I've officially ended things with Mr. Broadway. It's a long story, but I felt the need to send him an email explaining to him exactly why. The original was slightly vengeful. I sent the modified one to Tom so he could give me his thoughts. This is our conversation:

Tom: was that the toned down one?
Jessica: yes
Tom: wow...it was more sharp than that?
Jessica: do you not know me?
Tom: ok...it was kind of rhetorical
Jessica: the orginal had more of a fuck you tone
Tom: and that one didnt?!!?
Jessica: that was my "taking the higher road" tone
Tom: with a double middle finger salute as you walk down that road

Apparently 2009 has the theme of do the exact opposite of what is a good choice (it kinda fits the theme of 2005-2007). Anyway one of those wrong choices is my not so secret obsession with loving to hate vapid, self absorbed, unaware girl blogs. So there's one blog that I kinda heart. It's Jullia Allison's blog. I kinda feel like if I hadn't had any hardship in life I could have very possibly turned into her (note: I'm glad life didn't turn out that way because despite all the qualities I dislike about me, I think I actually have some pretty good qualities too). So really the point of this is. I love this blog entry of hers:



Me:
Is it okay that I wear the EXACT SAME OUTFIT on every single first date?
Lilly:
[licks the ground]
Me:
I'm going to take that as a "yes."

Incase you didn't want to click over above is the entry. Lilly is her cute puppy.

I do the same exact thing! Once you have a good date outfit why change it? Mine is this black cashmere v-neck button down. It's soft and snuggley. The boys like it

And this is a break down of why:

I'm looking for some recs on Hotels in Buffalo. My Mother and I are coming to Buf-a-ho for the birth of the first Ho grandchild. My Mom doesn't want to impose on her friends for too long and wants to stay in a hotel for the weekend that I'll be there. I said I'd stay in one as well and split the cost. My first choice was the Mansion on Delaware, but it's pretty expensive (WTF $300 for a hotel in BUFFALO in FEB?!). Adams Mark only has smoking rooms (again I didn't think they existed anymore). Ideally I'd like to stay downtown-ish so I can booze it up and hang out.

Suggestions?

Srsly can she be any hotter?

Sometimes I even amaze myself with the delicious things I cook. Below is a soulvaki that gives Pano a run for his money.