounded by four men who proceeded to forcefully escort her off to God knows where until a gentleman happened to take notice and gave them some grief distracting them enough to enable my sister to break loose and escape. A guardian angel perhaps? I know what it's like to be helplessly attacked and I wouldn't wish it upon my worst enemy, nevermind my sister. So we watched the game, which was rather uneventful other than Sabres' star Danny Briere earning MVP honors with a goal and 4 assists, second highest point total in All-Star history. I was going to leave after the first period, but wound up staying until the end, including a few beers. I came home and felt rather tipsy. I hadn't any booze since before New Year's. I think I needed it though to balance some of the intense energy shifts taking place. I slept very sound.

I had a cool thing happen while I was on my walk yesterday. As I turned out of my driveway heading along the same route I take nearly every day I noticed a big, plump red-tail hawk perched high up in a maple. His cream-colored breast plummage thrust forward and streamline head on a turet standing confidently like a sentinel. I whistled up at him doing my best to mimic the screeching call, "Krrrrrrr!" I did this several times and as I walked right beneath him he peered down as if to acknowledge me. I felt so connected. Everything wants to be noticed. As I completed my 3 mile loop rounding the last corner with a chill to the bone I noticed a large raptor swoop into another maple. I was awestruck. It was as if he came back to say hello and thank me for taking notice.

The hawk has always symbolized freedom and opportunity to me. Years ago a friend found a juvenile bird of prey on the side of the road with head trauma. He didn't know what to do and thought of me as someone who might be able to take care of the injured animal. I was honored, but of course had no experience with wildlife rehab. I took the animal in and set up a rubbermaid tote as a makeshift nest. I said a prayer as I held him for his healing. I went to the pet store and purchased a little white mouse, which the young raptor immediately appreciated. I had the animal in captivity and nursed it for 3 days. When I came home from work one day I noticed the tote was empty. I was like "O shit!" I went upstairs into the attic and there he was perched atop a reinforcing truss across the rafters. I approached him and he allowed me to take him into my hands. I walked downstairs and out onto the back porch where I set him free watching with a tear in my eye as he flew off for a new beginning. To this day the hawk is for me a most powerful oracle. I'll never forget that moment.

I also had a powerful moment of gratitude and vision the night before last while out on my plow route. I was snowblowing the walkways at the largest of my commercial properties. It takes about 15 minutes to clear all the walks and entrances to the building, even with only a few inches of snow. As the icy wind cut through the dark and whipped the snow back into my face coating me from head to toe I imagined as if I were somewhere else. I could feel as if I was somewhere tropical, like a beach in Costa Rica for instance as a wave of gratitude came over me. It was like a confirmation message from the Universe that indeed the vision I've held for many years is well on its way to me. I know for certain that next winter I will be in a position to migrate and enjoy a winter sabbatical in favored tropical climes. Suddenly the snowblowing became effortless. A person's faith is measured not according to when s/he talks, but rather when s/he is working.

I'm anticipating a phone call here any minute as Thursday is the designated day for the boys from work to convene and engage in a match of No Limit Texas Hold-em. If that doesn't come to fruition then I'm thinking about lunch with my brother-in-law at Colter Bay where my sister is employed as a server. I'd prefer to continue my respite from the rigors of a 23 hour stint the day before last, although I feel nearly caught up on my sleep deficit. By tomorrow I expect that I'll be back to par, barring another snow event. The forecast is calling for icy temps, but no significant accumulations. We'll see. Later this evening I have plans to host some friends for a creative evening of self-expression and manifestation. We will be working on crafting "vision boards" as a tool to help us gain clarity on our individual visions for the future. I have a stack of mags from recent years' subscriptions just waiting to be of service. My aunt was complaining the other day about all these magazines showing up unexpectedly to her address. I gladly took them off her hands and invited her to pass along any others she might receive. The Universe does work in mysterious ways.

One Love
Sean

Permission, SEAN, is what you give yourself.

I give you everything else.
The Universe


January 25, 2007
Lost in Beauty
Libra Daily Horoscope

Your creativity can serve you well today, whether you are endeavoring to complete a professional project or concentrating your attention on a hobby from which you derive pleasure. You may find yourself infusing everything to which you apply yourself with an atmosphere of artfulness that affords others a unique opportunity to appreciate beauty in everyday objects. The main beneficiary of your imaginative labors, however, will likely be you, as your devotion to loveliness ensures that your thoughts remain positive and upbeat at all times. You may also enjoy expanding your horizons through creative activities today, and the curiosity that blossoms within you as you create can become the seed of a lifelong quest for beauty.

It is easy to put aside worldly cares when we lose ourselves in the beauty we are capable of creating, using little more than our imaginative minds. Our thoughts naturally revolve around all that is good and true rather than the challenges that are circumstantially thrust upon us in our daily lives. Because we are immersed in the rushing flood of the creative flow, we have little time or energy to devote to topics that fall outside of the range of our imaginations. The world is a much more pleasant place when we observe it through perception that is colored by our innovative vantage points. We can appreciate the loveliness that is inherent in simply living, without giving regard to the tension that is an established part of being. Your creativity will make the world seem like a brighter place today.

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Booyakasha! 770 visits to my blog so far this week as of this writing, must be my profile headline, "Warning rated NC 17 for adult content." Of course, I might have attracted some pervs with my recent graphic descriptions in the sex and romance category. I know I lost one subscriber who said she is not interested in reading about sex or talking about it. Her loss. Once again I defer to that wise old cat in a hat Dr, Suess, "The people who mind don't matter and the people who matter won't mind." Put that in ur pipe and smoke it! So tell me, I'm curious, is arrogance ever "founded"? Just wondering.

The coldest air mass of the winter season has taken hold of our region with temps in the single digits to start the day. I was called in to work last night, thankfully I did not have to exit the vehicle. I made a few passes along the edges at my commerical properties to tidy things up. If I had been really dedicated I would have swept the entirety of the paved surfaces, but I had a self-imposed curfew of 11 PM to honor. It really was silly for Rich to have us go out to address less than an inch of fine white powder. I had company over for vision boarding, which made for a very fun, albeit truncated evening gathering. I had to give my delightful guests the boot so I could be on my way to answer the call to action. I look forward to our next vision boarding night, perhaps next Thursday weather-permitting.

In the news, Labatt USA is moving its headquarters from Connecticut to Buffalo and with it 20 new sales and marketing positions, not to mention corporate sponsorships and an infusion of much needed extra-municipal dollars. The possibility of a Labatt pond hockey tournament here is now quite likely. I'm sure the Buffalo Sabres organization would support as a co-sponsor for a marketing opportunity and community out-reach. I for one would love to put together and participate on a team of cousins and friends in the popular tournament. Hell, I'd even offer to help organize the damn thing. I suppose Hoyt Lake behind the Albright-Knox would be the most logical choice, that is if they can flush the remaining deposits of anti-freeze dumped into the lake years ago by a disgruntled former parks commissioner. Winter activities and events are essential not only for individual fitness and health, but also as a means to build a tighter-knit community. A city that plays together grows together.

I feel much lighter after yesterday's lunch passed through my system a short while ago. I gorged myself on taco pizza, a mango black bean burrito and chicken-sausage gumbo washed down with a pint of Smuttynose nut brown ale for lunch at Colter Bay yesterday. I was so packed all I had for dinner was an energy bar. My sister joined her husband and I at the bar for a delicious feast. It was dead thanks to the frigid temps enabling her to break shift. We ended up spending over 2 hours hanging out and chatting. Erinn proposed a tubing outing this weekend in Colden, but I won't be able to join in the fun with my plans for the Effortless Prosperity seminar. I suggested that she re-schedule for next weekend since I would really like to tag along. Our cousin Peter has a gorgeous 4 bedroom chalet just up the hill from Kissing Bridge where we could go afterward to thaw out, perhaps a soak in the hot tub and a cocktail. Mmmmmmmmm...

Well I'm totally stoked for this evening's itinerary. I will be joined with an entourage of 8 lovely Goddesses to attend Bijan's Effortless Prosperity seminar in Niagara Falls, Ontario. I have a massage with my friend Tara booked for this afternoon. Following the massage our group will be gathering to enjoy some take-out from the Falafel Bar before making way for our beloved neighbor to the north, O Canada! They really do have a much better national anthem than ours. Listen to the lyrics before the next Sabres' game. The Star Spangled Banner is all ego-based glorification of war and violence while Canada's is like a beautiful prayer, "God keep our land glorious and free..." Gives me the spine tingles, but then to be honest, so does the U.S. anthem, "...o'er the land of the freeeeeeeeeeeeeee and the home of the brave!"

One Love
Sean

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How could it be difficult, challenging or hard, SEAN, when so many others have done it?

You know, anything. For instance, to be happily in love with my soul mate.
Don't you love good news?
The Universe

January 26, 2007
Reserves of Strength
Libra Daily Horoscope

Your resilience under pressure can surprise you today and you may subsequently wonder where the courage and strength you have lately exhibited is coming from. As circumstances force you to confront stressful situations directly, you will likely respond by holding your ground steadfastly and doing all you can to ensure that your needs are met. You may literally feel stronger and more adaptable than usual today. Or, when dealing with those issues in which you have no opportunity to retreat, you may not even be cognizant of the change taking place within you until much later. To nurture this growing strength of will, reaffirm your personal power by both celebrating your successes and calling upon them for encouragement when fear strikes.

We frequently discover that we are stronger than we previously imagined possible when we choose to face challenging circumstances head-on with courage and determination. While we may at first doubt that we are capable of coping with the difficulties before us, we instinctively tap into our innate reserves of strength when confronting our fears. As we learn about the true range of our valor, each of the instances in our past in which we exhibited bravery serves to inspire and encourage us. We eventually feel well-equipped to embark upon journeys of courage that require us to expand the horizon of our boldness because we understand that as we grow as individuals, we will reach new plateaus of power. You will face adversity with daring audacity today when you rely on your copious inner strength.

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You stay awake for nearly 24 hours straight and you're going to get grumpy, if not delusional. Last night's outing did not conclude until I hit the pillow around 2 AM this morning after arising the previous day around 3. But thanks to my responsible and devoted nature people awoke this morning to cleared drives and parking lots. I fought heavy eyes for the last 2-3 hours while finishing up my route. The cup of coffee I had around midnight gave me ups for about 30 minutes max as I was clearing my uncle's car wash lot. I also took care of my parents and sister's place. It's just one of many ways that I express my love. It really would be nice if more peeps would appreciate the plowman, rather than get ticked off as he tirelessly toils. On my way to Wegman's this morning for coffee this chick in a Jeep was right on my tailgate and then darted in front of me at the next traffic light. Like I said, you don't get enough sleep and you're on edge. This is perhaps the most important foundation to my overall wellness. I got my button pushed and thrust open the truck door met with a honk by the driver next to me who may have been concerned that I was going to snap. Well I did, but not to the point of anything regrettable. As she sped away from the light I made a turn into the parking lot and noticed that she too was headed for the same destination. I watched as she parked across the lot from me and wanted to pay her visit just to share of piece of my exhausted mind, but she had quickly scurried inside the store. My vibration is down and I need to be careful of what I attract right now. Today is a day of down time and rest, a mental health day if not physical.

I hope the ups from the cup of French Press rain forest coffee I just consumed persists for the duration of this post. I can already feel it wearing off as I type. But as I can not sleep during the day I must carry on in sleep deprivation until the evening hours. Before my afternoon's repast of pancakes I was enjoying a wonderful IM with my dear friend Jerog, one of many amazing peeps I've met here on myspace. No, we didn't get naughty today as she wasn't feeling sexual, nor was I much "up" to the task in my current state of exhaustion. Besides, all I need right now is another myspace romance. Instead we enjoyed a dynamic and uplifting exchange including talk of planning a Contiki tour in Europe before October 2008. The outfit is geared for peeps ages 18-35 and so the cut off for me is my 36th birthday in about 21 months. That's plenty of time for the Universe to line it up. In the meantime, we've talked about perhaps going into business together. She's quite the savvy and sophisticated entrepreneur with real estate investments, on-line marketing credentials, massage therapy and a full-time gig selling insurance. Oh and did I mention she's fuckin hot? I also received a very important message through her when she shared with me a consultation she had with a holistic practioner. She was told that sex and food will help to ground her. Immediately a bell rung for me as just last night I was contemplating why all of a sudden such intense sexual energy for me. And it made sense. I've been going through such intense vibrational tranformation of late that my body is in need of balancing, hence the increase of release of late. I've also been eating heavier foods, including a visit to my parents' house last night for some beef stew, and lots of pancakes, tacos and subs have been the staple of my diet in recent weeks. Of course being that these are the winter months I am adding a noticeable layer to my mid-riff; however, it's nothing that landscaping won't melt away come spring.

Yesterday I got word from a friend that an old friend had crossed over. I hadn't heard my phone ring and so upon listening to the voice mail I could feel my heart sink as I remembered back years ago when Chris and I would hang out amongst friends. I was never real close to him, but there was a period in my life where he was present during some of my first major changes as a young adult. I remember smoking a lot of weed in our circle of friends, which included my cousin. We also went out to the woods a few times and tripped on LSD wandering like fools for hours with giggles at every comment or visual distortion. Yes, it was a time in my life when my future was wide open and with it the field of possibilities endless. It wasn't long thereafter I had gone off to school and endured the most arduous period of my life, both mentally and emotionally. Indeed, Chris' passing is very symbolic of yet another metaphysical layer from my past sloughing off. I'm not one who chooses to peer into the past for any length or depth, but as a tribute to my friend I have this to offer. R.I.P.

One Love
Sean

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Tallyho,
The Universe


January 23, 2007
Your Comfort Zone
Create A Soft Place To Land

Our day-to-day demands can quickly take their toll on our well-being if we are not vigilant about caring for ourselves as best we can. One way we can ensure that we have an opportunity to relax and recuperate each day is to create a soft place to land when we arrive home. This landing pad, whether it is an entire room or merely a small corner of a larger area, can provide us with a safe and comforting refuge in which we can decompress and recover from the day's stresses. There, we are enveloped in feelings of security that transcend other issues that may be unfolding in our homes. Our landing pads also act as way stations that enable us to shift our attention away from our outer-world concerns and back to our inner-world needs.

To create a soft place to land in your home, begin by scouting potential locations. Or perhaps your entire home is your landing pad in which case you may only need to declutter. Your habits can often provide you with insight into the perfect spot, as there may be an area of your home you gravitate to naturally when you are in need of comfort. Any space in which you find it easy to let go of stress and anxiety can become your landing pad. A basement or attic, spare room, or unused storage area, furnished with items that soothe you, can give you the privacy you need to unwind. If you appreciate the elements, you may find that spending time in a section of your garden or outdoor patio helps you release the day's tensions. Preparing these spaces can be as easy as replacing clutter with a small selection of beautiful objects that put you in a relaxed frame of mind. Remember to consider noise and activity levels while choosing the site of your landing pad. If you know that ordinar! y human commotion will distract you from your purpose, look for a secluded spot.

The soft place to land that you create should inspire within you the mantra, "I can breath here. I can relax here. I know I am safe here." When you return to your home after braving worldly rigors, you will feel a subtle yet tranquil shift occur inside of you as you settle in to this most personal of retreats and feel centered once again.

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