As I'm sure a lot of you know there is a new "shitrag" as
(e:jason) might call it called BUFFALO CURRENT. (I assume it is new and not the beast repackeaged, if you want to find out where there are a lot of strip clubs pick up nightlife magazine they have a lot of strip clubs listed in the back) I picked one up for two reasons there is an article I havn't read about Buffalo getting a stripclub or would that be not getting one. Plus my former bosses brother is a basketball coach and it might be interesting to read about him. Here is the part that I don't get. Why can't there be a Strip Club in Downtown Buffalo. I heard it wasn't the type of entertainment or venture that they are looking for. The same people who say this think A casino is Ok and and all the chipewa bars. For those of you who don't rember there used to be strip clubs there. I wasn't old enough to go. There is a strip club called the Colony in north buffalo. Not sure if Club Chit Chat is techniquly in Buffalo or not. But I think there is nothing wrong with having a strip club above a localy owned downtown restruant. Yes plays, galleries,sports, gambiling, drinking and finding a girl to take home with you is all fine and I don't have a problem with any of it. But I think it is hypocritical to say it is ok to get crazzy on the chip strip and bet all your money away but you can't look at topless girls dancing as you eat or drink. I think that what makes an area of a city or town is diversity. I will use Downtown toronto as an example. I don't know a lot about it so this is all just from personal knowledge. To me China town is part of downtown. You have small shops, places to eat, adult bookstores, various places to eat chains and non chains, drug stores, stripclubs, Theatre, movies, sports (leafs, raptors, blue Jays, the rock, The Argonots), The Eaton Center, and things at Dundas Square. I think that is what get people to come someplace. I have never been to NYC. But if I went to see {don't remeber the exact name of it} the stage verision of Monty Paythons Holy grail I would want to do more then just that. I would like to Visit Fuze, MTV, Hardrock cafe, Statue of liberty, maybe a rangers game and some fun at night. I don't think a city should turn down something down because it isn't part of what they think fits the city. Maybe some people who normally go see hot young girls in falls would go see the tamer Downtown version. Plus who is to say that once the casino is bulit that the Indains won't put a strip club on there land, who knows. It just pisses me off when everyone gets overly political and they wind up stopping things from happening. I don't think I'm ever going to see a new bridge built to canada. If this was a little ranty sorry, just wait untill I read the article maybe it will change my view a little.
I hope that the pictures I added to the post help to show my point. Since I have gotten the digital camara I do have Toronto pics but not as many diverse places as i would like. But I think that some of these pictures help to show what I mean. Yeah so one of the places I thought had a funny name. I don't think I have posted any of these pics before if I have sorry
I understand exactly what you are thinking about, Metalpeter. Sexuality and gender are confusing, and often very complex. It's not all "black and white" as the saying goes. Sometimes, there are some of us in which there are more grey areas. And that is for both gender identification and sexuality. We are all different. And even those of us that are straight when it comes to preference and feel like the gender we were born, we have all sorts of different preferences. I used to think my taste in men was very defined, that i would end up with a certain type of man. But then i met (e:uncutsaniflush) and all that went out the window... and i sure am glad i ended up with him!!!
I remember a long long time ago someone told me that gay folks were mentally ill. I never believed it. However - someone who was born X gender and swears on the holy bible they are Y gender...up to the point they are willing to go through the gruesome cock-splitting operation....yeah I wonder about them.
I totally followed you. I jump on the last part:
Made me think of a friend of mine who was born a girl, but entirely identified themselve as being a guy. I knew them as a male.. yet I knew otherwise. He dated girls, but for a long time I didnt understand why they didnt call themselves a lesbian. Well, it took a long time for me to figure out that they were, in fact "straight", because they figured themselves as male. Eventually this person started the transformation.. psychologists, hormones, etc.
Speaking of seeing us soon, are you gonna come to the party on Saturday? Hope to see you there.